Parents paying child support

[Hazard]

Happens all the time it's very common that's why most parents want to stay out of court and just take it as a loss but not right but if you know she won't or can't for some reason I'd go for it

She'd never be able to afford it. You mean to tell me she can't afford $370/month but she can take care of a child..... AND pay daycare? No way.....

I'd flip my cork

[lovbyts]

She'd never be able to afford it. You mean to tell me she can't afford $370/month but she can take care of a child..... AND pay daycare? No way.....

I'd flip my cork

It doesnt matter in most cases what makes sense. It has nothing to do with logic. 90% of the time the woman gets the kid even if she is a proven drug addict (ex druggie of course) prostitute (or general whore) or is broke because the court will simply designate you (the man) to supplement her income enough to sustain herself and the kid even if you dont make enough but of course the more you make the more they will take.

The only reason you, I or any other man gets custody of their kid is because we were able to prove to the court she would be a danger to the child well-being.

Never go in trying to prove you are the better parent. You have to go in and prove the child is in eminent danger.

So I sent my ex a txt and said I want half of the daycare cost.

Her response..... "I'm sure you know..... Things are hard. My car payment alone is $300"

I lost it lol

Sounds typical putting a car payment 1st. She should be driving a $500 POS and paying what she owes.

I have to agree though. The less contact the better. It's easy to go in a file anything they want just to make it a PITA for you. How much will you loose every time you go to court? 1 day wages + possible attorney fees.

You want to keep her out of the picture as much as possible. Forget the money. NEVER go anywhere to meet her without a witness with you, Never...