I had kids one year after no pct or hcg.
Heres how I told my girlfriend:
This is my dream, no mtherfucker on earth will keep me away. I love you, make me choose and you will be the one that goes.
I have explained in detail. She knows I know what I am doing and knows nothing will stop me, she knows all commenting can do is make problems.
She is a good girl and amoungst less than one percent of women. A real fucking woman. She has bitched in the past but now accepts it. I dont use mj but she does. Good trade I guess.
Regardless I will do what I choose and if I become someone she doesnt love... Plenty of other guys and gals out there I guess we weren't right for each other.
Can you live on your knees, at half potential, to please someone? I tried for many years and the bitch got bored and left me at the most backstabbing time imagineable.
You will be you and your mate will accept it. If not you will carry on until you can no longer perpetuate the facade and it will all come apart in an instant.
You gotta be you. Make sure it is know daily and make damn certain you remember she has to be herself. You two share a path as two different souls.