Make it official or steer clear?

[Rusty11]

Sounds like you've only hung out 10/12 times. Don't do anything yet. Just have fun.
This advice comes from a guy married so long that he doesn't even remember what "hanging out" means anymore.

[brazuka]

Brazuka, you can call it whatever you want, but face it, you're in a relationship with that broad. If she tells you tomorrow that she's going to go fvck some other dude, you're going to be just as hurt/pissed as you would if you were "official."

Besides, I think it's kind of a juvenile thing to have to make things "official." You can tell if you're in one or not without having to be like to her "let's be an item." It's not like 5th grade dating where you make things official by lunch on Monday and by Friday, you're broken up.

Didn't think about it like that great advice thanks

Sounds to me that YOU want to be in a relationship with her.

Maybe who knows, I just want to keep her around is all

Sounds like you've only hung out 10/12 times. Don't do anything yet. Just have fun.
This advice comes from a guy married so long that he doesn't even remember what "hanging out" means anymore.

Lol