Perhaps for some people having a well-behaved child that listens is worth any price. Perhaps parents who hit their children don't think there is any way to have well behaved children without hitting.
While I want my child to be well behaved in that he treats people well, I don't personally have obedience as a goal for him. I personally think obedience is quite a dangerous thing, and whilst I haven't seen any studies in this area, I see numerous people I have known all my life who had parents who demanded obedience in the extreme, who are are now very, very obedient people.
There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)