Dating Q & A with REDZ

**hawk14dl** · 04-11-2014, 10:27 PM

Redz, I'm trying to bang my ex's friend. I can't tell if she's into me. Sometimes we talk like we could hook up but others she says she thinks it would be too weird.

Keep trying or quit? I have no problems picking up random chicks at the bar, but this was kind of a mission and I feel like I'm failing

**redz** · 04-11-2014, 10:27 PM

Redz. I would like to pump my first south east asian. I can just never seal the deal with them. Are they being racist? European whites are easy but i seem to have trouble with the asians?
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I only have 2 Asian experiences to speak of so it's not my strongest area. 1 was at a frat party I was in the frat presidents room and I jacked the girl he was trying to get however she was polish and I made out with her on his bed and basically laughed at him as it happened concurrently though I didn't know it until after my buddy was puking in his closet. I got up and went to the line up for the bathroom and ran into the polish girls best friend who happened to be Asian and just started going at with her in the line for like 10 minutes but I didn't score but it was my own fault I was so drunk.

The other time I was in Cuba and I picked up a phillipean chick and got her naked in the ocean and banged her on the beach that night. So I don't think the Asians I've tried with were racist at all in fact those were my only 2 Asian attempts. That 2nd one even fell in love with me and I saw her back in Canada after the vacation too. The 2nd one melted when I looked in her eyes the first one was just a hoe back at that frat party.

**redz** · 04-11-2014, 10:39 PM

Redz, I'm trying to bang my ex's friend. I can't tell if she's into me. Sometimes we talk like we could hook up but others she says she thinks it would be too weird.

Keep trying or quit? I have no problems picking up random chicks at the bar, but this was kind of a mission and I feel like I'm failing
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You are too invested now not to continue on your mission. Ask her out and tell her no pressure you just want to spend some time with her getting to know her and reassure her it's all good no matter what. Though deep inside you need to assume the sale is closed the fact she keeps talking to you is a sure sign she wants your dic k. So plan a nice dinner out and order a bottle of wine with dinner that will loosen her up a little. From there you can see how dinner goes and do a a subtle trial close through dinner if you get the right signals ask her to go home if not take her out dancing somewhere after dinner and take her home after that. This plan will work if you do it with the right context. You need to be alpha.

One last thing to add if you ****ed your ex really good she'll know and if you have a big package she'll know that too. Women share all of this information so in this case it's probably to your advantage.

**Bigshotvictoria** · 04-11-2014, 11:54 PM

Dr. Phil,

My wife refuses to try anal again. She says I'm to big. How do I convince her to let me tap the sweet back-vagina?

**redz** · 04-12-2014, 12:15 AM

Dr. Phil,

My wife refuses to try anal again. She says I'm to big. How do I convince her to let me tap the sweet back-vagina?
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this is a big issue as I mentioned in a previous post and really needs to be dealt with. You will ultimately look outside your marriage if this isn't corrected. So let's forget that and be constructive....

So you are going to need to give it your all to make this happen again and you will need to be extra gentle next time, ive slammed quite a few women in the ass who had never done it before and getting them ready for it has been different every time.

First I would suggest some anal toys for her that you can use while you have sex get some small ones to start out. They need to get pleasure from something in their ass before you just shove yours in.

So basically you need to tell her how much it means to you without making her feel bad. Tell her how much it turns you on and how it's something you deeply desire. Offer to do anything she wants you too. She will see how important it is to you and you'll just have to assure her you'll be more gentle and introduce the toy idea.

Other things to try if you haven't is eating her a$$hole make sure she's clean of course but a lot of chicks get turned on by it.

**Bigshotvictoria** · 04-12-2014, 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by redz

this is a big issue as I mentioned in a previous post and really needs to be dealt with. You will ultimately look outside your marriage if this isn't corrected. So let's forget that and be constructive....

So you are going to need to give it your all to make this happen again and you will need to be extra gentle next time, ive slammed quite a few women in the ass who had never done it before and getting them ready for it has been different every time.

First I would suggest some anal toys for her that you can use while you have sex get some small ones to start out. They need to get pleasure from something in their ass before you just shove yours in.

So basically you need to tell her how much it means to you without making her feel bad. Tell her how much it turns you on and how it's something you deeply desire. Offer to do anything she wants you too. She will see how important it is to you and you'll just have to assure her you'll be more gentle and introduce the toy idea.

Other things to try if you haven't is eating her a$$hole make sure she's clean of course but a lot of chicks get turned on by it.

We bought her a small plug, it's getting her interested in trying it that has as at a cross road. I'd love to eat the brown-eye, but thats one thing she's said isn't going to happen. I'll do as you say, tell her how much it means to me without making her feel bad.

Thanks Dr. Oz!

**redz** · 04-12-2014, 12:21 AM

It's easy to eat the ass just go down on her and go a bit lower. Try a vibrating anal toy during sex.

**GirlyGymRat** · 04-12-2014, 12:56 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Grow a pair, if we don't talk about things how can women expect us to know what they want. After all men are logical and women are emotional so even they don't know what they want. Women are also welcome to join in and ask questions too.

On the subscribed fence. Should I should I not. LoL

**Bigshotvictoria** · 04-12-2014, 01:20 PM

Originally Posted by redz

It's easy to eat the ass just go down on her and go a bit lower. Try a vibrating anal toy during sex.

I barked up that tree. One lick and she lost her shit (figuratively of course).

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**redz** · 04-12-2014, 01:49 PM

On the subscribed fence. Should I should I not. LoL

just do it and ask a question too!

**ngtmarpete** · 04-12-2014, 02:24 PM

I'm 38. A couple of weeks ago a 22 year old I use to sleep with text me out of the blue for a hook up. I told her I'm not interested in a relationship at the moment. She said that's cool, and if I just want to have sex from time to time she down for that ( being very serious

).

My question is: would you switch to Geico to save a few bucks if you're happy with Progressive? Really stumped!

**redz** · 04-12-2014, 03:15 PM

My question is: would you switch to Geico to save a few bucks if you're happy with Progressive? Really stumped!

Allstate is a better company I suggest calling them.

Now go bang the 22 year old!

**David LoPan** · 04-12-2014, 06:40 PM

Dr REDZ, this girl I know who is a hot 22 year old will only do bj's and anal due to being a "virgin". Is this something real, a girl that will do anal and still be a virgin? And is this the marring type?

**redz** · 04-13-2014, 04:44 AM

Never marry her and all you'll get is anal and bj's.

**calgarian** · 04-14-2014, 01:04 AM

Originally Posted by diesel101

Is it a mandatory rule that if I have anal sex with a woman that is completely insane I must pull out of her a$$ and cum in her vagina if I am not wearing a condom?

I did it the **** loved it not only that she sucked my dick after that. you just have to find the right slut.

**paulzane** · 04-14-2014, 11:38 AM

Originally Posted by kronik420

what's the best way to hide my gf from my other gf?

and what would you say/do if you were say walking with gf #1 and gf #2 spots you?

Just to go back to this ..... I had a situation once when my mate and our wives were out for a drink. The bar was quite crowded when we walked in and we told the girls to go into the lounge and find some seats for us and we would bring the drinks into them. When we joined the girls to my horror my wife was sat next to the girl I had been banging for the past 3 weeks when the wife was away in London on business. It turned out ok as the girl was with her regular boyfriend. We just looked at each other and nodded!! No scene but I didn't hang around too long and we moved off to safer grounds!!

**Shol'va** · 04-14-2014, 06:39 PM

Originally Posted by redz

Never marry her and all you'll get is anal and bj's.

Nothing wrong with anal and B/J's. No wait you're talking from a straight mans perspective....nevermind..

**hawk14dl** · 04-14-2014, 08:54 PM

Originally Posted by hawk14dl

Redz, I'm trying to bang my ex's friend. I can't tell if she's into me. Sometimes we talk like we could hook up but others she says she thinks it would be too weird.

Keep trying or quit? I have no problems picking up random chicks at the bar, but this was kind of a mission and I feel like I'm failing

Follow up question
We hung out this weekend. Slept together (in the literal sense). She said today it won't happen again cause it was still too weird.

Then proceeded to text me all night.

Is she just fked up in the head red?

**redz** · 04-14-2014, 09:14 PM

No she just wants you to work for it. It's a game to her but its all good as long as you know it is. Congrats on banging her though.

**Shol'va** · 04-15-2014, 03:14 PM

Redz, if you took this little woman on would you be biting off more than you could chew?

**David LoPan** · 04-15-2014, 08:52 PM

Bump, people need to be asking more questions. This could be a great thread.

**redz** · 04-16-2014, 08:27 AM

Redz, if you took this little woman on would you be biting off more than you could chew?

I have never participated in whale hunting. I stick to lower weight classes.

**probuild42** · 04-16-2014, 01:05 PM

Originally Posted by redz

It's easy to eat the ass just go down on her and go a bit lower. Try a vibrating anal toy during sex.

This thread should have a disclaimer attached for the safety of forum members!! lol

**Fllifter** · 04-16-2014, 01:20 PM

Redz, got a question. On the belly or in the belly?

**David LoPan** · 04-16-2014, 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by Fllifter

Redz, got a question. On the belly or in the belly?

Is that like on the back on in the crack?

**Shol'va** · 04-16-2014, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I have never participated in whale hunting. I stick to lower weight classes.

Just think of her as a big mac. Two all beef patties special sauce and cheese.

**kelkel** · 04-16-2014, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by Shol'va

special sauce and cheese.

Oh there's a picture.

**austinite** · 04-16-2014, 09:12 PM

**Honkey_Kong** · 04-16-2014, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I have never participated in whale hunting. I stick to lower weight classes.

LIES!!!!! Every guy has gone hogging at least once in their lifetime. You can't hit a homerun EVERY time you step up at the plate. Just admit it. You've harpooned a couple whales in your day.

**redz** · 04-16-2014, 10:42 PM

Redz, got a question. On the belly or in the belly?
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in of course!

**redz** · 04-16-2014, 10:52 PM

LIES!!!!! Every guy has gone hogging at least once in their lifetime. You can't hit a homerun EVERY time you step up at the plate. Just admit it. You've harpooned a couple whales in your day.

I have never gone to heavy weight division there was one that was like 170ish one time but that is it and I was 18. I vowed never Again and have recently adjusted my standards upward to only 9's and better. The girl I'm seeing now is a knockout near 10/10 and I think she is the hottest girl I've ever been with. I can't go back and I don't want too. That's what happens when you starting getting the hottest women, once you've tasted the best it's hard to go back.

**lovbyts** · 04-17-2014, 11:11 AM

Originally Posted by redz

I have never gone to heavy weight division there was one that was like 170ish one time but that is it and I was 18. I vowed never Again and have recently adjusted my standards upward to only 9's and better. The girl I'm seeing now is a knockout near 10/10 and I think she is the hottest girl I've ever been with. I can't go back and I don't want too. That's what happens when you starting getting the hottest women, once you've tasted the best it's hard to go back.

Do you know the definition of the difference between a 7 & 9? 3 beers.

**DCI** · 04-17-2014, 11:19 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Do you know the definition of the difference between a 7 & 9? 3 beers.

I am robbing that line lol

**Fllifter** · 04-17-2014, 02:11 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I have never gone to heavy weight division there was one that was like 170ish one time but that is it and I was 18. I vowed never Again and have recently adjusted my standards upward to only 9's and better. The girl I'm seeing now is a knockout near 10/10 and I think she is the hottest girl I've ever been with. I can't go back and I don't want too. That's what happens when you starting getting the hottest women, once you've tasted the best it's hard to go back.

It's not easy being a 10 either. I have the same issue. You make me lose all hope ill ever settle down.

**hawk14dl** · 04-17-2014, 05:13 PM

Ok Redz, new dating question (the ex's friend doesn't do oral, and she's not worth training)

New question is this: what is your experience with Bank tellers?
My mobile deposit app was malfunctioning today so I had to go to the bank. I forgot how hot the tellers are.

Are they worth sweet talking? Or do they get flirted with so much that they won't reciprocate?

**David LoPan** · 04-17-2014, 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by hawk14dl

Ok Redz, new dating question (the ex's friend doesn't do oral, and she's not worth training)

New question is this: what is your experience with Bank tellers?
My mobile deposit app was malfunctioning today so I had to go to the bank. I forgot how hot the tellers are.

Are they worth sweet talking? Or do they get flirted with so much that they won't reciprocate?

Redz gonna ask is she does anal

**hawk14dl** · 04-18-2014, 06:39 AM

No oral usually means definitely no anal. At least in my experience

**Dtrain17** · 04-18-2014, 09:03 AM

Originally Posted by hawk14dl

Ok Redz, new dating question (the ex's friend doesn't do oral, and she's not worth training)

New question is this: what is your experience with Bank tellers?
My mobile deposit app was malfunctioning today so I had to go to the bank. I forgot how hot the tellers are.

Are they worth sweet talking? Or do they get flirted with so much that they won't reciprocate?

I found out 2 weeks ago they can be sweet talked.

**hawk14dl** · 04-18-2014, 11:24 AM

Good to know^

**redz** · 04-18-2014, 03:58 PM

Ok Redz, new dating question (the ex's friend doesn't do oral, and she's not worth training)

New question is this: what is your experience with Bank tellers?
My mobile deposit app was malfunctioning today so I had to go to the bank. I forgot how hot the tellers are.

Are they worth sweet talking? Or do they get flirted with so much that they won't reciprocate?

no oral= on to the next one, the 20 year old I'm dating tries so hard to deep throat my dick every time I'm litterly ramming the back of her throat. The first 8" goes in it's the last 1" that's giving her trouble sweet girl she just keeps trying. This type of effort is mandatory if a woman wants to be a keeper.

Bank tellers can be flirty but remember they know how much money you have so pick your spots accordingly.