Without wasting too much more of my time on this whole rediculous drama and after discussing this with some others - this is what has been decided.
I still cant really figure exactly out what all this crap is about because the facts I know seem to childish to be believed - but I got enough details to know USF was being stupid - but now I really dont care or want to know the rest.
Since all this supposedly took place on someplace other than AR or an AR chat, it does make a difference - but it NEVER should have spilled onto AR
Because we dont have everything updated as we would have liked, the full range of options were not available to the mod who banned USFighter. Normally in the case where a person has been a good member for awhile and is acting stupid a temporary ban of a few weeks to a month is imposed rather than a permanent one unless the action is repeated or continuous. That is what should have happened in this case.
US Fighter's ban will expire in about 2 weeks and he can come back if he wishes - obviously I dont want to hear any crap from people either way or I will hand out vacations to others as well. But we do understand that people get heated and say dumb things or let things go further than they had thought through on occasion.
I never want to see crap from someother place on AR again - nor do I want to see the disrespect for our mods who put a lot of time in here and deserve the respect we give them.
case closed