Please help me make a decision on leaving wife or not **long, pls, read**

[ghettoboyd]

I agree with most of the posts, it just sucks.

I feel that I deserve to be desired because im attractive and fit.

I feel that I deserve for her to swallow because she has done it before.

Maybe this will make the most sense if I have been unclear so far.... Ive had prior relationships where I was valued. They were happy they were with me. I knew they didnt like to do some stuff sexually, but they did it anyway because they wanted me to like them and they respected me. They couldnt wait to be sexual. We would date and have a great time and i'd feel on top of the world and my hard work at my job and gym were reaping dividends. I want to be married to someone that is sexual with me just like they like they were during the during the first few months. If i'm not desired, i'd rather be alone or go someplace else.

I'll try counseling as some of you have suggested...she doesn't like to have conversations about sex life....The counseling might suck....why would I go down on her if she doesnt go down on me and swallow. She also says she has never had an orgasm so she doesnt like when past guys have went down because it feels good, but doesn't do anything.

I may be a dick, but most guys would just cheat rather than leaving and i'd never cheat...i'd rather just leave. I feel I am a good person for avoiding cheating

you should make it your "job" to satisfy her sexually, that's the reason shes not interested in sex...why would she care to have sex if your the only one it satisfies...think about her needs man or you should have from the beginning and you wouldent be in this predicament...ive been with my wife for 20yrs now and still get it 2-3 times a week and its amazing bro...its time to do a little self reflecting and see that you are the problem...

[Lunk1]

you should make it your "job" to satisfy her sexually, that's the reason shes not interested in sex...why would she care to have sex if your the only one it satisfies...think about her needs man or you should have from the beginning and you wouldent be in this predicament...ive been with my wife for 20yrs now and still get it 2-3 times a week and its amazing bro...its time to do a little self reflecting and see that you are the problem...

21 years and I am bitching if it's only 2-3 times a week lol.

[ghettoboyd]

21 years and I am bitching if it's only 2-3 times a week lol.

nice bro but like I said to the op is everytime just about you?...my wife will only do it if she's going to get off too, which means some marathon like sessions...there are no quickies here but im cool with it cus part of my satisfaction comes from here getting off...the rule here is ladys first....

[Lunk1]

nice bro but like I said to the op is everytime just about you?...my wife will only do it if she's going to get off too, which means some marathon like sessions...there are no quickies here but im cool with it cus part of my satisfaction comes from here getting off...the rule here is ladys first....

Absolutely...ladies first, next and last!