what do you fellas say about ur missus's having guy friends?

[sphincter]

Who cares, if she is gonna cheat, she is gonna cheat. You cannot stop it.

I would suggest you act like a mature man and not worry about it. You cannot force someone to want you, so let it go and let the chips fall where they may.

EXACTLY!!! I handle my business, take great care of my wife and treat her well. We share so much and I keep her happy. If there is anything lacking (for either of us) we talk about it like grown folks, we do not argue about it or get pissy until the other one "figures it out".

I handle my business like a man and she can appreciate that. If she were to be stupid enough to step outside the bounds the nthe guy did me a favor and saved me from it later in teh relationship. SAme for her. She takes care of her business and is a great woman. If I were to cheat, I'd deserve to get divorced and have half taken away

[Chitown Raider]

EXACTLY!!! I handle my business, take great care of my wife and treat her well. We share so much and I keep her happy. If there is anything lacking (for either of us) we talk about it like grown folks, we do not argue about it or get pissy until the other one "figures it out".

I handle my business like a man and she can appreciate that. If she were to be stupid enough to step outside the bounds the nthe guy did me a favor and saved me from it later in teh relationship. SAme for her. She takes care of her business and is a great woman. If I were to cheat, I'd deserve to get divorced and have half taken away

Now this sounds like a real marriage. Congrats for keeping it real.

[Getinbgr]

If a girl has a lot of guy friends (defined as more than two), the girl digs the attention she's getting from other men, which begs the question: What am I doing wrong? Guy friends, unless gay, are threats.
As most of us know, there's no such thing (in our mnds), as a purely platonic relationship with another girl--anatomically impossible. Thus, even "friends" pose an unnecessary threat down the road. I agree, however, that jealousy/ultimatums/threats will do no good if the girl is determined to keep the friend.

[Chitown Raider]

If a girl has a lot of guy friends (defined as more than two), the girl digs the attention she's getting from other men, which begs the question: What am I doing wrong? Guy friends, unless gay, are threats.
As most of us know, there's no such thing (in our mnds), as a purely platonic relationship with another girl--anatomically impossible. Thus, even "friends" pose an unnecessary threat down the road. I agree, however, that jealousy/ultimatums/threats will do no good if the girl is determined to keep the friend.

Good points. My ex was hot as hell, pretty much out of the three close friends she would hang out with were guys. Two of them she dated before and they would always want to sleep with her but she just viewed them as someone to hang out with once in awhile. The other friend she grew up with and he has a girlfriend so he is no threat. The one of the two guys she also works with. She told me the last time we talked that this guy would grab her ass in public and try to be flirty. Funny how this stuff comes out in the end after it's all said and done What a tramp, LOL.

[J-Dogg]

If your girl friend was really fat and shit, no problem. But if your girl friend is very attractive, the guy is looking for somthing.

To be honest, I'd trust the girl more, and I would not really be too happy about the guy. I would know what he is thinking, and he knows I'm thinking it too...

[Getinbgr]

If your girl friend was really fat and shit, no problem. But if your girl friend is very attractive, the guy is looking for somthing.

To be honest, I'd trust the girl more, and I would not really be too happy about the guy. I would know what he is thinking, and he knows I'm thinking it too...

Right on the money.

[Commando_Barbi]

I bartend part-time and get hit on all night long, I have a male roommate whom I have NEVER slept with and never will (and trust me, me fits all my "B" requirements Big, Black, Bald, and Beautiful hehe). I am in a relationship with a great guy (who has zero worries about my roomie or any of the men who hit on me) and I would never cheat on him. Trust is really important. If she hasn't done anything to make you NOT trust her, give her the benifit of the doubt.

[RA]

Your roommate would in a heartbeat and guys arent that crazy about their gf hanging out/living with other guys who want to get in their pants.

I bartend part-time and get hit on all night long, I have a male roommate whom I have NEVER slept with and never will (and trust me, me fits all my "B" requirements Big, Black, Bald, and Beautiful hehe). I am in a relationship with a great guy (who has zero worries about my roomie or any of the men who hit on me) and I would never cheat on him. Trust is really important. If she hasn't done anything to make you NOT trust her, give her the benifit of the doubt.

[goodcents]

Your roommate would in a heartbeat and guys arent that crazy about their gf hanging out/living with other guys who want to get in their pants.

Shhhhhhhhhh, we need people that believe in santa clauseGuys think about money and sex, that's it

[Commando_Barbi]

Shhhhhhhhhh, we need people that believe in santa clauseGuys think about money and sex, that's it

You two are cute. My roomate has zero interest in me. I'm not a tall blonde fitness model type. I get hit on plenty so I know I'm attractive, but in the 6 months we've shared a place, he's never once tried and I really don't see it happening. After having shared a place with him, I wouldn't be interested anyway....

[Chitown Raider]

NEWSFLASH: Came from a woman. Most, not all, women are nieve regarding mens' ability to be just "friends". While the woman thinks the guy just likes her because she is funny and smart, that same guy is thinking how great it would be to ****.

Your roommate would in a heartbeat and guys arent that crazy about their gf hanging out/living with other guys who want to get in their pants.

Bingo!

[cjp4eva]

I bartend part-time and get hit on all night long, I have a male roommate whom I have NEVER slept with and never will (and trust me, me fits all my "B" requirements Big, Black, Bald, and Beautiful hehe). I am in a relationship with a great guy (who has zero worries about my roomie or any of the men who hit on me) and I would never cheat on him. Trust is really important. If she hasn't done anything to make you NOT trust her, give her the benifit of the doubt.

Thing is the other 90% of girls dont think like you :/

[Chitown Raider]

Thing is the other 90% of girls dont think like you :/

Word, if they would only tell the truth how easier life would be.

[cjp4eva]

Word, if they would only tell the truth how easier life would be.

My babys mom just did something stupid to me and i broke up with her for like the 25th time, now i plan on fvcking her sister 04/04/08 hehe revenge is sweet and even sweeter when the sister looks 10 better than her.

[Chitown Raider]

My babys mom just did something stupid to me and i broke up with her for like the 25th time, now i plan on fvcking her sister 04/04/08 hehe revenge is sweet and even sweeter when the sister looks 10 better than her.

You might want to re-evaluate your thought process my friend. There could be major reprecussions.

[UberSteroids]

Yes, if they are gonna cheat, they are gonna cheat no matter what.

It's just that you have to take that risk of this happening.

As we all know, there is no way that female and male can be friends w/o thinking about sexual contact at one point. It happenes 100% each time.

So there is always that risk.

It is up to you to take that risk. All you can do is to be faithfull, don't cheat on her and trust her that she will be the same way as you are.

No trust = no relationship.

Take care.

[goodcents]

karma-
Boogey man might get you too

[peteroy01]

guy friends are like patient hunters. they hang out and act innocent until the prey is weak and vulnerable. and when they see weakness. BANG!!!!! there is your girl getting fvcked by Kenny the funny guy friend.

[firmechicano831]

any one wrap their thing when you bang a hot girl?

[Chitown Raider]

any one wrap their thing when you bang a hot girl?

As hard as it may be, you gotta. She can tell you all sorts of lies but only her coochie knows.

[sphincter]

what do you fellas say about ur missus's having guy friends?

both my wife and I are allowed to hav efirends of the opposite sex and even go out alone with them. I am a bouncer part time and frequently flirt with girls but I have no intention of going home with them as I am quite content with what I have. We both feel the same way and understand that if we betray that then it's "take a walk" time.

Case in point. Wife came to my club last weekend and while I was working she was hit on several times. finally a guy got her to dance and she did. she danced with him several times and I saw it and had no problem as long as he's being respectful to her. She knows how to handle herself and if it were uninvited, she would end it ASAP or have me break his head.

[DSM4Life]

both my wife and I are allowed to hav efirends of the opposite sex and even go out alone with them. I am a bouncer part time and frequently flirt with girls but I have no intention of going home with them as I am quite content with what I have. We both feel the same way and understand that if we betray that then it's "take a walk" time.

Case in point. Wife came to my club last weekend and while I was working she was hit on several times. finally a guy got her to dance and she did. she danced with him several times and I saw it and had no problem as long as he's being respectful to her. She knows how to handle herself and if it were uninvited, she would end it ASAP or have me break his head.

How come normal relationships like this are so rare ?

[Chitown Raider]

How come normal relationships like this are so rare ?

Cuz there's alot of people out there with issues be it from the past or just insecurities in general.

[DSM4Life]

Cuz there's alot of people out there with issues be it from the past or just insecurities in general.

Lame

[Chitown Raider]

Lame

I'm just speaking from what I've seen.

[sphincter]

How come normal relationships like this are so rare ?

yeah.. I don't know. the wife and I usually laugh when we see people acting all jealous and juvenile in relationships and this happens with people we know and just people we see throughout the day. all ages, incomes, ethnicities.. most act completely retarded about their partner and 99% of the time they are both uncontent and non-communicative with their partner.

[Chitown Raider]

both my wife and I are allowed to hav efirends of the opposite sex and even go out alone with them. I am a bouncer part time and frequently flirt with girls but I have no intention of going home with them as I am quite content with what I have. We both feel the same way and understand that if we betray that then it's "take a walk" time.

Case in point. Wife came to my club last weekend and while I was working she was hit on several times. finally a guy got her to dance and she did. she danced with him several times and I saw it and had no problem as long as he's being respectful to her. She knows how to handle herself and if it were uninvited, she would end it ASAP or have me break his head.

Crackin' skulls is always fun

[sphincter]

thanks bro.. I know I have it good and she's gorbeous as well! She gives me my shots and all is well. thanks for the props

[DSM4Life]

thanks bro.. I know I have it good and she's gorbeous as well! She gives me my shots and all is well. thanks for the props

How can anyone complain about a confidant, "gorbeous " women who gives "it" to you in the @$$

[Chitown Raider]

How can anyone complain about a confidant, "gorbeous " women who gives "it" to you in the @$$

hahaha. good one.

[Chitown Raider]

thanks bro.. I know I have it good and she's gorbeous as well! She gives me my shots and all is well. thanks for the props

You are a lucky man, I tried getting my girl to shoot me and she thought she was gonna use a insulin syringe like used for hgh. I pulled out two syringes and she saw the 1" needles and fainted, lol.

[Logan13]

what do you fellas say about ur missus's having guy friends?

Although most women do not understand this, all men(unless gay), want to **** your girlfriend. Let's be real. These guy friends are thinking the same thing you would think in their position of "guy friend". The faith lies with your girl. Nothing can happen unless she lets it happen. I have no issues with my wife's guy friends as it is not healthy to regulate your ladie's personal life.

[gixxerboy1]

My girl has a lot of guy friends. She had them all before me. Cant really say anything. I trust her. Them not so much.

[DSM4Life]

Although most women do not understand this, all men(unless gay), want to **** your girlfriend. Let's be real. These guy friends are thinking the same thing you would think in their position of "guy friend". The faith lies with your girl. Nothing can happen unless she lets it happen. I have no issues with my wife's guy friends as it is not healthy to regulate your ladie's personal life.

I disagree.......

[Chitown Raider]

I disagree.......

DSM, sorry bro but I gotta agree. What is the point of a guy being around if he is single and wanting to be friends if he is heterosexual? He wants to capitalize on that ass. I have been there quite a few times and like goodcents once said all the wolves come out when they smell fresh blood. Well, not exactly his quote but you get the point.

[cjp4eva]

DSM, sorry bro but I gotta agree. What is the point of a guy being around if he is single and wanting to be friends if he is heterosexual? He wants to capitalize on that ass. I have been there quite a few times and like goodcents once said all the wolves come out when they smell fresh blood. Well, not exactly his quote but you get the point.

my best friend is a girl, and i never had that "sexual" attraction towards her, and she thinks that i dont see her like that, but for the last month maybe a little longer, i've been trying to "screw" her, which proves your theory. Another thing that i STRONGLY belive on and it has ALWAYS happened to me and the people i know, is that if you dont cheat on the girl you're with, she'll cheat on you. Proven by me and my friends and happens 100% of the time. I know it might sound weird but at least that's whats happened to me and a couple of my friends, EVEN with my baby's mom, the slut did it to me twice, but i never did, because i was actually thinking about my son and nothing else.

[Chitown Raider]

my best friend is a girl, and i never had that "sexual" attraction towards her, and she thinks that i dont see her like that, but for the last month maybe a little longer, i've been trying to "screw" her, which proves your theory. Another thing that i STRONGLY belive on and it has ALWAYS happened to me and the people i know, is that if you dont cheat on the girl you're with, she'll cheat on you. Proven by me and my friends and happens 100% of the time. I know it might sound weird but at least that's whats happened to me and a couple of my friends, EVEN with my baby's mom, the slut did it to me twice, but i never did, because i was actually thinking about my son and nothing else.

I hear ya, my ex was the first one I never cheated on and guess what happened the exact same thing that happened to you and a couple of your friends. It really makes you scratch your head on that one.

[sorel_C]

my best friend is a girl, and i never had that "sexual" attraction towards her, and she thinks that i dont see her like that, but for the last month maybe a little longer, i've been trying to "screw" her, which proves your theory. Another thing that i STRONGLY belive on and it has ALWAYS happened to me and the people i know, is that if you dont cheat on the girl you're with, she'll cheat on you. Proven by me and my friends and happens 100% of the time. I know it might sound weird but at least that's whats happened to me and a couple of my friends, EVEN with my baby's mom, the slut did it to me twice, but i never did, because i was actually thinking about my son and nothing else.

lesson of the day.. CHEAT so you wont be cheated on

[Logan13]

I disagree.......

and how would you know........?

[DSM4Life]

and how would you know........?

How would you know what other people are thinking ?