Now I'm almost afraid to ask

... revised.... BTW, is there a different post workout protein shake you might recommend? I was unclear as to whether muscle milk is not a good choice, or if the nix was due to the low PWO carbs. Also, is there a reason for me to avoid milk altogether, or should I just not count it as "food"? No turkey sandwich? Or is that too many carbs in a bad place? What changes might you make here? Or shall I begin again? Thanks again for your time.
i would stiuck with whey protein, skim milk would be fine to mix with it. i would also incorporate some casein protein into your PWO meal. i have read that casein and whey make for a very anabolic PWO combo. i usually have 2 cups of skim milk with whey, fat free cottage cheese and some oats with splenda and cinnamon. amounts would depend on your daily intake.
too many carbs in a bad place? no such thing... unless they come from cookies and cake and you're sitting in an electric chair. turkey sandwich would be a good meal replacement at times, just assume the same calories that you would if you were eating eggs and potatoes.
Meal 1:
1 cup oats
1 can tuna (my egg substitute)
pro:47 carb:63 fat:10 cal:515
about 490 cals here. but this is a good meal, your others should look like this. keep it simple.
Meal 2:
6oz. chicken breast
1 cup pasta
pro:59 carb:27 fat:8 cal:386
personally i am not a fan of pasta, but if you want it, it should be ok before a workout as a carb source. the reason i am contemplating you changing this carb source is because i recommend that people keep preworkout carbs high if not higher than postworkout carbs. and i wouldn't want you to eat a lot of pasta. if you do decide to up your preworkout carb intake i would switch to a sweet potato or possibly a red potato.
-workout-
on the way home...
banana
fish oil
muscle milk shake
pro:44 carb:69 fat:25 cal:658
don't eat and drive. have your shake at home. no need to supplement fat into this meal at those high numbers. plus if you are doing it for satiation, you should be eating again, about an hour after this meal, so it shouldn't be necessary.
Meal 3:
turkey sandwich with veg
(now on thin whole grain bread)
pro:23 carb:26 fat:4 cal:242
not enough calories here. you should attempt to spread your calories evenly across your meals, so your activity, protein choices, and your carb choices are what are manipulated. fibrous green veggies are a good choice in any meal and here with some turkey breast it would make a good combo.
Meal 4:
8oz, tri-tip
sweet potato
pro:50 carb:24 fat:16 cal:523
is that fat from the tri-tip? it seems like a higher amount, but if so it should be fine. good choices here.
before bed:
2 cans tuna
pro:70 carb:0 fat:6
need carbs here. no need to jam 70g of protein into a meal. have 40-50 in each meal, and keep those amounts even with your carbs. here would be a good place to ad a little cottage cheese if you wanted, and where is the rest of that sweet potato from before? have the rest of it here before bed. 4-5oz would be ok.
Totals-
pro:293 carb:209 fat:69 Kcal:2,674