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[Chrisp83TRT]

I’d be lying if I said I’m scared as all hell to have kids. I have that selfish mentality where I like to focus on me, my one day to be wife and my family.
I could be wrong but I feel having a kid would put a huge dent on time and money when it comes to enjoying my life with time etc...
How do you guys with kids balance this lifestyle and having time for loved ones and kids ? I’m very curious

[Obs]

I’d be lying if I said I’m scared as all hell to have kids. I have that selfish mentality where I like to focus on me, my one day to be wife and my family.
I could be wrong but I feel having a kid would put a huge dent on time and money when it comes to enjoying my life with time etc...
How do you guys with kids balance this lifestyle and having time for loved ones and kids ? I’m very curious

There is no balance in my life. I am curious as well.

[Couchlockd]

I’d be lying if I said I’m scared as all hell to have kids. I have that selfish mentality where I like to focus on me, my one day to be wife and my family.
I could be wrong but I feel having a kid would put a huge dent on time and money when it comes to enjoying my life with time etc...
How do you guys with kids balance this lifestyle and having time for loved ones and kids ? I’m very curious

I love and enjoy the current child (not mine,but I been there since she was 3, now 8)

it's the beginning that's scares me, if I could pick, I'd like to go on vacation and return rights around 2 years old. babys freak me out.lol


but that's not in the cards. I'm here for the long haul. gotta be this is mine.

I'm not gonna lie, I'm feeling some early stage fright/resentment. but I hope it passes.

I'm just being open and honest, no filter for being socially correct. I'm nitvamong strangers, I'm among friends, and I'm just honestly saying things that are on all our minds at some point with expections on the way to be bornt
^yes, its a "ricky-ism^

[Mr.BB]

babys freak me out.lol

You're a big boy, you can handle it.

Support your girl and dont stress too much about it, its part of life.

[Obs]

I love and enjoy the current child (not mine,but I been there since she was 3, now 8)

it's the beginning that's scares me, if I could pick, I'd like to go on vacation and return rights around 2 years old. babys freak me out.lol


but that's not in the cards. I'm here for the long haul. gotta be this is mine.

I'm not gonna lie, I'm feeling some early stage fright/resentment. but I hope it passes.

I'm just being open and honest, no filter for being socially correct. I'm nitvamong strangers, I'm among friends, and I'm just honestly saying things that are on all our minds at some point with expections on the way to be bornt
^yes, its a "ricky-ism^

Babies are easier to cate for than toddlers.
Once they start running around and talking the stress goes up a little but its not bad at all brother, especially with two and an age gap like that.

When you get two siblings a year or two apart the constant bickering can be most bothersome but with a nine year age gap you got it made man.

My little girl had sleep apnea terrible as an infant and I probably spent the first two years of her life sleepless from getting up 100 times a night to check on her. I became so wrapped up in her that there is a connection with her out of this world. She is gonna be disciplined by her mother and my gf because I simply can't punish her. When she grew out of her apnea I laid in bed every night thanking God for a year or better I bet.

I get tired and upset and downright ungrateful at times just because it gets hatd with so many kids. Think about it though, if I do a good job with seven kids what greater impact could I leave on the Earth?
I could stand at olympia 10 times and still never effect the world the way seven people will.

It's worth any sacrifice. I forget that sometimes. The father passes on his legacy to his child the same as your dad did with you. Every father wants and hopes his kids do better than himself. We do our best and let go eventually, with the only legacy we really have being our kids.

Someday if I am fixing to pass away and I get notice of it, I will be laying there thinking about the bad shit I have done in my youth but I can find solace in the memories of my kids.
Reading my little girl to sleep.
Helping my son learn to ride a horse.
The birthdays and holidays.
Sports and graduation.

We would be some lost individuals if we weren't fathers, brother.

Let go of your fears with both hands. They are gonna be busy doing the greatest thing you ever will.

[Chrisp83TRT]

Babies are easier to cate for than toddlers.
Once they start running around and talking the stress goes up a little but its not bad at all brother, especially with two and an age gap like that.

When you get two siblings a year or two apart the constant bickering can be most bothersome but with a nine year age gap you got it made man.

My little girl had sleep apnea terrible as an infant and I probably spent the first two years of her life sleepless from getting up 100 times a night to check on her. I became so wrapped up in her that there is a connection with her out of this world. She is gonna be disciplined by her mother and my gf because I simply can't punish her. When she grew out of her apnea I laid in bed every night thanking God for a year or better I bet.

I get tired and upset and downright ungrateful at times just because it gets hatd with so many kids. Think about it though, if I do a good job with seven kids what greater impact could I leave on the Earth?
I could stand at olympia 10 times and still never effect the world the way seven people will.

It's worth any sacrifice. I forget that sometimes. The father passes on his legacy to his child the same as your dad did with you. Every father wants and hopes his kids do better than himself. We do our best and let go eventually, with the only legacy we really have being our kids.

Someday if I am fixing to pass away and I get notice of it, I will be laying there thinking about the bad shit I have done in my youth but I can find solace in the memories of my kids.
Reading my little girl to sleep.
Helping my son learn to ride a horse.
The birthdays and holidays.
Sports and graduation.

We would be some lost individuals if we weren't fathers, brother.

Let go of your fears with both hands. They are gonna be busy doing the greatest thing you ever will.

Fuck that was also deep... kind of makes me think of having a kid one day . Me and the gf agreed on not having kids ( more my choice then hers )
I know id be an amazing dad ... my issues lie with the possible resentment of my time taken away and how society at this current stage being so toxic for the minds of this generation. It’s scary man.

[Chrisp83TRT]

I love and enjoy the current child (not mine,but I been there since she was 3, now 8)

it's the beginning that's scares me, if I could pick, I'd like to go on vacation and return rights around 2 years old. babys freak me out.lol


but that's not in the cards. I'm here for the long haul. gotta be this is mine.

I'm not gonna lie, I'm feeling some early stage fright/resentment. but I hope it passes.

I'm just being open and honest, no filter for being socially correct. I'm nitvamong strangers, I'm among friends, and I'm just honestly saying things that are on all our minds at some point with expections on the way to be bornt
^yes, its a "ricky-ism^

I believe your feelings and words are safe here brother