man, you need to find what u like about yourself and worry about that and your looks 2nd, alot of ppl will be a ass to you, jealousy mainly, so ignore em, and get your workouts and diet going and get to where you want, knowledge is power, the more you know, the more u can do, and when it comes to losing BF, knowledge is all you need, the will is there, just dont let stupid ppl get to you. 99% of the world is assholes, so dont be one of them or listen to em