Si it wise to cycle without telling the mrs?

[frighteous]

Just tell her. You're a grown man, do what you want. If she's smart she won't freak out with the knee jerk reaction most ppl have.

Frighteous,
Basing your expectations of marriage off of someone else's is ludicrous. Different relationship, different ppl, different circumstances!

Rodduz,
Do your PCT right and you shouldn't get ED.

AlphaMike, I'm basing my expectations off of 75 percent of the men who are married that I've spoken to. After 5 years of marriage, I hear "Sex? Much less than when we were dating, etc." Then I know plenty of dudes who have been married 10-15 years and every single one of them have generally just accepted the fact that they get laid once a week if they're lucky. I feel that it's a considerably realistic cause for concern, I mean, sure, you could assume that most of these guys are doing something wrong; like, maybe some of them aren't going down on their woman before they make love, or maybe they just aren't that good in bed to begin with, but I revert back to my original point...It is extremely rare to find a married dude who's been married for ten plus years, who has sex three to four times a week.

[Cuz]

AlphaMike, I'm basing my expectations off of 75 percent of the men who are married that I've spoken to. After 5 years of marriage, I hear "Sex? Much less than when we were dating, etc." Then I know plenty of dudes who have been married 10-15 years and every single one of them have generally just accepted the fact that they get laid once a week if they're lucky. I feel that it's a considerably realistic cause for concern, I mean, sure, you could assume that most of these guys are doing something wrong; like, maybe some of them aren't going down on their woman before they make love, or maybe they just aren't that good in bed to begin with, but I revert back to my original point...It is extremely rare to find a married dude who's been married for ten plus years, who has sex three to four times a week.

I agree

[Rusty11]

AlphaMike, I'm basing my expectations off of 75 percent of the men who are married that I've spoken to. After 5 years of marriage, I hear "Sex? Much less than when we were dating, etc." Then I know plenty of dudes who have been married 10-15 years and every single one of them have generally just accepted the fact that they get laid once a week if they're lucky. I feel that it's a considerably realistic cause for concern, I mean, sure, you could assume that most of these guys are doing something wrong; like, maybe some of them aren't going down on their woman before they make love, or maybe they just aren't that good in bed to begin with, but I revert back to my original point...It is extremely rare to find a married dude who's been married for ten plus years, who has sex three to four times a week.

Ahhh...c'mon guys. 52 here, married 23 years, and sex 2-3 times per week. Long live liquid cia!!!

Sorry OP. My post has nothing to do with your question.

I do agree that 20 is too young to get married, though. Too much life to experience...