Stop being her roomate and start being a husband! If you need the definition...let me know.
There is sooo much wrong with this I would have to break it down in sections
aka "JOB"
Stop being her roomate and start being a husband! If you need the definition...let me know.
There is sooo much wrong with this I would have to break it down in sections
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Why would you doubt im 34. I joined this site 2002....
I've gotten the opinions of my situation that I came here for, so thanks all.
If I do decide to leave eventually, that will suck to. I would have to start dating and act like I liked them and when I find out they dont like to swallow, im done. On to the next one because I know what I want with my 3rd wife. I'd probably be a little lonely between these dates so it's a hard decision.
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I think you will be lonely for a LONG time!Originally Posted by jdog55
Anabolic Member
What do you think Paul?
Sounds like he needs a whore instead of a wife?
New Member
I don't think she respects you sir. I think she's just putting up with you. Playing video games for 10 hours a day does not garner respect. The admission you make that you are her "bitch" is very telling. You are her gopher and at her beck and call. That's absurd. You are just making things a bit easier for her.
A woman needs a real man. You act like a wuss in the relationship and that's what she thinks of you. And that is why, to her, sex with you is a chore not a delight. Her goal is to placate not to please you.
Maybe you should leave her for awhile. Get your own place. Show some independence. Maybe she'll look at you differently then.
Anabolic Member
not to make "light" of your situation, Jdog, but here's something else i'm hearing from you....
my wife is great, she does this and she does that....
....I don't hear one gawdam thing YOU do, except contribute a paltry $400/mo to the household expenses! Oh, and you buy the toilet paper too, almost forgot that crritical part.
Sounds to me like you are a free loader?
Life is only stressful if you care!
jdog here is what I suggest. Don't give any tells that you are about to cum. Catch her by surprise before she stops. bingo you came in her mouth when she didn't see it coming.
Next time promise it will not happen again.
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Be a man and finish in her vag like most loving husbands do. If there is any justice at all in your sick world, you should have to finish in your fist for the rest of your life.
aka "JOB"
Buy a Fleshlight!
Disappointment* Known SCAMMER - Do Not Trust *
Man I am banging the HOTTEST Hispanic chick. Shes married but her idiot husband play video games all day. Meanwhile I slap her big tits off my face while she rides my cock and when im ready to bust she hops off and swallows my load...we do this over and over....
oh wait uh .....
lol
j/k man - couldnt resist
aka "JOB"
Does she still scream Lunk when she Orgasms?
Disappointment* Known SCAMMER - Do Not Trust *
Hmm no but she keeps asking me to tell her to stand up against the wall...feet apart and frisk her. Its all falling into place now .... lol
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dude are you for real of just ****in with us !?
you cooking and washing dishes is bad... she has to do it man . tell her to get her ass up and wash it
but again she owns everything and thats ****in awkward... in my situation we make almost same amount of money ( me higher by 10K)
but i own the house. i bought all the cars my car and hers and my baby ( camaro Zl1 )
she does shopping every now and then but all insurance , bills, mortgage, car payments its me
so when im home im the ****in king. also im kind of in control and she likes me to be in control . so yes im the king.. WOMAN go get water.. YES baby.
taking trash out and drive ur son is your responsibility
carrying laundry to washing machine is your responsibility because you wont let her carry that ****in stuff and u sit down . thats just awful.
AS for sex part. dont be an asshole you said it your self she got great boobs... thats always awesome
Senior Member
do you have any kids ?
Associate Member
How can he have kids? He refuses to finish in her vag.
Associate Member
I can do better also which is why I want to talk to her tonight... I can stop leaving my clothes on the bathroom floor and the towels on the floor. I will improve a lot if the sex life improves.
Senior Member
That's NOT how it works. You do NOTHING for her, sexually, emotionally. You aren't a man to her. You're a roommate. You're her bitch. Try being a man - pay bills, do things around the house, talk to her, show interest in her and her life/hobbies. Concentrate on pleasing her during sex, not worrying whether or not she'll let you blow your load down her throat.
What you're telling everyone is that you're immature, and shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Grow up, be a man, and take care of the house like a man would. Maybe then she'll look at you as a partner, a lover, and a friend. Not just some schlub who sits in the bedroom playing call of duty with a 14 year old all damn day, after you give her your rent check on the first of the month.
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Do I watch porn??? I guess u failed to read that she swallowed for me previously and for two other past boyfriends. This is life...not porn
I dont have any kids. I cant finish in her because she is not on birth control and ive always pulled out. Birth control makes her have acne.
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Hmm. I would have to agree that this is more of a biz arrangement then a love affair. I would recommend counseling bc your changes of finding another better life is less then 50% so your odds are better if you can work through some issues.
Also I suggest blood work for her. She's may have some hormones out of balance.
Birth control. I hated it. Messes up with a gals system but there are other methods. The ring! The patch! IUDs. Pick one! There is no reason why she can't find another effective birth control method.
Finally i suggest not getting so dang hung up on the coming in the mouth and being ticked bc she swallowed for other guys. Seriously. This is just immature. And the video gaming for 10 hours sounds more like an escape technique...
Wish you the very best!
Anabolic Member
maybe if he hooked up his wife to the gaming remote, and then add the ever popular "swallow" button?
....this could probably solve all their problems all at once?
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So if she don't swallow and you cant finish in her...then you are just roping the wind for the grand finale. That's not very satisfying at all. I would have to come up with a different plan, myself.
- MONITOR -
She doesn't love you anymore.Get over yourself...You can do better.. Do it
When she's swallowing the neighbor everyday while your playing video games, yeah she's tired.
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hhahahahahaha lol made laugh xD
aka "JOB"
Married for a year and this is the thought pattern. You are wasting time...both hers and yours.
You should still be honeymooners at this point.
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Girly says the same thing, only she makes you feel all warm and fuzzy after. I've got to work on my technique.
Knowledgeable Elite ~ Respected Female Leader ~
I am practicing mod techniques.Girly says the same thing, only she makes you feel all warm and fuzzy after. I've got to work on my technique.
Anabolic Member
Mate,
This will improve your relationship with your sperm receptical
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Hey brooooos. I'm so I'm going to TOTALLY CHANGE it up and give you a WTF.
I'm 27 I'm a great looking men physique guy my Gf is 21 short skinny, hot, big butt nice perky breast.
Now I don't know if I'm not that attracted to her or if it's just from supps,gear, or what.
But one I don't go down on any girl. She goes down on me and loves sex always wants it. but I'm never in the mood at all. Just don't want to get it on. I don't have that OMG I wanna bang her so bad feeling ... when we first started dating we were like rabbits. Now nothing. Maybe 1-2 times a month.
We fight which prolly has something to do with it .but we fight about sex she is not satisfied its Causing lots of issues. From her not satisifed to thinking im cheating.
Thing I'm getting to is I agree if it's not working out and your not happy move on. I tell her if I can't satisfy you the way you need then we should break up she gets pissed when I say that.
Talk to her express feelings and listen and make a change. I hate that I'm not In the mood for my girl. Maybe she just is not that into you anymore or has dude on side. Remix your marriage. It's a partner ship 50/50 equals.
Anyway just wanted to get that out
Anabolic Member
sounds like something destroyed your libido?
did you do a proper PCT post cycle last time?
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Lmfao @ im a great looking mens physique guy. Oh man I nearly pissed myself
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I've got 99 problems......but my squat/dead ain't one !!
It doesnt matter how good looking she is, some where, some one is tired of her shit.
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Us as women can quickly and quietly grow to resent some things that once didn't bother us.
As a woman I must say that 1: you shouldn't have moved in before you were ready for it. 2: at this point you are serving a purpose for her and the kid. If she doesn't at least attempt to rectify a "sexual" complaint, it's because she doesn't care. A lot if women don't like that particular act, but it's done to please our spouses no matter how much we don't like it.
I think you moved into this whole thing too soon. She seems more like a long lasting "rebound" chick than a wife.
I don't believe you should be contemplating anything except what's available to rent somewhere else and how soon you can move into the place.
Nothing that isn't completely 50/50 in all aspects will deteriorate any relationship. Money, sex, comfort whatever..... You don't seem to have approached this whole thing maturely from jump
Anabolic Member
100% agree with your perspective.
So let's spin it around on the "original poster", and look at it this way....
Suppose his woman were a little more assertive, and told him that before SHE came, he had to pull out every time and finish her off with his mouth. And oh, forget about HIS orgasm! And then, maybe, after she came, she'd finish him off with her hand.
I wonder how he would feel if the tables were turned and SHE were making these type demands?
aka "JOB"
Would you let her snowball you everytime you finished in her pie hole?
Senior Member
Argument over.
BOOM HEADSHOT! Pun intended lol
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He'd feel like the rest of the married men I know.
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strong strong strong broooo.
Bump bump bump
Senior Member
For $400 I'm sure you can find a Hispanic prostitute that'll blow you and eat it, since it seems to be such a huge deal.... Holy shit. Stop wasting your time and hers. Maybe it's just me, but this seems incredibly juvenile
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When on the prohormones I did pct. Is was mild cycle so mild pct. Although yes I know the phs out now suck bad...
But right now I'm on test 500 and eq 450.
And def get solid as beast in the morning but haven't gotten that urge to pound back the girl in prolly 4 months now!!?
And this has been this way prior to any aas intra muscle Cycle
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To reply to this. Are you taking any AI's, blood work to show everything is in the normal range?
But, I've been in your exact situation before. Me and the ex use to have a strong sex life. Once or twice a day, every day, both loved it and wanted it all the time. Then the fighting starts, and after a while you don't really care much about the sex.
But yeah, get some blood tests or something since you mentioned it might be from supps/drugs that you took/are taking. And maybe find a way to spice shit up.
What I did was just trying new things.. Which did help, but, in the end, we were just sick and miserable of eachother
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Perhaps I'm just really tired. But, a lot of your posts don't even make much sense.
From the way you explained it, it seems like she is basically your mother looking after you... And with your responses throughout this thread I can easily see that. There's so much that I see is wrong, I'm not sure if you are if you are serious or just fuking with us.
If this is serious, here is my advice/opinion:
Does she really pick up your clothes from the bathroom floor, and does all your laundry? And you mentioned that she does most/all of the household chores... But you are pissed off that you have to do some dishes or cook some food?
Oh, but if maybe there was more sex, you would clean up after yourself, but there isn't much sex, so you don't.... Sounds a little immature, don't you think?
She has her own house, her own car, and it seems like she is doing well for self. What do you have in your name?
I don't even get it, lol. You're paying her rent, and she pays all the bills? Sounds like your living with parents.
Judging from your posts, it has to be your way, or you leave. She likes to dance, you don't No dancing. And I don't get the big deal with her not swallowing..
I can honestly see why she doesn't want to have sex with you anymore. And if I were her, I would have left you a long time ago.
I would normally say that communication is key in a relationship. Talk to her about your feelings, and work on fixing it. But, I doubt that would for you. Everything that I've read from you, shows me that you are acting like a child that's pissed off because the world doesn't revolve around your needs.
Stop blaming her, and maybe think that you are the problem. And work on fixing that. If you don't feel like trying to fix the problems than leave. Sounds like you would be doing them a favor. Sounds like the only thing you want from her is sex and a personally maid to clean everything. Asides from that, it sounds like they are a nuisance to you.
Gotta cook and do some dishes for a family that you apparently 'love' and 'want' to care for. Gotta take out the garbage once in a while. Gotta take care of your 14 yearold stepson, that you 'love', and drive him to school. Wife does everything else, but if she doesn't give you sex whenever you want it = you seriously considering leaving your wife? I guess you don't understand the responsibilities involved in a relationship. You're asking for the moon and giving nothing in return, and it doesn't even sound like you genuinely care about them if you are consider leaving your family for such a stupid reason.
I've been up for 40+ hours so hopefully it makes enough sense, and trust me. I tried to sound as nice as possible when I was writing this.
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