When did you tell your significant other about your use?

[Test Monsterone]

Im on vaca now. I "hide" my stuff in bottom of shaving bag....a place where my wife is afraid to go...

You don't think your wife would approve? I would think at that level of being with someone, I would be ok with my wife knowing, but I'm not you.

Before I started, I had to work it out with the wife. That is not something to hide. We were BF/GF at that time, maybe 1 year in, so alittle longer. Sooner you're honest the better, IMO.

If someone asks I take them (rare) I just tell them, bruh what the fuck do you think lmao. I really don't care anymore.

I don't knoww... 1 year is different than 1.5 months. I feel like most girls would probably not even want to be involved with a guy if they know he does steroids - unless they were exposed to the lifestyle before or had a chance to know the guy on a deeper level. The chick I'm with is a straight edge, smart, corporate business chick. I don't want to scare her off so soon...

She’s known since I began.
She was there when I found out that I am primary hypo and needed TRT. She’s been my reasoned sounding board for every decision that I have made regarding my AAS/drug use. She has stood there talking to me while I draw and inject. I asked her to inform me of any notable attitude shifts when I try new shit and new dosages.
She’s hidden my shit for me when we had home inspections (buying property) that occurred when I wasn’t home. She’s received packages for me when I couldn’t be there.
Frankly, if I’m ever considering doing something that I would need to hide from her, I need to seriously rethink my decisions in life.

Well, you have a perfectly good reason to be on TRT. It's not surprising that you have included her in your decision making. It has to feel good to know you can trust her and she accepts you for it.

I am in the same boat as you here; at my age (54 and rapidly closing in on 55...); fuck lying about it...

I fully agree with Charger69 though... Some people, chicks in particular, or ex-wives will use this against you...

It is a questionable, slippery slope, to say the least.

In a perfect world honesty would be the way to go, especially if the relationship lasts longer and longer; then deniability becomes more difficult. Add to that the hassle of hiding your gear and shit... F*** That!

When I have to inject, it is time and game on...

Break it to her, bro, if you think she is a keeper. This will make your life easier in the long run.

I'm not one to lie to anyone, but this early on, I feel like because of the stigma related to steroids, this would negatively impact her opinion of me. There's just so much to explain and so many excuses to make. Maybe you're right though, maybe I need to be up front about it and if she is a keeper, she'll understand.

[XnavyHMCS]

You don't think your wife would approve? I would think at that level of being with someone, I would be ok with my wife knowing, but I'm not you.




I don't knoww... 1 year is different than 1.5 months. I feel like most girls would probably not even want to be involved with a guy if they know he does steroids - unless they were exposed to the lifestyle before or had a chance to know the guy on a deeper level. The chick I'm with is a straight edge, smart, corporate business chick. I don't want to scare her off so soon...



Well, you have a perfectly good reason to be on TRT. It's not surprising that you have included her in your decision making. It has to feel good to know you can trust her and she accepts you for it.




I'm not one to lie to anyone, but this early on, I feel like because of the stigma related to steroids, this would negatively impact her opinion of me. There's just so much to explain and so many excuses to make. Maybe you're right though, maybe I need to be up front about it and if she is a keeper, she'll understand.

Hey Test Monsterone,

I wish you the best of luck buddy.

I agree with you on the stigma thing, that is a no shitter... Like I said though, at an advanced age, it has become my experience that what others think about me and my usage, doesn't effect me in the slightest... I hope for you that you are not yet pushing 50 yo...

Good luck bro. My philosophy would be to break it to her easy, slowly... You know, blah, blah, blah, all the guys are using today, bodybuilders to businessmen, HRT/TRT.... Something like that...