Just like the title says, how long do you wait to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?
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Just like the title says, how long do you wait to ask a girl to be your girlfriend?
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3 months
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lol I read the title as "How long did you wait"
on that note..depends on how u feel...I you want it then ask
Last edited by Zodiac82; 07-21-2013 at 11:15 AM.
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maybe a week or 2. Depends on how they are acting toward you. I think a better question to ask her would be " You do anal right"?
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lmfaoOriginally Posted by chadcuz1985
maybe a week or 2. Depends on how they are acting toward you. I think a better question to ask her would be " you do anal right"?
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once again, if he has to ask "you do anal right"?? he's doing it wrong, just assume she does, if she says "Stop I don't do that" it's time to kick it to the curb..
maybe a week or 2. Depends on how they are acting toward you. I think a better question to ask her would be " You do anal right"?
say something like?? really?? all my other girl friends do what's wrong with you??
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100% agree with this!! If you ask it gives them the chance to say no but if you just start working it in they usually go along with it. And if not at first they eventually will do it!
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Depends how much you like her if you leave it too long someone could come along and nab her and you will be bubbling because you took to long just ask her
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Well its been a month but she lives in the city so when she comes out on the weekend she stays at my place Thursday night through like sunday morning, 24/7. I mean its already pretty far along. I just don't like to jump out the gym too fast and ask too early.
Plus I just blew my knee out this past wednesday and she took care of me the whole time she was here doing everything.
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u hittin aint u bro
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Lol, thats a stupid question.
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If its at this point you're already dating. I would just ask about it and confirm exclusivity. You never know another persons morals unless you ask. And even then some can't be trusted... We don't have the answer for you because we're not in your situation.
Just remember. A man will burn down your house, beat the shit out of you or steal you car or something. But a woman will ruin your life.
Do you see the difference? Like, a man will cut your arm off and throw it in a river, but he will leave you intact as a human being. He won't **** with who you are.
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If it feels right and if she's into you. You should know. Just be gently honest with her and tell her your feelings. Makes me want to go back in the bedroom and ask my wife if she would be my GF. Make sure you are not just being needy. ...crazy mike
On second thought. What do I know, it's been 34 yrs for me. ....cm
Last edited by crazy mike; 07-21-2013 at 11:32 AM.
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Yup, why do I also feel like I've been outta this dating for so long!!
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Post of pic of her to see if she is worthy of girlfriend status...
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lol.........
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And she needs to be showing cleavage in said pic.
OP, you shouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend. You'll know she's your girlfriend when she introduces you to people as her boyfriend.
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Aw now isn't that sweet, dear !! Look honey that's her boyfriend, and isn't he a big boy !!!
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this question belongs in the 7th grade section
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Love the positive attitude!
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How old are you? This sounds like a high school question!!
I've never asked this iin my adult life. I meet a girl and if we hit it off and start dating, it's just assumed that we are gf/bf when we start acting like it. You could always ask if you're exclusive or still seeing other people but I think that is easily realized by the type of relationship you're in. I would never ask a woman to be my girlfriend, pretty sure they would laugh!
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now that i think of it, I have to agree with the above. in highschool, I'd ask a girl if she'd be my girl. then later in life, that stopped. instead, it changed and was replaced by the "L" word. For some reason, women early on in a relationship want to hear that you love em. Once you say that, it somehow implies monogamy and also helps some women feel less like they are being used for sex. I had this one that was an absolute tigress in the sack, no holds barred sex. but she needed to hear the "L" word so she didn't feel like a tramp for some reason.
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You feel like asking her that's why you posted this question. Always be yourself in a relationship you want to last. So ask her and do not worry about anything else. I bet she is already wanting you too a few weeks ago. Seeing you said she is taking care of you and all. That is good girlfriend status
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It's just a question some of you guys think too far into it.
Thanks Gearbox and everyone else who gave a good honest non degrading answer.
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ask her?? um if you have to ask there are issues.. you either are, or you are not, are you seeing her exclusively?? so you just want her to say she's not doing/seeing other guys right??
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you wait up until the moment you start thinking about asking her :-) the moment it crossEs your mind is the moment it's time to say it.
for me it's a little different I'm a girl lol the moment I have zero interest in dating other guys was the moment I had asked for a definition of a relationship. I don't believe in being intimate physically with anyone unless you are exclusive -out of respect to yourself and the other people you're seeing . and I had no interest in dating other guys after my second date with Tigershark. I just needed to know if we're on the same wavelength... he confirmed it for me but I still need to hear from him lol I know he wasn't seeing other people or dating other people but hearing hi say it is a whole other thing...
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I would wait 3 months and ask her if she does anal, if yes skip the girlfriend/boyfriend and straight up Marry her...
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Well said.
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It depends on if she swallows or not. Swallow = instant girlfriend.
Also age dependent.
13 = 1 week
15 = 2 weeks
16 = 3 weeks
18 = 1 month
20 = 1.5 months
25 = 2-3 months
30 = forget it, to old....
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you don't ask, it just happens. she either wants to be with you a lot, or she doesn't. girlfriend isn't some title to have, it's what you share and do together. If you're are nervous about asking her anything, you're in a bad spot my friend. I understand your situation though; sounds like you like this girl a LOT. she probably knows you like her, like fricken, crazily. therefore, she is going to know exactly what you want. BRO a lot of stuff doesn't have to be said unless she asks you. [i want to point out that everyone is different. this is how i approach things.] let her go if you like her so much, she'll come if she wants. never assume that you can't make her yours though lol. and always be her friend trying to make more happen. in the mean time... human social interaction isn't logical, and that's how it works, on a different plane. http://www.dizpins.com/archives/imag...ale_081406.jpg
Last edited by C3RB3RUS; 07-22-2013 at 01:46 AM.
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Give her a banana after those first 30 seconds you'll know
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I grew up on anal sex. Two things most men really get into. One is anal sex and the other oral sex. I'm amazed how many guys aren't get much of either. These are two issues I hear a whole lot about where I work. A bunch of young married guys complaining how the wifes no longer give them any. The guys say it's like once the wedding vows were spoken the sex all but stopped.
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Women often don't like sex and only use it as a way to lure a guy in to marriage. Plus after she puts 20lbs on an a few years of age, you kind of just want to trade her in for the newer models.
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see, thats why i think marriage should have term limits.. like 5 yr terms.. no divorce ever, simply serve out the term of the contract.. the contract will spell out child support and spousal support during and after the marriage..
or 2 yr but no more than 5 yr terms..
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Man I've often said the same thing. It's automatically nullified and you either re-sign or run.....
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I think Mexico recently introduced marriage certificates for 1 - 10 years with option to renew. Not sure about child support and custody.
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Yeah, but then women would just work extra hard to spend every cent you had during those 5 years. Besides, most marriages nowadays don't last 5 years.
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that's because they didn't talk about it , or the girl is following in the mom's mindset... shame really
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Just feel it out man. If she's diggin you like that too, then make it happen. Just don't ask her in those words, you'll sound like Erkel lol. Take her somewhere chill, like on a hill to lay down in the grass n watch the stars. Bring a bottle pf wine etc... Throw some confidence out there, lean in, kiss her n tell her that you want her to be your girl.
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