Ultimatums

**WOLFCRAFT** · 11-30-2008, 08:12 AM

Anyone ever had a girlfriend who said it was the steroids or them?
How the hell did you handle it??

**binder** · 11-30-2008, 08:25 AM

I'm sure my gf right now wouldn't even give that option. well, she loves me so maybe she would. I don't know what I would do. I would probably stick with her. If I ever were to use steroids I wouldn't do it for life anyways.

Jumped on this thread to hear what others would do.

**sizerp** · 11-30-2008, 08:33 AM

There's plenty of fish in the sea

**Mulciber** · 11-30-2008, 10:03 AM

first of all my girl knows, but she also knows i know what the hell im doing.. she has no issues with it..
think the best thing to do if it comes to this is first to settle her ass down. then try to educate her on the topic a little bit..bring her to the boards. let her see we take this stuff seriously and that you know what your doing. all she probably has to go by is the hyped up bullshit she reads and sees on tv.. show her this can be done safely and responsibly if done right.. then take it from there i guess..

**Gears** · 11-30-2008, 10:09 AM

I`m sorry, but I would let her go for even saying something like that. I will never compromise my lifestyle to any woman.

**WOLFCRAFT** · 11-30-2008, 05:11 PM

Well her problem is that she says I'm too angry and aggravated on the stuff. Which may be true, I'm already negative and angry as Hell, and she says it just makes me worse and it's affecting our relationship.
I've also been using tren , and I know that's the one that gets me that way.
I said I would just not use that compound anymore and stick to test and maybe tbol, but she's not hearing it.
I'm not gonna give her up over this, but I don't want to lie about it, and I really don't want to just stop making the gains I've been making.

**MalibuD** · 11-30-2008, 05:19 PM

Bro, you have to control your temper and attitude when around them while on juice, because in all reality if it turns you into and A-hole toward her then she does have the right to tell you to stop. It does the same thing to me but I realize what it does and I control it when around her and bite my tougue alot of the time. If my wife ever told me to give up the juice, I would tell her she has to give up the spas, massages and all the things that make her feel and look good and that shit aint happening man. LOL Good luck with whatever the choice.

**redz** · 11-30-2008, 05:19 PM

easy tell them see ya later! Really I`m taking tren and feel great im actually less angry and more focused. I do have aggressive thoughts but thats where they stay in my head. If you cant control yourself maybe steroids arent for you. I know alcohol can make me a jerk if I drink too much(like anyone) so my wife actually likes it when im on because I never drink.

**binder** · 11-30-2008, 05:20 PM

that's a tough one.

I know mine would flip out because she's a doctor. lol. Can't really argue with her much.

**binder** · 11-30-2008, 05:24 PM

that's a tough one.

I know mine would flip out because she's a doctor. lol. Can't really argue with her much.

**MalibuD** · 11-30-2008, 05:25 PM

That would be perfect if she was cool with it, then she could hook you Up!!! But sounds like she would kick your ass if she found out.

**rhino1** · 11-30-2008, 11:07 PM

just tell her to hang in there and she can see that you are just as big an a$$hole off cycle...

**JiGGaMaN** · 12-01-2008, 01:55 AM

I would call her on it. why would that even be an issue?

**Older lifter** · 12-01-2008, 02:43 AM

I don't like ultimatums like that, so would be very surprised if it ever came up and a bit pissed...

**Lfs2shrt2bsml** · 12-01-2008, 05:34 AM

ive been given the ultimatum thats why im still natty... not by choice... ill just tell her its a new protein/creatine mix.. haha

**FREAK** · 12-01-2008, 08:14 AM

ask her were she will be in a few years,when ur huge give her a call

**Jenseno9** · 12-01-2008, 08:22 AM

^lol

**Dukkit** · 12-01-2008, 08:26 AM

ill just pop an anaver in her drink without her knowledge

then as shes done drinking... ill be like

ahh ha!! your abusing steroids !! now we have to stay together or ill tell everyone!!

**sizerp** · 12-01-2008, 10:46 AM

Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw

ill just pop an anaver in her drink without her knowledge

then as shes done drinking... ill be like

ahh ha!! your abusing steroids!! now we have to stay together or ill tell everyone!!

Good point!

**Kratos** · 12-01-2008, 10:57 AM

steroids aren't that important to me...to give them up would be no big deal

**Amorphic** · 12-01-2008, 01:48 PM

i would give the girl up. my last gf didnt support it and said i was too obsessed with bodybuilding but she let me do my thing. current girl im seeing isnt educated on aas but she is fine with me using, just worries about my health

**WOLFCRAFT** · 12-01-2008, 02:07 PM

I don't know guys, alot of you are saying you'd just drop the chick, but if you loved her and she was important to you, I don't think you would.

**Amorphic** · 12-01-2008, 02:10 PM

Originally Posted by WOLFCRAFT

I don't know guys, alot of you are saying you'd just drop the chick, but if you loved her and she was important to you, I don't think you would.

im too young to believe any of the relationships i am in will last, even the girls i love. aas will be a part of my life for a long long time, so if i was with someone who didnt support me and who could potentially damage my name or reputation or get me in some kind of trouble down the road, i would get rid of her.

i dont have to worry about jail time since im in canada, but ive seen lots of stories where bros got narked by their wives/gfs and got busted.

**Tock** · 12-01-2008, 02:12 PM

Originally Posted by WOLFCRAFT

Anyone ever had a girlfriend who said it was the steroids or them?
How the hell did you handle it??

Anyone who would use an ultimatum won't ever accept you as the person you really are.

Personally, I'd take an ultimatum as a clear indication that I needed to look elsewhere for a sweetie. Sooner or later they'd use the line, "If you really loved me, you'd do . . . " and I don't play that game.

But, that's just me . . .

**WOLFCRAFT** · 12-01-2008, 02:15 PM

I see what you're saying, and I guess certain chicks could be like that.
Mine's only saying what she's saying because it's effecting our relationship.
Tren turns me into the king of all pricks.
So I guess I can't really blame her.

**Gears** · 12-01-2008, 04:22 PM

Originally Posted by Tock

Anyone who would use an ultimatum won't ever accept you as the person you really are.

Personally, I'd take an ultimatum as a clear indication that I needed to look elsewhere for a sweetie. Sooner or later they'd use the line, "If you really loved me, you'd do . . . " and I don't play that game.

But, that's just me . . .

This

**UberSteroids** · 12-01-2008, 05:57 PM

How do you handle it? You tell them to move on...

A good girl will support you with what you do.

**UncleD** · 12-01-2008, 06:24 PM

yea let the girl walk...because you will stay on and the shit will get worse with her.. she might rat you out, or tell your faimily, or your employer...smash your shit maybe?? hell shit could hit the fan.. trust me i know...my girl blamed roids for my anger..now shes gone.. i could have promised to stop roids for good and live happy.. but your girl should understand..and love you even though you do roids.. if she cant "deal" then it isnt as "true" of a relationship as you once thought JM2C...

**OH REALLY** · 12-01-2008, 06:33 PM

get some anxiety meds so you will be ok then you wont be flipping so much i dont run test with out it

**inky-e** · 12-02-2008, 07:40 AM

I'm married and my wife does my injections for me so I guess she's cool about it! lol But if I had a gf and she pulled that shit...I'd slap her around..then tell her roid rage doesn't exist!! lol jhk

**xo3et** · 12-02-2008, 08:30 AM

I dont think she should be giving that option. I would be tempted to bin her
for just questioning it.

**Kratos** · 12-02-2008, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by UncleD

yea let the girl walk...because you will stay on and the shit will get worse with her.. she might rat you out, or tell your faimily, or your employer...smash your shit maybe?? hell shit could hit the fan.. trust me i know...my girl blamed roids for my anger..now shes gone.. i could have promised to stop roids for good and live happy.. but your girl should understand..and love you even though you do roids.. if she cant "deal" then it isnt as "true" of a relationship as you once thought JM2C...

says the guy who posted this thread

Anyone else just wana quit?

**OH REALLY** · 12-02-2008, 03:43 PM

do as i say not as i do

**Commando_Barbi** · 12-02-2008, 06:49 PM

I would never tell you to give up the juice......I would tell you that if you couldn't stop being a jackass I'd go find someone who wasn't one. How you get back to nice isn't important....just you getting there quick.

Would you wanna deal with her PMSing EVERY DAY?