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    How do you pick up women?

    I', just corious on what others say to pick up women.. and please save the I'm rick james responses for hoss's threads..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elliot
    I', just corious on what others say to pick up women.. and please save the I'm rick james responses for hoss's threads..
    I'm rick james, bitch!

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    Just be nice to them...sweet to them...tell them what they wanna hear...some of us have the gift of knowing what they wanna hear, like me

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    hoss your the prison biatch you have no voice...

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    I know this is going to sound screwed up but I usually just sit there and the women come and talk to me.

    I'm not the best looking guy but women seem to be less intimedated by me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mart651
    I know this is going to sound screwed up but I usually just sit there and the women come and talk to me.

    I'm not the best looking guy but women seem to be less intimedated by me.
    Well then, (not to sound gay) you must be one of the goodlooking guys who are lucky....My ass has to hunt for them(the girls) lol But i'm one of the lucky few who found an awesome girl who likes me for me, w00t!

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    Elliot are you trying to hook up with some girl and find a way to tell her how youre feelin or what? just curious

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    Hoss do you smoke crack?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mart651
    I know this is going to sound screwed up but I usually just sit there and the women come and talk to me.

    I'm not the best looking guy but women seem to be less intimedated by me.
    When I was single and was going out women would either come up to me or I'd have to go up to them but in the end I had to have some game to keep them around. The alcohol didn't hurt either

    I sometimes miss the old days....... only sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vice
    Hoss do you smoke crack?
    Not anymore, Just kiddin.

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    be "unavailable" women will chase what they can't have. You can't ignor them but more like indifferent. She will be like "why doesn't he like ME?" and the chase begins

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    It's fun sometimes just to go out and see if you still got it.

    Thats what I did in the Keys and Yes I still got it.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheMudMan
    When I was single and was going out women would either come up to me or I'd have to go up to them but in the end I had to have some game to keep them around. The alcohol didn't hurt either

    I sometimes miss the old days....... only sometimes.

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    with my arms and remember lift with the legs not the back lol

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    get em drunk. you'll have em in the wrapper in no time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mart651
    It's fun sometimes just to go out and see if you still got it.

    Thats what I did in the Keys and Yes I still got it.
    Yeah it's fun to see............ I just hope as I keep getting older I age gracefully.............

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    Quote Originally Posted by damiongage
    be "unavailable" women will chase what they can't have. You can't ignor them but more like indifferent. She will be like "why doesn't he like ME?" and the chase begins
    couldn't have been said better.

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    i think the easiest way to meet women is through other girls. if you have friends that are girls and you don't try to f**k them every time you see them and they think that you are a good guy they will actualy try to hook you up with there friends

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    I'll tell you what....and I'm not kidding.... just stick with me when you go out and you'll hook up... They stick to me like glue! Whether it's on the dance floor or over at the bar.

    I have even been on new dates, and the guys will ask me what the hell is going on and if I swing both ways... lol
    And I don't. (Not that I think it's bad)
    I just have good vibes with the women for some reason.

    hhmmmm......makes ya kinda think..huh..

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    If I was hanging with you I would not need to pickn up another chick.

    Quote Originally Posted by Babyweight
    I'll tell you what....and I'm not kidding.... just stick with me when you go out and you'll hook up... They stick to me like glue! Whether it's on the dance floor or over at the bar.

    I have even been on new dates, and the guys will ask me what the hell is going on and if I swing both ways... lol
    And I don't. (Not that I think it's bad)
    I just have good vibes with the women for some reason.

    hhmmmm......makes ya kinda think..huh..

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    Quote Originally Posted by mart651
    If I was hanging with you I would not need to pickn up another chick.
    .....

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    How do you do? May have a seat? usally works fine

    Nothing elaborate here folks, women ARE people

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    i went in the bathroom, seen the bitch, slapped on the head and said "you ready to swish?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by whiteykauai
    ....say hi.....i dont buy girls drinks, its a waste of money
    Great point. Thats right. Besides it causes a bigger challenge.

    Also like Pheedno says that being a gentleman is the best way to go.
    Last edited by Valmont; 02-27-2004 at 10:42 AM.

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    come on bro, your game cant be that bad, ive seen bitchs fall for some of the stupidest ****, so i know you gotta have better game than some of the trast ive seen, i do the snob act, like they arnt good enough, or im an asshole, if your a ass, they will follow u to hell and back, if your nice to em, they will walk all over you like the pussy you are...LOL, gluck

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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    come on bro, your game cant be that bad, ive seen bitchs fall for some of the stupidest ****, so i know you gotta have better game than some of the trast ive seen, i do the snob act, like they arnt good enough, or im an asshole, if your a ass, they will follow u to hell and back, if your nice to em, they will walk all over you like the pussy you are...LOL, gluck

    Sounds like a defense mechanism for insecurities and confidence problems.
    A woman is not going to walk over a confident man that won't allow it, you don't have to be an asshole. It's about mutual respect, if you have to act like that to meet women, your not participating in mutual respect, thus never finding a worth while romantic endeavor.

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    Further more, what self respecting man wants a woman that follows him around like he's the controller in a slave/master situation.

    I prefer an equal, a friend, a self respecting woman

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    as do i, and i stole that trick from a army buddy, and guess what it works. we arnt talkin about gettin the girl you want to marry, just pickin up girls, stop tryin to play dr phil, that guys a loser....lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    as do i, and i stole that trick from a army buddy, and guess what it works. we arnt talkin about gettin the girl you want to marry, just pickin up girls, stop tryin to play dr phil, that guys a loser....lol
    Doesn't matter what your intention with the woman is, my inital response to your post still stands

    Casual dating or not, an equal partner still makes for a more fullfilling a satisfying experience.

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    This thread isnt about the type of woman you prefer. Its about pickig up a girl. Usually if you are trying to pick up a chick it is about getting laid. If you are out looking for a girlfriend then picking up a chick is not the same thing as looking.

    I usually just say whats on my mind rather than trying to say what I think she likes.
    If I think she is nice and innocent she usually isnt so when I try to be all polite and watch my language, it usually turns her off. So I just act myself, say what Im thinking and it usually works.

    Almost ruined it with this one hot girl. Thought she was the christian type and I almost went with the nice guy act but I drank a shot, said screw this and just started talking to her about sexual positions, what turns her on, etc. Well turns out it got her attention and thats that....

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    im not gettin into a two day post-a-thon, dont assume bc what you like to do, is what goes for everyone, alot of ppl like the 60-40 split in relationships, alot dont, i think of everyone as equals, and it i didnt represent that, then my bad. i also just sit back in a bar, and if a girl talks to me, i dont treat her like shes something special, bc she prolly isnt, or she wouldnt be in a bar, who knows, just dont try to make a gereral statement about what is fullfilling and satisphying for everyone, bc you cant know. i hope you dont take this as a flame, im not

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pheedno
    Doesn't matter what your intention with the woman is, my inital response to your post still stands

    Casual dating or not, an equal partner still makes for a more fullfilling a satisfying experience.
    Your right on Pheedno.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bermich
    Its about pickig up a girl. Usually if you are trying to pick up a chick it is about getting laid. If you are out looking for a girlfriend then picking up a chick is not the same thing as looking.

    I usually just say whats on my mind rather than trying to say what I think she likes.
    If I think she is nice and innocent she usually isnt so when I try to be all polite and watch my language, it usually turns her off. So I just act myself, say what Im thinking and it usually works.

    ....
    Now your talking semantics, which I suppose is a common cause for misunderstanding. Thus the case with dd

    I agree with you on speaking your mind. No matter the intention, be yourself with out trying to make alterations to your personality in order to attract

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    Elliot, Just be confident.. Don't use cheeseball pick up lines!! Say hi, hows it going.. Just be yourself, bro.. Or, LOL.. whip the pound of cocaine out, and ask if they want to 'party' LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

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    CONFIDENCE IS SOOOO IMPORTANT

    and ofcourse wen u go out make sure u look good

    99% of it involves looks lol

    then once u start talkin u usually run it through nicely

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    hey hot mamma- do you have any irish in you? you want some?
    had to say it...lol

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    I hunt'em down..like a redbone on coon hunt!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pheedno
    Now your talking semantics, which I suppose is a common cause for misunderstanding. Thus the case with dd

    I agree with you on speaking your mind. No matter the intention, be yourself with out trying to make alterations to your personality in order to attract
    Although the 'be yourself' is what I prefer at this stage in my life, I disagree Pheedno. When picking up chicks, I think it's best to try differnet approaches and 'being yourself' is not always the best way to get your foot in the door. It's like most other social interactions in life.

    When applying for a job you are barely qualified or slightly under qualified for......even if you are shy, reserved and conservative, much of the time I think your best bet would be to step up to the plate and act as if you are the person for the job, even though you are probably the least qualified person they are interviewing. Of course, you have to make read on the person and present to them what you think will get you where you want to be. If they want a go getter, be a go getter. If they want a yes man, be a yes man. Note that this is an analogy......doing this with a career term job will likely screw you around cause you can't pretend forever....but it can get you in the game and its easier to move on from first base than from the batters box.

    You are selling a brand new BMW to 2 different people, a 70 year old German, and a 22 year old wigger. Do you take the same approach? No. With the old German fellow you are selling fine German engineering, quality craftmanship, prestige, luxury, comfort, quality, etc. With the wanna be rapper you are most likely selling cool, envy of freinds, speed and handling, lotsa horespower, no down, low monthly payments.

    Bottom line is to gain a payoff, you need to assume some risk. And sometimes assuming risk means overextending yourself and/or you capabilities.

    Anyway, Im babbling now.

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    I always wondered if this line would work, go up toa chick in a bar and be like hi my name is ....... i can touch my eyebrows with my tounge, hahah im horrible with women, im too bashful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Philliagorillia
    I always wondered if this line would work, go up toa chick in a bar and be like hi my name is ....... i can touch my eyebrows with my tounge, hahah im horrible with women, im too bashful.

    Nothing with the use of your tongue seems too bashful, if you ask me.

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    I understand the reasoning behind what decadbol is saying, and what your saying(which btw is two different approaches). I just find dd's to be flawed reasoning. You cant comapare a shy guy who has to be the go-getter to recieve a postion in a job, to a man who presents an alteration in personality, alter ego if you will, to get a woman to be attracted to him.

    One night stands, releiving sexual tension, done all the time right? Well, if you cant get the job done being who you are, then masturbate. Because all your left with after the fact is a dissapointed woman and degraded integrity.

    Taking risk? Overextending yourself? Sure, you do that everytime your trying to "hook up". You present your best self. "Self" being the key word.

    Difference of opinion it is. I just think if your pretending to be somone your not, in order to gain a meaningless sexual encounter, your selling yourself out. I wouldn't do it for a job, and sure as hell wouldn't do it for a one night stand

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