Anyone ever get paranoid/scared about there girlfriend leaving u

[Honkey_Kong]

maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol

or if she evers goes to a club with her mate, she rarely does anyway and makes out with someone there. FUUUUUUCK always makes me so angry thinking about that. EVen tho she wouldnt, and we have a big holiday/familys wedding booked end of this year so would stuff things up BADLY if we broke up lol

Usually, if you're paranoid about your girl leaving you, there is real trouble in paradise that you're perceiving. Is she "going out with her friends" more? Is she being more secretive around you? Not willing to let you see who she's texting with? Etc?

So your girlfriend goes to clubs on rare occasions and makes out with people there? Or are you just paranoid she will if she did? Look at it like this, if SHE did then it's just you two weren't meant to be. It sucks, but it's not the end of the world. Airline flights and hotel reservations can be canceled and if they can't, they aren't going to break the bank.

The bottom-line is don't worry about it. If she does ever leave you, there is nothing you can do about it. You just can't stop being yourself, so don't stress on it. I mean if the actual warning signs are happening you probably should have a civil conversation with her about it, but don't get worked up about it regardless of her answers.

But yeah, Dude, you could do some nice things for her like take her out some place fancy, or buy her flowers or something corny like that. But if you have to do that stuff to "win" her over, you've already lost her.

[ElectraMaddox]

Usually, if you're paranoid about your girl leaving you, there is real trouble in paradise that you're perceiving. Is she "going out with her friends" more? Is she being more secretive around you? Not willing to let you see who she's texting with? Etc?

So your girlfriend goes to clubs on rare occasions and makes out with people there? Or are you just paranoid she will if she did? Look at it like this, if SHE did then it's just you two weren't meant to be. It sucks, but it's not the end of the world. Airline flights and hotel reservations can be canceled and if they can't, they aren't going to break the bank.

The bottom-line is don't worry about it. If she does ever leave you, there is nothing you can do about it. You just can't stop being yourself, so don't stress on it. I mean if the actual warning signs are happening you probably should have a civil conversation with her about it, but don't get worked up about it regardless of her answers.

But yeah, Dude, you could do some nice things for her like take her out some place fancy, or buy her flowers or something corny like that. But if you have to do that stuff to "win" her over, you've already lost her.

Good advice the only thing is I think he should talk to her about his feelings and once everything is squared away then take her out so its more of a bonding experience than like oh I try to do nice things for you but you don't even care... She probably has no idea what's going on and if she thinks everything's okay and he takes her out she may not show the level of appreciation he's expecting and later on it could escalate and come out as a ball of emotion where he's like you say you're going to leave me, then I try to do nice things for you and you don't care, I give up b.c. I can't win with you. Depending on how she is she might be like over whelmed get frustrated and really want space