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  1. 07-20-2007, 01:55 PM #1
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    What should I say?

    So there is this girl and she is cool as hell and really fun to hang out with and she has feelings for me and last night we "hooked" up i guess you could say but I just dont want a relationship now and just want to be close friends with her? How do i say that
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    You dont. Sex changes the relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack
    You dont. Sex changes the relationship.
    we didnt have sex
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    Just tell her you care for her and don't want to ruin anything by rushing into anything
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    Quote Originally Posted by l2elapse
    we didnt have sex

    What do you mean by hooking up then?
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  6. 07-20-2007, 02:11 PM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack
    What do you mean by hooking up then?
    he must had got his first kiss!.

    congrats..

    u gotta give her the lets just be friends line..

    but bewarned once u do...

    she'll become obsessed with u.. cause she won't be able to figure out whats wrong with her or sumething like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pooks
    he must had got his first kiss!.

    congrats..

    u gotta give her the lets just be friends line..

    but bewarned once u do...

    she'll become obsessed with u.. cause she won't be able to figure out whats wrong with her or sumething like that.
    i know thats the problem, shell think im playing hard to get
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    Quote Originally Posted by l2elapse
    i know thats the problem, shell think im playing hard to get
    well than... have sex with her mother.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pooks
    well than... have sex with her mother.


    ROFLMAO...


    Actually not a bad idea. Two birds one..um nevermind.
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    Just be honest. If you want to hump her, go for it, just let her know its meaningless to you beforehand. If she goes nuts over you, who cares, thats her prob. At least you're honest from the start.
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    Honestly, I see some real value in hanging around this girl for a while. Just take it slow and maybe your feelings will reciprocate over time. Because you may look back and later realize that you let a wonderful thing fall through the cracks.

    Good luck!
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  12. 07-20-2007, 02:26 PM #12
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    thanks guys, good advices
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  13. 07-20-2007, 03:12 PM #13
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pooks
    well than... have sex with her mother.
    lol nice
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  14. 07-20-2007, 03:15 PM #14
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    Nothing. Why do you think you have to explain yourself. Just hang out as friends. And if you don't want more don't hook up with her again.

    No need to sit her down and discuss your feelings. And like Mav said things may change
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