4Ever Fly Solo 0r Not?

[Sage]

Yo, I've been doin some deep thinking @ work today since I don't do shit there anyways but plan out my next cycles…


Anyways,
Looking back at my life, I have not had many serious relationships, majority purely sexual for a few months or so and I move on or at times vise versa. I guess what I am saying is that my standards are very high since I consider myself a to be good-looking guy and not settle down just for any woman.

At the family gatherings I always come alone since I don't bring just anyone to meet my entire family. Also, I go solo to the weddings, corporate parties, clubbin, vacations with my close friends, and etc. Basically I always have some bitch to f'ck, but nothing serious since I always find flaws in them all and keep looking for something better and different each time. Also, noticed allot of good looking people end up being alone since they concentrate too much on themselves and feel like they are above everyone which is not making them seem available or approachable to the apposite sex…..Shit, I feel like the older we get, the harder it is to find a girl of your dreams and people seem to give up looking and settle for the first thing that rolls around…..Enough about my rant.

My question to all the bros here:
At what point or when do you start lowering your standards in order NOT to go through life all alone?

[Z-Ro]

Good question man, I think about the same stuff all the time.

So far I am going with solo, I think I'm younger than you though.

[Lexed]

donate your sperm to a sperm bank that way you can say you have kids. thats all I personally want out of a relationship

[Titleist]

At what point or when do you start lowering your standards in order NOT to go through life all alone?

Never.

I do believe that there is someone out there for everybody. It's just up to you to find them. You have to go out and be willing to meet new people- not saying that you aren't, I'm just stating the obvious. If you never go out, you'll never find what you're looking for. The key word there is look.

Life throws all kinda crazy shit at you man. Tomorrow you could meet your "dream girl". You never know what the next day is gonna bring.

[RuhlFreak55]

Never.

I do believe that there is someone out there for everybody. It's just up to you to find them. You have to go out and be willing to meet new people- not saying that you aren't, I'm just stating the obvious. If you never go out, you'll never find what you're looking for. The key word there is look.

Life throws all kinda crazy shit at you man. Tomorrow you could meet your "dream girl". You never know what the next day is gonna bring.

i agree totally with him

[Sage]

Never.

I do believe that there is someone out there for everybody. It's just up to you to find them. You have to go out and be willing to meet new people- not saying that you aren't, I'm just stating the obvious. If you never go out, you'll never find what you're looking for. The key word there is look.

Life throws all kinda crazy shit at you man. Tomorrow you could meet your "dream girl". You never know what the next day is gonna bring.

u know what bro, I do agree with what you have to say and i hope more people can get in on this;


When you are no longer a dependent, but rather at the stage of your life where mortgage payment on the new crib kicks is, doing renovations to the crib, have a successful job, financially stable, occupied with other material things, friend, and etc.... u no longer prioritize yourself as much with finding that significant other since the things listed above keep you active and busy as it is already.

When you look in the mirror every morning and think to yourself that u look good and everybody knows it and shit, your time will come and make yourself feel better not realizing life is so f’ck short where one day you wake up all wrinkly and shit covered in your own urine at some nursing home with no one to take care of you only than realizing the f’ck I been doin all these years?!?

[RuhlFreak55]

no see sage i'm gonna live forever and never get older than ronnie coleman was last year

[spywizard]

Yo, I've been doin some deep thinking @ work today since I don't do shit there anyways but plan out my next cycles…


Anyways,
Looking back at my life, I have not had many serious relationships, majority purely sexual for a few months or so and I move on or at times vise versa. I guess what I am saying is that my standards are very high since I consider myself a to be good-looking guy and not settle down just for any woman.

At the family gatherings I always come alone since I don't bring just anyone to meet my entire family. Also, I go solo to the weddings, corporate parties, clubbin, vacations with my close friends, and etc. Basically I always have some bitch to f'ck, but nothing serious since I always find flaws in them all and keep looking for something better and different each time. Also, noticed allot of good looking people end up being alone since they concentrate too much on themselves and feel like they are above everyone which is not making them seem available or approachable to the apposite sex…..Shit, I feel like the older we get, the harder it is to find a girl of your dreams and people seem to give up looking and settle for the first thing that rolls around…..Enough about my rant.

My question to all the bros here:
At what point or when do you start lowering your standards in order NOT to go through life all alone?

you don't lower your expectations, as you get younger, you simply marry a younger woman.. without kids, and she has finished college..

get it??

there are a bunch of them out there that's for sure..

[gixxerboy1]

You don't lower your standards.

But the real question is are you looking for things wrong with all the girls. Nobody is perfect and you can always find something little you dont like.

[goodcents]

Solo here I just can't commit to one chic and have too many goals to deal with that shlt all the time. Sometimes I miss having a steady girl, but it fades very fast when I think of the headaches I like my mistresses. Always a newer younger one coming up all the time, it's like getting a new computer, there's always a couple of things wrong but they almost always run faster than the old one

[scottish]

Never lower your standards. You will know in an instant when the right one comes along.

[3bd]

Never lower your standards. You will know in an instant when the right one comes along.

Ah but there's the rub... the older you get... the harder this becomes!

[buffgator]

Yeah I dont think that you have to lower your standarda, if anything you should raise them. I new allot of girls that where great girlfriend material, but it takes a special girl to be wife material. Also I think that no matter who you hitch up with there will be times where they get boring, the real test of a marriage is what you guys do during those times.

[Amorphic]

Yo, I've been doin some deep thinking @ work today since I don't do shit there anyways but plan out my next cycles…


Anyways,
Looking back at my life, I have not had many serious relationships, majority purely sexual for a few months or so and I move on or at times vise versa. I guess what I am saying is that my standards are very high since I consider myself a to be good-looking guy and not settle down just for any woman.

At the family gatherings I always come alone since I don't bring just anyone to meet my entire family. Also, I go solo to the weddings, corporate parties, clubbin, vacations with my close friends, and etc. Basically I always have some bitch to f'ck, but nothing serious since I always find flaws in them all and keep looking for something better and different each time. Also, noticed allot of good looking people end up being alone since they concentrate too much on themselves and feel like they are above everyone which is not making them seem available or approachable to the apposite sex…..Shit, I feel like the older we get, the harder it is to find a girl of your dreams and people seem to give up looking and settle for the first thing that rolls around…..Enough about my rant.

My question to all the bros here:
At what point or when do you start lowering your standards in order NOT to go through life all alone?

I have been wondering the same thing lately. I just broke up with my g/f for the same kind of reasons that I feel she wasn't doing enough with her life. I got to wondering if i expect too much out of people, but at the same time i just cant bring myself to lower my expectations. I guess thats just the price you pay to find the special people.

[Sage]

you don't lower your expectations, as you get younger, you simply marry a younger woman.. without kids, and she has finished college..

get it??

there are a bunch of them out there that's for sure..

I see what you are saying, but at the same time when you are extremely close to reaching that 30 years old mark, the patience for babysitting the young ones will be running thin, especially dealing with the immature BS drama they bring to the table. I know the sex is great, but there is always a catch, u know.

I think at that point of your life you just want to be better off with someone safe and stable to start building a healthy family. But, in most cases “safe” does not constitute hot bombshells we all be chasin around town.

[Sage]

Ah but there's the rub... the older you get... the harder this becomes!

that is so f'ckn true, i think the older we get, its no longer just about the pretty face and much more factors come into play which makes it harder for both sexes.

[scriptfactory]

After one failed marriage and another one that is having troubles I can honestly say NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS. No matter what happens, if you want to be happy in a long-term relationship don't lower your damn standards. Choose your partner wisely. Your partner should also choose you wisely. If he/she feels like you aren't perfect at the beginning of the relationship but you might change in the future, they are going to be severely disappointed.

[hulk1o1]

good