The Ladies of AR Leg Thread

[bikeral]

Yes, sometimes watches me on in bed. I had to explain that the hot women avatars are usually men. (Which she did not get why)

[bdos]

Yes, sometimes watches me on in bed. I had to explain that the hot women avatars are usually men. (Which she did not get why)

Hahaha my gf asked me that last night she wasn't happy so I ducked jks

[ElectraMaddox]

Yes, sometimes watches me on in bed. I had to explain that the hot women avatars are usually men. (Which she did not get why)

Lmao... I could see that...

[MuscleInk]

Why thank you. Glad to see we have proper staffing on the night crew.

Are you all west coast or just late sleepers?

SoCal here.

MuscleInk

[GirlyGymRat]

I no workie today...or last week or next week....

Long holiday????

[bikeral]

Hahaha my gf asked me that last night she wasn't happy so I ducked jks

I also hate getting caught reading the ask DSM thread. Don't want her getting the wrong idea...

[The Bear 79]

When I was just a cub, my old man used to toss me around like a rag doll, kick me like an NFL punter, & punch me like Mike Tyson........in the military I was blasted, cut, stabbed, drowned, dragged & beaten.........my body was specifically designed to absorb physical punishment.......gods little joke I guess..........throughout my life physical violence has just been been "the norm".......but never once have I ever executed or even considered violence of any kind in any of my relationships nor would I ever except it........I know what it feels like to need help but fear the repercussions of reaching out..........& I know what it feels like when you realize violence of action is going to be your only savior..........I would never create an environment like that for my loved ones & I would lay my life down to protect them from any element that would............


No excuse for violence in a relationship.......EVER

[ElectraMaddox]

I also hate getting caught reading the ask DSM thread. Don't want her getting the wrong idea...

She probably already has the wrong idea

[bikeral]

SoCal here.

MuscleInk

I like SoCal. Have not been there enough.

[bdos]

Long holiday????

yea kinda like a cheeky kickstart for condition comp

[bikeral]

She probably already has the wrong idea

bahahaha Probably Last 13 years with her was a cover for my career I'll be coming out after the election.

[ElectraMaddox]

When I was just a cub, my old man used to toss me around like a rag doll, kick me like an NFL punter, & punch me like Mike Tyson........in the military I was blasted, cut, stabbed, drowned, dragged & beaten.........my body was specifically designed to absorb physical punishment.......gods little joke I guess..........throughout my life physical violence has just been been "the norm".......but never once have I ever executed or even considered violence of any kind in any of my relationships nor would I ever except it........I know what it feels like to need help but fear the repercussions of reaching out..........& I know what it feels like when you realize violence of action is going to be your only savior..........I would never create an environment like that for my loved ones & I would lay my life down to protect them from any element that would............


No excuse for violence in a relationship.......EVER

Awe... You're too perfect!

the only violence I welcome, it the bed violently shaking as a result of ... Cough well you know...

[GirlyGymRat]

When I was just a cub, my old man used to toss me around like a rag doll, kick me like an NFL punter, & punch me like Mike Tyson........in the military I was blasted, cut, stabbed, drowned, dragged & beaten.........my body was specifically designed to absorb physical punishment.......gods little joke I guess..........throughout my life physical violence has just been been "the norm".......but never once have I ever executed or even considered violence of any kind in any of my relationships nor would I ever except it........I know what it feels like to need help but fear the repercussions of reaching out..........& I know what it feels like when you realize violence of action is going to be your only savior..........I would never create an environment like that for my loved ones & I would lay my life down to protect them from any element that would............

No excuse for violence in a relationship.......EVER

My father was also abusive. He learned from his dad. I learned forgiveness.

[ElectraMaddox]

bahahaha Probably Last 13 years with her was a cover for my career I'll be coming out after the election.

She probably figured that.... Lol

[ElectraMaddox]

My father was also abusive. He learned from his dad. I learned forgiveness.

I loved how you said that... It's true...

[MuscleInk]

There are people and times when doing so proves to them that they can trust you to not HARM them. Since you've got a medical background, you know that there is a difference between pain and harm. There are times that what I'm dealing with mentally and emotionally leads me to needing a catharsis.... For some people a catharsis can come from the pain. I'm sure you're also aware of the facts regarding the pain/pleasure centers and their proximity/affinity to/with each other. It's more a contrast. Think of it as a sexual equivalent to wanting a cold beer on a hot day and a hot cup of coffee on a cold day.

I don't disagree. I know for some people it's very cathartic and safe when equally consenting people are involved. I'm much more a romantic. I like to take my time. I never like to rush. "Quickies" do nothing for me. I get more turned on watching my wife react to my touch. Seeing her react and get aroused from the things I do is a far greater turn on for me. Probably the worst "torture" I put my wife through was tying her to the bed posts one night, blind folding her and then taking my time to arouse her in different ways. For most people this wouldn't be torture lol.

I've dated girls who liked it "rough" but for me its not a great turn on. Even though it wasn't "pain" for them, it's not my ideal form of intimacy. Glad I tried it, but I find pleasure in more intimate ways.

MuscleInk

[kitstreasure]

My father was also abusive. He learned from his dad. I learned forgiveness.

That's where my favorite quote about the violet came from, group therapy for rape/abuse survivors. "Forgiveness is the scent a violet leaves on the heel of the shoe that crushes it."

[The Bear 79]

Awe... You're too perfect!

the only violence I welcome, it the bed violently shaking as a result of ... Cough well you know...

Rock it til da wheels fall off.......

[GirlyGymRat]

That's where my favorite quote about the violet came from, group therapy for rape/abuse survivors. "Forgiveness is the scent a violet leaves on the heel of the shoe that crushes it."

Luv this!

[MuscleInk]

That's one of those things I mentioned in my response to the other thread about wishing we could change the past....

I totally understand. I wish I had met my current wife sooner so she would have never experienced the kind of abuse she did with other men. Disgusts me to my core how little decency and respect someone can show for a woman they supposedly "love".

MuscleInk

[ElectraMaddox]

I totally understand. I wish I had met my current wife sooner so she would have never experienced the kind of abuse she did with other men. Disgusts me to my core how little decency and respect someone can show for a woman they supposedly "love".

MuscleInk

Food for thought... She'll appreciate you and value you ten times more as a result

[MuscleInk]

Yes, sometimes watches me on in bed. I had to explain that the hot women avatars are usually men. (Which she did not get why)

That was my wife's reaction to a message I got from Gixx one time when he was using an avatar of his wife. My wife nearly ripped my phone from my hands when she saw Gixx's wife and said, "why is that hot girl sending you messages!?!?!?!?"

MuscleInk

[GirlyGymRat]

That was my wife's reaction to a message I got from Gixx one time when he was using an avatar of his wife. My wife nearly ripped my phone from my hands when she say Gixx's wife and said, "why is that hot girl sending you messages!?!?!?!?"

MuscleInk

Priceless

[The Bear 79]

My father was also abusive. He learned from his dad. I learned forgiveness.

I hate him.......but he died about 6 years ago........recently I have found myself missing him & wishing I could say the things I planned to but never got to.........I don't know if that qualifies as forgiveness...........but I'm feeling something at least........

[ElectraMaddox]

Rock it til da wheels fall off.......

Whats going to hold us up afterwards

[ElectraMaddox]

I hate him.......but he died about 6 years ago........recently I have found myself missing him & wishing I could say the things I planned to but never got to.........I don't know if that qualifies as forgiveness...........but I'm feeling something at least........

Be worried when you don't feel anything

[bikeral]

That was my wife's reaction to a message I got from Gixx one time when he was using an avatar of his wife. My wife nearly ripped my phone from my hands when she say Gixx's wife and said, "why is that hot girl sending you messages!?!?!?!?"

MuscleInk

haha Yea it's hard to explain that.

[ElectraMaddox]

That was my wife's reaction to a message I got from Gixx one time when he was using an avatar of his wife. My wife nearly ripped my phone from my hands when she say Gixx's wife and said, "why is that hot girl sending you messages!?!?!?!?"

MuscleInk

I wish I was a fly on the wall

[MuscleInk]

When I was just a cub, my old man used to toss me around like a rag doll, kick me like an NFL punter, & punch me like Mike Tyson........in the military I was blasted, cut, stabbed, drowned, dragged & beaten.........my body was specifically designed to absorb physical punishment.......gods little joke I guess..........throughout my life physical violence has just been been "the norm".......but never once have I ever executed or even considered violence of any kind in any of my relationships nor would I ever except it........I know what it feels like to need help but fear the repercussions of reaching out..........& I know what it feels like when you realize violence of action is going to be your only savior..........I would never create an environment like that for my loved ones & I would lay my life down to protect them from any element that would............

No excuse for violence in a relationship.......EVER

My dad was better at the psychological abuse.

Agreed. There is no place for violence in a relationship. My wife has seen my anger (not directed at her) and she has told me it frightens her. I have told her many times that no matter what she did to me or our relationship, I will never hit her. I try to be more mindful about my temper but I understand why she is so fearful men and their anger having been a victim of abuse herself.

MuscleInk

[GirlyGymRat]

I hate him.......but he died about 6 years ago........recently I have found myself missing him & wishing I could say the things I planned to but never got to.........I don't know if that qualifies as forgiveness...........but I'm feeling something at least........

It does. I found of was the only way I could heal. My dad died young. I came to peace with him about a year b4 he did. I moved far away from home after undergraduate degree cuz I knew I needed to put distance between me and this toxic environment. Only thing is I miss my mom.

[The Bear 79]

Whats going to hold us up afterwards

No worries......the bed its still there......it just a little lower now...........easier for 5'-6" girls to get in & out of now......

[ElectraMaddox]

No worries......the bed its still there......it just a little lower now...........easier for 5'-6" girls to get in & out of now......

Not when your stuck to me... I doubt well be going anywhere... Have you seen my booty... I thought I caught you mirin that sh.t lol

[ElectraMaddox]

It does. I found of was the only way I could heal. My dad died young. I came to peace with him about a year b4 he did. I moved far away from home after undergraduate degree cuz I knew I needed to put distance between me and this toxic environment. Only thing is I miss my mom.

I can relate. Why I joined the military. I wanted to get away from a toxic situation and never have to go back.

[The Bear 79]

Not when your stuck to me... I doubt well be going anywhere... Have you seen my booty... I thought I caught you mirin that sh.t lol

Can't say I have........got any pics......?

[MuscleInk]

Food for thought... She'll appreciate you and value you ten times more as a result

I do my best to give her a life I know she deserves.

MuscleInk

[MuscleInk]

I hate him.......but he died about 6 years ago........recently I have found myself missing him & wishing I could say the things I planned to but never got to.........I don't know if that qualifies as forgiveness...........but I'm feeling something at least........

I learned forgiveness when my son was born. I suddenly realized what a huge responsibility it is raising someone and teaching right from wrong. I wasn't the worst kid but certainly not the best. Sure my dad could have been a better father and less abusive but he did what he thought was right in his own mind. Once I held my son in my arms, I felt a lot more forgiveness for my dad than I ever had.

I still don't have the perfect relationship with him (I flew home last year, the first time in 3 years and in my first night home, he ditched me to go drink with his buddies). C'est la vie.

MuscleInk

[ElectraMaddox]

Can't say I have........got any pics......?

I'm looking at one right now... Cough

[ElectraMaddox]

I do my best to give her a life I know she deserves.

MuscleInk

This sounds familiar

[MuscleInk]

I wish I was a fly on the wall

Not funny! Those little Vietnamese women are scary when they are angry!!!!!!!!

Just wish I knew what she was saying at the time.....or maybe I should be glad I didn't speak Vietnamese!!!!

MuscleInk

[ElectraMaddox]

Not funny! Those little Vietnamese women are scary when they are angry!!!!!!!!

Just wish I knew what she was saying at the time.....or maybe I should be glad I didn't speak Vietnamese!!!!

MuscleInk

Lol probably be thankful