I def dont think he should be put on medication but only after speaking to someone for awhile. I think it could make things worse at first. Its sad my brother is 32 lives at home has no success at anything in life. He has screwed all of us over. He has a leg and back injury right now from basically laying in his bedroom rather then doing anything productive. He has never had many friends. It took us some time to not be angry with him. We all understand how difficult it is dealing with depression. I have read some people think addiction is easier to deal with.

I personally think its more then depression. I dont think he is bi polar because he never ever has highs. He has always had social issues and some times I wonder if he has a slight aspergers tick. My one brother thinks he has some sociopathic tendencies. The manipulating and constant lying. You can never believe a word out of his mouth.

My other brother is getting married in September and there is no way my brother with depression is going to be able to handle it. Its crazy we are making a last attempt to et him help and my father always blocks it. He is in serious denial and is just so ****ing ignorant.

We have decided that if my parents dont move on this then we are going to tell them that our relationship is over with them until they get their head out of their ass. We understand you cannot make anyone get help but we feel with them paying for everything they can shake things up in his life to make it uncomfortable.

Really difficult situation