you don't ask, it just happens. she either wants to be with you a lot, or she doesn't. girlfriend isn't some title to have, it's what you share and do together. If you're are nervous about asking her anything, you're in a bad spot my friend. I understand your situation though; sounds like you like this girl a LOT. she probably knows you like her, like fricken, crazily. therefore, she is going to know exactly what you want. BRO a lot of stuff doesn't have to be said unless she asks you. [i want to point out that everyone is different. this is how i approach things.] let her go if you like her so much, she'll come if she wants. never assume that you can't make her yours though lol. and always be her friend trying to make more happen. in the mean time... human social interaction isn't logical, and that's how it works, on a different plane. http://www.dizpins.com/archives/imag...ale_081406.jpg