it's not working out with my gf, how to I get her to move out.

[TheClinch]

Can you tell this girls parents the situation in hopes they will encourage her to get out of a home she isnt wanted it?

[DSM4Life]

Could always tell her you have bad case of herpes. That would make me want to leave.

[TheClinch]

Could always tell her you have bad case of herpes. That would make me want to leave.

Yesss, lol good one.

[thegodfather]

How old is she? and how old are you?

If you want out of the situation immediately, I recommend getting a copy of your lease, and going over the clauses which would be grounds for an immediate (30 day notice) eviction and termination of your lease. For instance, if pets are not allowed, go and buy a cheap parakeet(extremely loud), or some other violation of the terms of your lease which would force your landlord to evict you.

[crazy mike]

[QUOTE=Lunk1;6516475]Thats a bit extreme. In order to get a restraining order she would have to show immenent danger not just a general PITA! As far as providing things if he is not living there..that would be civil matter not a criminal one.

Since she is not on the lease...have the landlord remove her. I dont know if your lease allows you to sublet so she/you may be in direct violation of the lease. I still say move her out and change the locks...it's not illegal![/QUOTE]

Bottom line here. The landlord may be able to do this so try. Better yet you MUST take action now. First do not change the lock. I have been through this when me and the wife were separated. I was stark naked (don't ask) when a roommate (he held the lease) locked me out on the carport. I yelled open the FKN door now or I'm coming thru it! He not open!! SO I came thru it. Took the jamb off , took the door off the hinges, Scared the sh!t out of him Ha... Anyway the cops came he accuse me of being insane and my meds do it. I showed the cops No. They told him he could not lock me out, he could not change the locks and because he welcomed me in and all my stuff was there he needed to behave and leave me the FK alone. I could come and go. Now the told him to remove me he had to do it legal and go down to city hall and start eviction proceedings. Only way and had to wait until they took her out. No I don't give a hoot what all they are telling you here about do this or do that. Get your a$$ in gear and take action (LEGAL). Get a attitude of acceptance be good to your self and do the RIGHT thing. Now the herpes crap is just stupid. Figures coming from an antagonist. But take care of her at the same time you take care of yourself. You did care for her, so let her be notified with no choice and e forced to do the only and right thing. Have the serenity to accept the things you cannot change (right now) and have the courage to change the things you can. Have the wisdom to change the things you can and take affirmative action. ...good luck bro,. ....crazy ? mike

[Lunk1]

[QUOTE=crazy mike;6516669]

Thats a bit extreme. In order to get a restraining order she would have to show immenent danger not just a general PITA! As far as providing things if he is not living there..that would be civil matter not a criminal one.

Since she is not on the lease...have the landlord remove her. I dont know if your lease allows you to sublet so she/you may be in direct violation of the lease. I still say move her out and change the locks...it's not illegal![/QUOTE]

Bottom line here. The landlord may be able to do this so try. Better yet you MUST take action now. First do not change the lock. I have been through this when me and the wife were separated. I was stark naked (don't ask) when a roommate (he held the lease) locked me out on the carport. I yelled open the FKN door now or I'm coming thru it! He not open!! SO I came thru it. Took the jamb off , took the door off the hinges, Scared the sh!t out of him Ha... Anyway the cops came he accuse me of being insane and my meds do it. I showed the cops No. They told him he could not lock me out, he could not change the locks and because he welcomed me in and all my stuff was there he needed to behave and leave me the FK alone. I could come and go. Now the told him to remove me he had to do it legal and go down to city hall and start eviction proceedings. Only way and had to wait until they took her out. No I don't give a hoot what all they are telling you here about do this or do that. Get your a$$ in gear and take action (LEGAL). Get a attitude of acceptance be good to your self and do the RIGHT thing. Now the herpes crap is just stupid. Figures coming from an antagonist. But take care of her at the same time you take care of yourself. You did care for her, so let her be notified with no choice and e forced to do the only and right thing. Have the serenity to accept the things you cannot change (right now) and have the courage to change the things you can. Have the wisdom to change the things you can and take affirmative action. ...good luck bro,. ....crazy ? mike

Yes Mike...she could gain access through force if he changed the locks and there would be no legal recourse but...playing the odds, I doubt she would and may just give up.

[RaginCajun]

Just saw this thread.

Is there a pic of your GF in this thread?

If she is hot, send her my way and I will take care of it for you free of charge

[crazy mike]

[QUOTE=Lunk1;6516696]

Yes Mike...she could gain access through force if he changed the locks and there would be no legal recourse but...playing the odds, I doubt she would and may just give up.

My point though, Whatever happens. He should get off his a$$, (I shouldn't be like that) and go down and get it all moving. This will protect him for any future legal problems. It will get here moving. He will JUST HAVE TO put up for a month. Concentrate on other things ( if can) get more involved with work, diet and workouts, or hobbies. Ya gotta put up sometimes at least be patient. Look to the future, be grateful for what you have and how much better it will be. It will come, but in God's time by and with your affinitive action. Using the spiritual principals that one should live by you will overcome and be a better man. You will be happier with self.
Hey this all sounds good on paper, ha, but try and that will become comforting. Do it right and we can applaud him. Just saying get on with it and be happier. enough out of me. Sorry to go on like this ...crazy mike

[ironbeck]

Guys, crazy Mike...

I don't blame the aas. And yes I love the girl but as far as our relationship, it's not working. I want to keep it civil and deal with it the best way I can. I dont want to hurt her any more then I'm going too. All I'm saying is I don't think she can find a place to live any time soon! She's looking with a friend and if her friend flakes she's back to nothing. All along we Will just continue to fight. So I feel I'm stuck letting her stay and were going to keep having problems.

Oh what a nice guy you are.....what you are is a fool! and she knows how to take advantage of a fool. Don't say anything! If you want to move on, then move the the **** on, start dating and try to live your life like she doesn't exit and she will eventually realize the gravy train is over and she cannot provoke emotion out of you anymore...........she will leave.

[crazy mike]

EVICTION PROCEEDINGS. ...enough, crazy mike

[crazy mike]

Just saw this thread.

Is there a pic of your GF in this thread?

If she is hot, send her my way and I will take care of it for you free of charge

Great ??? He opened on one post that he loved her BUT...... so be col guys. ...crazy mike

[JCFobsession]

Im looking for easiest, non aggressive way to make this happen and not cause to many issues.

Every time something happens now she blames it on... "get off the steroids "

She said she is going to look for a place.

[tigerspawn]

[QUOTE=Lunk1;6516475]Thats a bit extreme. In order to get a restraining order she would have to show immenent danger not just a general PITA! As far as providing things if he is not living there..that would be civil matter not a criminal one.QUOTE]

If you go to legal finder and put OP information into it this is condensed version of what the lawyers there state should be done and what could happen if you don’t. Have you ever had restraining order filed on you? They don’t have to prove anything. You have to prove that you didn’t do anything to warrant restraining order. That’s the way it is here in Illinois.

[austinite]

Restraining orders are garbage. Protective orders make an impact.

[Lunk1]

[QUOTE=tigerspawn;6517391]

Thats a bit extreme. In order to get a restraining order she would have to show immenent danger not just a general PITA! As far as providing things if he is not living there..that would be civil matter not a criminal one.QUOTE]

If you go to legal finder and put OP information into it this is condensed version of what the lawyers there state should be done and what could happen if you don’t. Have you ever had restraining order filed on you? They don’t have to prove anything. You have to prove that you didn’t do anything to warrant restraining order. That’s the way it is here in Illinois.

Restraining orders, protective orders and no-contact orders...it's all the same. Just different terminology. I have PLENTy of experience with them. Here one must prove that they are in danger or they would be handing them out willy nilly all day long.

[austinite]

Hmm. In Texas, a restraining order protects you in a certain area. Protective, protects you at home, work, phone, electronic communication of any kind, etc...

Big difference.

[Times Roman]

Mate,

it would make a big difference in the quality of our advice if you post a pic of her

---just saying!

[JCFobsession]

Lol there is quick pic.

[Lunk1]

Lol there is quick pic.

Yup...boot her! Never keep a girl making duck face!

[Lunk1]

Hmm. In Texas, a restraining order protects you in a certain area. Protective, protects you at home, work, phone, electronic communication of any kind, etc...

Big difference.

Yeah...damn state by state laws. Ours are called no-contact orders and you may not have any contact by writing, in person, through a third party, through phone ar anything anywhere. They arenot easy to get though. Like I mentioned..immenent danger needs to be shown. We even take all guns from the person served the order.

[tigerspawn]

[QUOTE=Lunk1;6517407]

Restraining orders, protective orders and no-contact orders...it's all the same. Just different terminology. I have PLENTy of experience with them. Here one must prove that they are in danger or they would be handing them out willy nilly all day long.

Man wish that was case here. Here you have to prove you dont deserve it.

[Lunk1]

[QUOTE=tigerspawn;6517439]

Man wish that was case here. Here you have to prove you dont deserve it.

Dont mean to hijack but have they voted on the concealed carry bill yet there???

[Times Roman]

Lol there is quick pic.

ha ha ha

I was just fukkin with you mate! =)

[JCFobsession]

Lol I know I know

[austinite]

I can't see her, must have her top on.

[RaginCajun]

Lol there is quick pic.

<img src="http://forums.steroid.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=137914"/>

Send her my way, prob solved

[Times Roman]

I can't see her, must have her top on.

.............I was thinking the same thing

you know, JC, the quality of our commments wouuld vastly improve if there was a way you can help out with Austinite's vision problem? =)

[tigerspawn]

[QUOTE=Lunk1;6517456]

Dont mean to hijack but have they voted on the concealed carry bill yet there???

Yes and it didn't pass. My friend owns defense company. He put several hundred people through Florida concealed carry classes so that they would be ready when law passed. When law didn’t pass his phone blew up. Over half of the people he trained have called and want their money back.

[Lunk1]

[QUOTE=tigerspawn;6517547]

Yes and it didn't pass. My friend owns defense company. He put several hundred people through Florida concealed carry classes so that they would be ready when law passed. When law didn’t pass his phone blew up. Over half of the people he trained have called and want their money back.

My understanding was that they have till a certain date to comply with the Supreme Courts order or Fed Law will supercede...

[FONZY007]

At one time you loved her, what changed??

She seems like a very attractive young lady? Why u don't get along with her?

You say if she moves out will try and work it out? Why not sit down talk and get everything out?

See I'm a married man, wife and I talk if anything is ever bothering us.... We get along great, I'm 31 and she is 24...

I wish you luck JC and hope everything works out; with or without her

[marcus300]

Just start pissing and shiting in bed with her and all over the house and dont forget in her wardrobe aswell. Won't take long for her to leave.

[austinite]

Just start pissing and shiting in bed with her and all over the house and dont forget in her wardrobe aswell. Won't take long for her to leave.

Laughing

my

f'n

ass

off!

[frank13]

Lol there is quick pic.

id make it work if i were u

[crazy mike]

Just start pissing and shiting in bed with her and all over the house and dont forget in her wardrobe aswell. Won't take long for her to leave.

Behave Marcus. really would you do that .. huh? I, would never act like that ...crazy mike

[FONZY007]

id make it work if i were u

x 2 ^^

[austinite]

Behave Marcus. really would you do that .. huh? I, would never act like that ...crazy mike

I guarantee you marcus would. Problem is with his luck... she would probably like it.

[austinite]

Meh... you guys forget that for every hot broad out there, some dude is tired of her shit.

[FONZY007]

Meh... you guys forget that for every hot broad out there, some dude is tired of her shit.

Also for every dude that is tired of her shit, there is another dude that is willing to give her attention.. Most of the time that's all they want..

[frank13]

Also for every dude that is tired of her shit, there is another dude that is willing to give her attention.. Most of the time that's all they want..

id give her a little more then attention ha ha ha ha

[Lunk1]

Meh... you guys forget that for every hot broad out there, some dude is tired of her shit.

sounds like alot of lonely guys home jerkin it