Threesome

[< <Samson> >]

This were her idea. She has always liked women. And the girl we met loves being with us it's weird. Having another sleepover saturday. Has been no problems YET. Going on about a month now and she considers herself our girl.

Whatever works

It's just an additional person to deal with within your relationship.

[Zodiac82]

I don't see this ending well

[Iceberg]

Whatever works It's just an additional person to deal with within your relationship.

Yeah that's the hard part.

[Euroholic]

Yea marriage is not for me but i believe in the covenant of it. I couldn't do what your doing op.

[GirlyGymRat]

Does the wife ever hook up with the other women without you?

[Iceberg]

Does the wife ever hook up with the other women without you?

This Saturday they have a 1hour date. I'll be at her house and they will be allowed to have 1 hour. When I say allowed they are both submissive so I make that decision. This will be their first solo date only kissing allowed. But yes they have fooled around in bed without me also while I said it was ok while I was cooking breakfast.

[Zodiac82]

I don't see this ending well

Does the wife ever hook up with the other women without you?

This Saturday they have a 1hour date. I'll be at her house and they will be allowed to have 1 hour. When I say allowed they are both submissive so I make that decision. This will be their first solo date only kissing allowed. But yes they have fooled around in bed without me also while I said it was ok while I was cooking breakfast.

Just curious...what makes u think that kissing is all that's gonna be done....and what makes u think ur wife won't leave u for her or another?

[GirlyGymRat]

This Saturday they have a 1hour date. I'll be at her house and they will be allowed to have 1 hour. When I say allowed they are both submissive so I make that decision. This will be their first solo date only kissing allowed. But yes they have fooled around in bed without me also while I said it was ok while I was cooking breakfast.

Hmmm. wifey may be the dominant partner in your relationship.

[MR-FQ320]

Hmmm. wifey may be the dominant partner in your relationship.

I agree

[LGM]

Hmmm. wifey may be the dominant partner in your relationship.

lol, thats exactly what I was thinking...

[lovbyts]

Hmmm. wifey may be the dominant partner in your relationship.

Nothing wrong with that. A strong dominating woman is sure of herself and a good thing. As long as no one is uncomfortable with the situation it's all good. Someone needs to be in charge and it's not easy to share dominance.

[wmaousley]

Next she will bring Jo Blo from the bar into your bed and tell you to sleep on the floor.

[Simon1972]

best thread ever!

[Iceberg]

Hmmm. wifey may be the dominant partner in your relationship.

How so? I brought up them going out alone. They have not 1 time asked to be alone. And to try to clear things upon not sir or master. I'm daddy. Not into the stuffed animal kid stuff. But I'm the caregiver. I dictate when she goes out and with who for how long, what she eats, this is why I cook. I take her shopping, brush her hair before bed. I pick out what underwear she wears. Yes it's a lot of work. And takes a lot of trust for a women to give herself to a man like this.

If your unsure what I'm talking about google DDLG.

[Iceberg]

Nothing wrong with that. A strong dominating woman is sure of herself and a good thing. As long as no one is uncomfortable with the situation it's all good. Someone needs to be in charge and it's not easy to share dominance.

Not that I would mind but she's deff not in charge. I think a lot of people get dom confused with sadist. It's the one in charge that has the responsibility to make the other person happy. Put their feelings before my own. I make every decision (this gets annoying) but I have to do it or she freaks out. And if 2 women are in bed what could make them more happy than the man they spent all night pleasing getting up early making them breakfast before they go to work. I respect my women and like to know they are happy.

[Iceberg]

Next she will bring Jo Blo from the bar into your bed and tell you to sleep on the floor.

Not happening. Big difference here.

[Simon1972]

If your unsure what I'm talking about google DDLG.

Well........this thread just took a disturbing turn

[Iceberg]

Well........this thread just took a disturbing turn

Everyone has their own thing. If it works it works. We have been together since 02. The girl is her reward for being good. I can stop it anytime. I understand it's not for everyone and I respect that.

[thisAngelBites]

Hey, live it up. There are so many ways to live other than the dominant (oops, no pun intended) norms and good for you for doing what you find fulfilling. I'm sure if there comes a time it no longer works, you will reassess. Nothing is for everybody.

[Simon1972]

Everyone has their own thing. If it works it works. We have been together since 02. The girl is her reward for being good. I can stop it anytime. I understand it's not for everyone and I respect that.

Don't get me wrong, the threesome thing I have absaloutley no issue with(I've done it) , the wife with a female lover I have no issue with either. Pretending she is a child, well that is a little disturbing.
After I googled ddlp , that's when I raised the eyebrow on this. No offence intended

[Iceberg]

Don't get me wrong, the threesome thing I have absaloutley no issue with(I've done it) , the wife with a female lover I have no issue with either. Pretending she is a child, well that is a little disturbing. After I googled ddlp , that's when I raised the eyebrow on this. No offence intended

She does not act like a child. Yes that's disturbing I agree. But the other aspects reward/punish and decision making in life and bed is on me. Absolutely no child play at all

[Simon1972]

She does not act like a child. Yes that's disturbing I agree. But the other aspects reward/punish and decision making in life and bed is on me. Absolutely no child play at all

<br> https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7kpeORRbnhQ
Ddlp stands for Dom Daddy Little Girl. I had no idea what it was until I took your advice and googled it. So on your advice, she acts the whole little girl thing, and now you say the LG part of DDLG doesnt reflect what you do? Im not sure either way, So yeah, the whole thing bothers me

[GirlyGymRat]

Hmmm. wifey may be the dominant partner in your relationship.

Iceberg. I didn't pick my words wisely. Several times yesterday I came back to the dominate word and thought I should modify to "manipulative". It seems from this limited exchange that she initiated the thoughts for a third female partner. U arranged and supportive, receiving some Benes too. Since then this new dynamic in your relationship has emerged and you "made the decision to reward" her with a female lover. Have you witnessed the power of manipulation daughters can have over their daddy's and wife's over husbands in order to achieve an end? I have. Be careful. Women can be extremely persuasive.

That being said Iceberg, What happens behind closed doors with your wife and others is your personal affairs (as long as everyone involved is of age and participating with consent). If this works for you and wifey and the other woman....who is anyone to judge.

[thisAngelBites]

This is interesting. I think the dynamiic of woman as child being attractive is pretty common amongst men, and likewise the dynamic of man as daddy as attractive is common to many women. I just think that people mostly try and suppress those feelings because they are not terribly acceptable. I also think the converses are attractive to some people (or maybe better to say "most" people, some of the time).

I wonder what the disturbing aspect is? Does it have to do with either the idea of sex with a "child" or the idea that an adult would reject freedom and personal agency? Or is it something else?

[Iceberg]

This is interesting. I think the dynamiic of woman as child being attractive is pretty common amongst men, and likewise the dynamic of man as daddy as attractive is common to many women. I just think that people mostly try and suppress those feelings because they are not terribly acceptable. I also think the converses are attractive to some people (or maybe better to say "most" people, some of the time). I wonder what the disturbing aspect is? Does it have to do with either the idea of sex with a "child" or the idea that an adult would reject freedom and personal agency? Or is it something else?

The disturbing part to me is when the little would want to act like a true child. The other female is 10 yrs older than me and 13 older than wife. And she is into the same thing. Lots of powerful higher up working women are into this. More than most people think.

Not disturbing but does nothing for us

[lovbyts]

<br> https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7kpeORRbnhQ
Ddlp stands for Dom Daddy Little Girl. I had no idea what it was until I took your advice and googled it. So on your advice, she acts the whole little girl thing, and now you say the LG part of DDLG doesnt reflect what you do? Im not sure either way, So yeah, the whole thing bothers me

Thanks for spelling that out, now I'm REALLY glad I decided NOT to google that while at work.

[Iceberg]

Thanks for spelling that out, now I'm REALLY glad I decided NOT to google that while at work.

Lol!!!

[RA]

This is what happened with a buddy of mine. Bringing home chicks led to bringing home the town.

Next she will bring Jo Blo from the bar into your bed and tell you to sleep on the floor.

[Iceberg]

This is what happened with a buddy of mine. Bringing home chicks led to bringing home the town.

Well he prob wasn't satisfying her needs or they had other issues.

[GirlyGymRat]

Anymore sleep overs? How's it working out with all the players?

[coyotehunter]

No cameras. Lol they both worry about their jobs.

Take the picture from behind, we don't need to see their faces

[Iceberg]

Anymore sleep overs? How's it working out with all the players?

Yep been about a month. Lots of sleepovers and a ton a great sex. Had a real good night the girls had fun and bam wake up and wife is crying. She can't do it anymore. So now she thinks I'm leaving her for the other chick which I have no interest in doing. Were not fighting she's just been a lil upset but I think we are working thru it.

[wmaousley]

Yep been about a month. Lots of sleepovers and a ton a great sex. Had a real good night the girls had fun and bam wake up and wife is crying. She can't do it anymore. So now she thinks I'm leaving her for the other chick which I have no interest in doing. Were not fighting she's just been a lil upset but I think we are working thru it.

Stop showing the other girl more attention and primarily focus on the wife and shlt like this wont happen.

[lovbyts]

Good mentioning the pt-141 upset stomach, thats what I was going to bring up. Less is better until you get use to it.

Ive been where you are. Make sure to pay more attention to the wife and re assure Ber after that the other person is only a toy more or less. After my wife was assured of that then there was never a problem.

Stop showing the other girl more attention and primarily focus on the wife and shlt like this wont happen.

Sounds strangely familiar.

[Simon1972]

Yep been about a month. Lots of sleepovers and a ton a great sex. Had a real good night the girls had fun and bam wake up and wife is crying. She can't do it anymore. So now she thinks I'm leaving her for the other chick which I have no interest in doing. Were not fighting she's just been a lil upset but I think we are working thru it.

This sh!t wouldn't be an issue if you took up line dancing....

[GirlyGymRat]

Yep been about a month. Lots of sleepovers and a ton a great sex. Had a real good night the girls had fun and bam wake up and wife is crying. She can't do it anymore. So now she thinks I'm leaving her for the other chick which I have no interest in doing. Were not fighting she's just been a lil upset but I think we are working thru it.

It's a delicate situation. Hmmm. I can't even advise on what to do.

[Buster Brown]

If she were to ask you to share a guy, would that be ok? Only fair right?

[Armykid93]

Yep been about a month. Lots of sleepovers and a ton a great sex. Had a real good night the girls had fun and bam wake up and wife is crying. She can't do it anymore. So now she thinks I'm leaving her for the other chick which I have no interest in doing. Were not fighting she's just been a lil upset but I think we are working thru it.

Yeah your boinking another chick. I'd be pretty pissed to. Regardless of what anyone says about threesomes, i've never met a person in real life who had one with their wife and is still married. I do find it strange that everyone on every Internet forum ever has done them and is still happily married.......no offense to anyone here. If you have done it and it worked then great, it's just exception and not the rule. Any time you bring someone else in the marriage bed it's going to be trouble in my opinion.

[Brett N]

My opinion. If my wife wanted to experiment with a woman, I'd be fine with it. I'd want to be there and watch but I truly think the best thing to do would be to take matters in my own hands while she is exploring her curiosities.

I know what it's like to fool around with women, no reason to create insecurities in my relationship over a meaningless hookup (even with wife) that I could do without.

[wmaousley]

Yeah your boinking another chick. I'd be pretty pissed to. Regardless of what anyone says about threesomes, i've never met a person in real life who had one with their wife and is still married. I do find it strange that everyone on every Internet forum ever has done them and is still happily married.......no offense to anyone here. If you have done it and it worked then great, it's just exception and not the rule. Any time you bring someone else in the marriage bed it's going to be trouble in my opinion.

I have best friends who married each other and have regular threesomes, however they have rules. The Husband can only do what the wife is able to do to the girl. (Means Zero penetration with his pencil)

They have one of the best relationships that I have ever seen.