Sterling Institute Mens weekend

[redz]

So I have gotten myself into something weird here. My gf has signed me up for this mens weekend anyone here know much about it? supposed to give you a tool box to handle women and what not lol. How do I get myself into these things?!?!?

[RaginCajun]

So I have gotten myself into something weird here. My gf has signed me up for this mens weekend anyone here know much about it? supposed to give you a tool box to handle women and what not lol. How do I get myself into these things?!?!?

I thought your GF was married?

[redz]

I thought your GF was married?

She is but I think that's about to change. Flying down to Florida to pick her up and drive her back detouring to Newburgh to do this weekend before continuing on route back home to Canada.

[GirlyGymRat]

She is but I think that's about to change. Flying down to Florida to pick her up and drive her back detouring to Newburgh to do this weekend before continuing on route back home to Canada.

She's still there with the husband after announcing she wanted a divorce more then a few weeks ago. Wow. This sure is complicated.

[Lunk1]

She is but I think that's about to change. Flying down to Florida to pick her up and drive her back detouring to Newburgh to do this weekend before continuing on route back home to Canada.

Woe woe woe...you THINK that's about to change? I thought you were headed there and opening a gym with all of her new found riches???

[jasc]

supposed to give you a tool box to handle women and what not lol.

sounds like she's already trying to "improve" you and you're not even together yet

"The Sterling Men's Weekend reawakens and invigorates the masculine spirit through a rugged exploration of the heart, mind, and soul. Set against the backdrop of relationships with the opposite sex, the Weekend offers men a two day, directed journey through our new roles in society, family, and the workplace. It focuses a practical and uncompromising light on traditional and modern concepts of masculinity, femininity, sex, marriage, success, and lifestyle"

[redz]

She's still there with the husband after announcing she wanted a divorce more then a few weeks ago. Wow. This sure is complicated.

Youre telling me! It never ends.

[redz]

sounds like she's already trying to "improve" you and you're not even together yet

She did the women's version of the course how bad can it be lol.

Woe woe woe...you THINK that's about to change? I thought you were headed there and opening a gym with all of her new found riches???

It wasnt money from her that would have been starting the gym I have the backing, it's on hold for now want her situation finalized before moving on that project,

[diesel101]

She's still there with the husband after announcing she wanted a divorce more then a few weeks ago. Wow. This sure is complicated.

Sounds like "the young and the restless"

[lovbyts]

She's still there with the husband after announcing she wanted a divorce more then a few weeks ago. Wow. This sure is complicated.

What's complicated about it? Did anything think it would be any different? Nice how she is already working at turning you into the perfect guy for her since you clearly were not good enough before or she would not be wanting you to take these classes especially so early on into the relationship.

Anyone things it will stop here or even slow down? It will only get more and more changes that will need to be made until she is ready to move on and find the next young new toy.

Dont say we didnt warn you.

[redz]

Hey I hear ya, in any case I am the one driving her home 28 hours from Florida and I`m pretty sure this spells the last blow to her marriage. If she wont marry me then its over anyways.

[Lunk1]

Hey I hear ya, in any case I am the one driving her home 28 hours from Florida and I`m pretty sure this spells the last blow to her marriage. If she wont marry me then its over anyways.

What...this is your sould mate as I recall. Now you are making ultimatums about marriage!

C'mon Redz..it's OK to admitt there is a chance we could have been right

[redz]

C'mon Redz..it's OK to admitt there is a chance we could have been right

So why am I picking her up and bringing her home?

[lovbyts]

So why am I picking her up and bringing her home?

Because you are still thinking with the little head.

[Lunk1]

So why am I picking her up and bringing her home?

Because your the enabler...

She needs that support while she finishes tearing apart her other prey...there will be anothoer who is her enabler when she eats your heart as well

[Euroholic]

Dude your like a home wrecker that stuff messes with peoples life..

[redz]

Dude your like a home wrecker that stuff messes with peoples life..

Him agreeing to an open marriage is his own fault bro.

She needs that support while she finishes tearing apart her other prey...there will be anothoer who is her enabler when she eats your heart as well

That sounds pretty funny the way you wrote it. As for her eating my heart not likely lol.

[thegodfather]

Him agreeing to an open marriage is his own fault bro.
That sounds pretty funny the way you wrote it. As for her eating my heart not likely lol.

Im late on this story, but can I ask how you met this broad?

[lovbyts]

Im late on this story, but can I ask how you met this broad?

Ohhh this should be good. Cant wait for your input. lol
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[Rwy]

cliff notes lol

[lovbyts]

cliff notes lol

Redz's Wife left in May
Redz Hooked up with married woman who had a OPEN relationship with a well off $$$ older guy.
She dumped her husband humiliating him in front of family and friends and is moving from Sunny Florida to gloomy Canada all in the name of true love with Redz.

New woman is sending Redz to obedience school.

It's all true love...

[Lunk1]

Redz's Wife left in May
Redz Hooked up with married woman who had a OPEN relationship with a well off $$$ older guy.
She dumped her husband humiliating him in front of family and friends and is moving from Sunny Florida to gloomy Canada all in the name of true love with Redz.

New woman is sending Redz to obedience school.

It's all true love...

You forgot Redz moving to Florida and them opening a gym

[OnTheSauce]

O.o whoa

[kelkel]

Im late on this story, but can I ask how you met this broad?

Oh no!



Look out Redz, potty training is next!

[DSM4Life]

If she is a girlfriend and you already need classes on how to handle each other then I hate to break it to you but the relationship is already over. Do both yourselves a favor and move on.

[redz]

Redz's Wife left in May
Redz Hooked up with married woman who had a OPEN relationship with a well off $$$ older guy.
She dumped her husband humiliating him in front of family and friends and is moving from Sunny Florida to gloomy Canada all in the name of true love with Redz.

New woman is sending Redz to obedience school.

It's all true love...

Pretty good lol

If she is a girlfriend and you already need classes on how to handle each other then I hate to break it to you but the relationship is already over. Do both yourselves a favor and move on.

She things it will help me heal my relationship with my dad and step dad. Who knows? I havent spoke to either of them in 12 years.

[noon]

Yikes and holy s#*t
Just from the little bit to read here sounds like a you may be a stepping stone.
And stepping stones always stay in the mud while the traveler passes by
Hope it works out well for you.

[redz]

I know im not a stepping stone but hey this is all risky business but what isnt with women?

[Rwy]

Redz's Wife left in May
Redz Hooked up with married woman who had a OPEN relationship with a well off $$$ older guy.
She dumped her husband humiliating him in front of family and friends and is moving from Sunny Florida to gloomy Canada all in the name of true love with Redz.

New woman is sending Redz to obedience school.

It's all true love...

lol....

[thegodfather]

I know im not a stepping stone but hey this is all risky business but what isnt with women?

Redz, you're a good dude and I've always enjoyed your posts...Now with that said, I've got to say man, I have NEVER quite understood the logic behind a guy who engages in a relationship with a female who cheats on her significant other, and then to turn around and say "Now THATS the girl I wanna be with!!"... I've been cheated on by girls I was madly in love with, planned on marrying, etc. I think it is largely hubris which leads guys to believe that you are "SPECIAL" and "DIFFERENT" from the guy shes cheating on. Guys will often rationalize this behavior in so many ways to make it acceptable, and to explain why THEIR relationship with the woman will actually work, why she would NEVER cheat on HIM , even after cheating on her significant other for months upon months, being deceitful, dishonest, disloyal, and severely wanton in moral fiber. To give you the 411 on the situation with the girl I planned to marry who cheated on me, she started a relationship with the guy she cheated on me with, and moved in with him, and 7 months into their relationship I ran into her, and f**ked her brains out that night. She didn't break up with him, she is still with him, but he has no idea about what happened. In the end though, I got my 'revenge', and karma served it up to him without me even having to try.

Cheating is not something like making a bad purchase by paying too much for something, and then learning from it and not doing it again. I have found that people who cheat usually are very insecure, or are lacking in some other quality that we usually would associate with a normal person. Often, people who cheat are compensating for something in their lives...Very rarely I have found, do men&women who cheat, do it as a one time thing, never to do it again. It is habitual behavior, often part of who that person is, and unlikely to change. Seasons change, the Earth revolves around the Sun, but people usually do not change.

A good friend of mine, who is several years older, had cheated on his wife six or seven times over their 12 year marriage. Finally, he had an affair with his bosses wife, she left her husband for my buddy, and my buddy left his wife for this woman. My buddy bought them a $700,000 house, furnished it, and took on her 2 children as his own. They eloped and got married in Vegas. After 8 months together, she started cheating on him, seeing other people, and messing with his head. She kept his new house he had bought for them, and he got divorced. It was a lesson learned the hard way. His original wife, got their house, and 4 of his 12 rental properties, at a value of $600,000 dollars, as well as having to buy her a brand new Mercedes G-wagon. What is even more funny, is that she ORIGINALLY did not want anything from him, they were going to sell their house, split the money and go their separate ways. However, my buddy could not resist taking his new piece out to the bar (prior to them tying the knot), and around friends who were also friends with his wife. When word reached her, instead of deciding to split amicably, she hired a divorce lawyer, and took him to the cleaners. It was an EXPENSIVE lesson, both financially and emotionally.

I wish you the best of luck Redz, and I hope you are happy. However, I don't support your decision (which I know you could give two shits about anyway Lol) because I do not condone cheating of any kind. I have been wronged too many times, and cheating is something which I am particularly averse to.

[redz]

I hear ya, but isnt the cheating part a little different considering the open marriage?

[--->>405<<---]

dude this is not going to end well for u, prepare urself..

Sterling Institute -Men's Weekend

this was her idea?? dude u need to do some serious thinking here man. here this woman is married and humiliates and disrespects her hubby in front of his family and then is still with him.. meanwhile shes sending u off to school to learn how to be a good relationship partner while who knows what shes doing with her husband..

(sigh).. u seem like a good dude.. ditch this dang woman man, spend some time by urself getting urself together and then revisit finding an actual functional woman who would be better wife material..

[redz]

I cat explain it I`m in love with her, I`m flying down to Florida again on the 28th and driving her back, if she isnt ready to marry me then I guess I will re-access the situation.

[Rwy]

I dated a girl like this when I was 20. This was 16 years ago and I actually saw her today. She was supposedly an actress but she was selling New York Times subscriptions.Kinda funny...

Anyhow she was dating this on and off bf when we met. She dated me 4 months went back to him and came back to me a month later (I was a nice young kid) ended up having a up and down relationship for 5 months and then she added a "guy friend" to the rotation who she eventually dumped me for. Then came back to me again a month later and I took her back again. 4 months more of up and down she added a nother guy to the rotation and dumped however this time I didnt care and sad good riddens.

Called me a couple of weeks later went to grab a drink and I went figuring I could get some sex. Got drunk had sex in the car behind the bar. She tells me that I was a push over which was why she kept going for new guys. Started to insult me more as we were driving. In fact I think she was trying to get me to hit her. Pull the car over. Get out opne her door remove her from the car and make her walk about 6-7 miles to get her car. Funny thing is after I did that she harrassed me for 8 years after we broke citing she made such a big mistake with me.

[lovbyts]

I hear ya, but isnt the cheating part a little different considering the open marriage?

So who's idea was it to have the OPEN relationship? If it was an open relationship WHY did she burn him in front of his friends/family? Straight up that's an evil b*tch and she will do the same to you eventually. I know we seem harsh but things are always clearer when you are looking in from the outside.

You are doing exactly what TheGodFather is saying, finding ways to justify the relationship and you are different than the other guy. Ive been there with ex #1 with one of her boyfriends after we were split up. He was sure I was a bad guy but after a few months being around me he started to change his mind and started talking to me and asking questions.

Have you tried talking to her ex to get HIS side of things? Did HE tell you it was an open relationship?

[redz]

So who's idea was it to have the OPEN relationship? If it was an open relationship WHY did she burn him in front of his friends/family? Straight up that's an evil b*tch and she will do the same to you eventually. I know we seem harsh but things are always clearer when you are looking in from the outside.

You are doing exactly what TheGodFather is saying, finding ways to justify the relationship and you are different than the other guy. Ive been there with ex #1 with one of her boyfriends after we were split up. He was sure I was a bad guy but after a few months being around me he started to change his mind and started talking to me and asking questions.

Have you tried talking to her ex to get HIS side of things? Did HE tell you it was an open relationship?

He tried to throw her under the bus so she just jumped in to it I guess. I believe it was his idea for the open marriage.

[redz]

I did try to add him on facebook but he declined.

[lovbyts]

Redz, you know the only reason we are being so brutally honest with you is because we like you and dont want to see you get burned. We really aren't being pricks or overly judgmental only honest and trying to get you to see things for what they are.

If nothing else get a hold of the ex and talk to him a few times to get a feel for things. I would bet not everything is as it appears.

You cant just add him on facebook, that's weak. At the very least send him a few messages and give him time to respond. Get his cell number and call him. He may not be to happy with you under the circumstances understandably and he may just be sitting back waiting for you to get burned so he can LOL.

[Hazard]

Sorry you're going through a lot of shit man. Whether you really love her or are just thinking you do in the moment - I hope you do t get ****ed over.

Best of luck brotha

[redz]

Redz, you know the only reason we are being so brutally honest with you is because we like you and dont want to see you get burned. We really aren't being pricks or overly judgmental only honest and trying to get you to see things for what they are.

Yeah I know, I`m just hoping it all works out even though its crazy.

Sorry you're going through a lot of shit man. Whether you really love her or are just thinking you do in the moment - I hope you do t get ****ed over.

Best of luck brotha

Thanks, just gotta get a ring on her finger or knock her up lol.