My Girl's Best Friend Is Screwed =(

[LawMan018]

It starts out she had this boyfriend from awhile back and they broke up. They recently started dating and her parents were totally against it. So about a month ago she got pulled over (with her bf) for having dice in the mirror. They smelled marijuana which her boyfriend had and found some drugs he stashed in her glove compartment. She gets booked in jail, he gets to go home. Her parents pay 6,000 to get her out, and she goes to court. Things look good the first time she goes, but she has to go back in January. Her parents tell her never to talk to this guy again and she agrees (somewhat). She was able to get a hold of his old phone and they began communicating through that. She told him they shouldn't talk for awhile just until everything cools down. Well, as she is making him a present filled with pictures of the two together, she gets a message from a girl he had been fooling around with on her (one occasion the night she was in jail). So she decided to finally end it. This night she decided to finish the present and give it to him as a goodbye forever. Well, it happens her father drove by her ex's house and saw her car. He revoked the bail, and her family has basically turned her back on her. My girlfriend's with her right now and the cops culd be looking for her now that the bail has been revoked. She could go to jail tll her next hearing in January and if they hear she saw her ex they might put her away for awhile. She's only 18, a loving caring person, and she doesn't deserve this... **** guys... I feel so helpless to do anything... I need advice on how to handle this!!!

[Hunter]

how much drugs and what kind did she have to get a 6,000 dollar bond that seems pretty high

[MuscleScience]

Sounds like he needs a serous ass beating.

[Hunter]

Also its not all his fault is he a dick yes but she knew(by the sounds of it) that drugs where in her car she knew he used etc and choose to stay with him. Is he a dick?yes Did she make her own decisions and pay for them?yes and why would you let your g/f be aiding a fugitive?

[Kale]

Great to have loving parents. How could you do that to your own kid ?

[cfiler]

Great to have loving parents. How could you do that to your own kid ?

exactly. I'd do anything to protect my family.

[NightTrain]

im with you clifer. family is number one in my book.

[Bigen12]

Well, as she is making him a present filled with pictures of the two together, she gets a message from a girl he had been fooling around with on her (one occasion the night she was in jail). So she decided to finally end it. This night she decided to finish the present and give it to him as a goodbye forever.



I feel so helpless to do anything... I need advice on how to handle this!!!

Her stopping to say good bye and give him a "present" shows it wasn't over, she was wanting him to talk her in to staying with him.

[lucabratzi]

well her family is ****ed...but if the court put a restrainin order on him/her for any reason she should obey that shit...even though it sucks she does deserve it...its not just the family that said she shouldnt see them...there was a legal shit that kept them from seein each other...obey the law or pay the consequence..

[BajanBastard]

Sorry too say this but IMHO she's a dumbass and should sit in jail for being stupid.

[Bigen12]

He revoked the bail, and her family has basically turned her back on her. My girlfriend's with her right now and the cops culd be looking for her now that the bail has been revoked. She could go to jail tll her next hearing in January and if they hear she saw her ex they might put her away for awhile. She's only 18, a loving caring person, and she doesn't deserve this... **** guys... I feel so helpless to do anything... I need advice on how to handle this!!!

The way one revokes bail, is to take the person who was bailed out of jail to the jail and give them back into custody, and get their money back. You can't simply go to the cops and say that you are revoking bail, everyone would do that.

I think there is much more to this story than you have been told.

[Bigen12]

Great to have loving parents. How could you do that to your own kid ?

It's called sticking to your word.

The lessons that stick are the ones that are painful.

The next time her parents tell her something, she will belive it.

[lucabratzi]

The way one revokes bail, is to take the person who was bailed out of jail to the jail and give them back into custody, and get their money back. You can't simply go to the cops and say that you are revoking bail, everyone would do that.

I think there is much more to this story than you have been told.

agreed there is def. something were not hearing..regardless this is juvenile bs..i bet this girl is younger then 20, i would even go as far to say she's in high school...if not she's got a long way until she's a mature adult...grow up and take ur spankings...

[perfectbeast2001]

I would threaten the Ex and make him put his hands up to the drugs charges.

[LatinoPR]

Oh well...kids...










LPR.

[taiboxa]

Great to have loving parents. How could you do that to your own kid ?

i could!

[Schmidty]

I say kick his ass. plant a 8ball of blow on him and throw his ko body in a school zone and then call the cops

[Schmidty]

in the mean time try to explaine to the parents that she was giving him his stuff back. And what kind of psycho drives past trheir daughters exs house. unless her dad is seeing the guy to. And that is why he doesnt want her to be with him

[taiboxa]

Sorry too say this but IMHO she's a dumbass and should sit in jail for being stupid.

thats wat i was looking for earlier!

if ur not smart enough to stay outta trouble stay the FUCK AWAY FROM IT!

[Schmidty]

The way one revokes bail, is to take the person who was bailed out of jail to the jail and give them back into custody, and get their money back. You can't simply go to the cops and say that you are revoking bail, everyone would do that.

I think there is much more to this story than you have been told.

I was thinking the same thing. The parents are probly just sayin this to scare her

[Johny-too-small]

how much drugs and what kind did she have to get a 6,000 dollar bond that seems pretty high

A $6,000 bail is nothing. In fact, its pretty low. For an F5 (lowest level felony) you can easily get a $50,000 bail.

[big L 17]

thats a tuff sitution but she kind of got her self into by going to his house i fell bad for her but she will learn her lesson and with the parents whole deal thats dick for them to revoke the bond but as my mom tells me its tuff love

[*Narkissos*]

Sorry too say this but IMHO she's a dumbass and should sit in jail for being stupid.

Ditto.

[meathead320]

Sorry too say this but IMHO she's a dumbass and should sit in jail for being stupid.

Amen to that!


As for her boyfriend

[Hunter]

A $6,000 bail is nothing. In fact, its pretty low. For an F5 (lowest level felony) you can easily get a $50,000 bail.

I know anything in minnesota half ounce or under (pot) is a misdeamonor(sp) so I am just wondering how much he had plus I am sure she knew it was there its her own fault

[goodcents]

This chic isn't too "sweet" she was fuking a piece of shlt, had drugs in her car and wanted more dick from the dude, that's why she was at the house Never believe everything (actually anything) a chic says to you Hate to be blunt, but that's the real story when you get to it. I have dozens of "girlfriends" that I could see doing the same thing and I love them dearly but they still fuk up!

[goodcents]

I don't believe in turning your back on family though. I would have took care of her and the boyfriend would suddenly remember it was his drugsAnother reason to never have kids and daughters, nothing but hassle
I never want to get married and sure don't want kids ( I'm a greedy fuk)

[italianplayboy09]

you never want kids?

[goodcents]

you never want kids?

Nope

Kids= the bottomless pit

[Foskamink]

Sounds like he needs a serous ass beating.

i agree with you bro, least that guy could do is come forward. but there aint too many man left, just little boys pretending.

[italianplayboy09]

i agree with you bro, least that guy could do is come forward. but there aint too many man left, just little boys pretending.

how ironic...

[LawMan018]

Basically what I'm trying to tell my girlfriend and her is just to stay calm and wait a week. But... the girl is considering moving in with Nick and my gf (switch houses occasionally as to not become a burden) which I think is ridiculous. I told my gf to not let her see or talk to Nick, and wait a week till things cool down. Then have her or my gf try explaining to the parents what was going on. She still says she is friends with this dousche but that is stupid. How could you be friends with such an asshole. They did go out for like 3 years and she did love him, but ****, I guess love or former love can make you do stupid shit.

[Bigen12]

Basically what I'm trying to tell my girlfriend and her is just to stay calm and wait a week. But... the girl is considering moving in with Nick

See, she still wants to be with this guy.

Maybe after she's a 3rd time loser who's taken care of some bull dike's lonley nights for a couple of years, she'll finally figure out that this guy is a shitbag and this isn't the type of life she wants for herself.

Her parents did the right thing....

[Hunter]

Basically what I'm trying to tell my girlfriend and her is just to stay calm and wait a week. But... the girl is considering moving in with Nick and my gf (switch houses occasionally as to not become a burden) which I think is ridiculous. I told my gf to not let her see or talk to Nick, and wait a week till things cool down. Then have her or my gf try explaining to the parents what was going on. She still says she is friends with this dousche but that is stupid. How could you be friends with such an asshole. They did go out for like 3 years and she did love him, but ****, I guess love or former love can make you do stupid shit.

Every heard the expression you are who your friends are? She choose to date a drug user and dealer, she is now paying for it. She wanted to be an adult and now she is facing adult consequances and wanting to act like a child. I would talk to your girlfriend, you shouldn't have her turn her back on her but its easy to get sucked into sh*tty situtions. Your girlfriends friend dug her own grave and now has to sleep in it. I just hope she learns

[Panzerfaust]

Hum..let me think.

I got busted because of another persons drugs, i go to jail and get out on bond and then proceed to talk to that same person and go to their house.

It's official, we have a case of the DUMBASS!

[Hunter]

Hum..let me think.

I got busted because of another persons drugs, i go to jail and get out on bond and then proceed to talk to that same person and go to their house.

It's official, we have a case of the DUMBASS!

[BajanBastard]

Hum..let me think.

I got busted because of another persons drugs, i go to jail and get out on bond and then proceed to talk to that same person and go to their house.

It's official, we have a case of the DUMBASS!

[Doc.Sust]

Sorry too say this but IMHO she's a dumbass and should sit in jail for being stupid.

couldnt agree with you more, this kid is an idiot an obviously needs to learn the lesson the hard way,sometimes parents" tough love" actually works best. enough is enough, the guy cheats on you while you are in jail and he is the cause of why you were in jail in the first place and you bring him a present?!?!?! WTF sense does that make?

[Doc.Sust]

Hum..let me think.

I got busted because of another persons drugs, i go to jail and get out on bond and then proceed to talk to that same person and go to their house.

It's official, we have a case of the DUMBASS!

there are a few other adjective i can use to describe this, but yep, it is all basicaly the same, the girl is a dumbass!

[BIG TEXAN]

I would threaten the Ex and make him put his hands up to the drugs charges.

Glad I'm not the only one thinking this...