My ex girlfriend broke up with me this summer, we been together for 9 years, i have always been there for her faithful never cheated on her even if i had the chance a few times, and never kept anything from her.

She left me for a nerd guy at her job we ended up selling our house and all our stuff.

I am now 41 years old tried my luck in dating website that failed miserably, i met a few women in there 40 as well they are most of them interdependent and not ready to commit.

From a good person standpoint it seems that the world as gone to hell, everyone seems to get separated. I gave so much to my ex but when she was always self centered, when you are in love you know theses things but you always hope they will change. There are a million things she did that i wont say her but she not the ideal girlfriend.

From what i am seeing now i feel its better i stay single for the rest of my life instead of being jerked like i get every time i get serious with a women.