FK You make valid points but how do you communicate with someone that doesn’t even visit you in the hospital or at least call?
I’m not into AA but I can respect their process of making amends. They say you have to do it for yourself as much as the people you apologize/amend with. I think you’re right talking is only way to know but it’s kind of on the dude who messed up to stop hiding and reach out or else the relationship is over.
A boy tries to never make mistakes. A young man realizes everyone makes mistakes. A grown man realizes the importance of taking responsibility for ones mistakes just the same as the successes.