huge decision.....help/suggestions?

**Nicotine** · 11-30-2008, 08:54 PM

so..

i got accepted for school in NYC and Kansas....

im debating, do i leave canada and go to the usa for school?

me and carl split, so that's not a HUGE anchor for me anymore....

it's 2x more expensive than if i stay here - but the benefit is, i can start now, vs another year+++

decisions decisions....

**rhino1** · 11-30-2008, 08:58 PM

Follow your gut feeling...get away from Carl...There are plenty of other carls here...esp in NYC

**scibble** · 11-30-2008, 09:19 PM

maybe you can start in the U.S. and transfer over as soon as you get into a Canadian school ?

**Ernst** · 11-30-2008, 09:24 PM

NYC is a place people leave Kansas to go to.

**KatsMeow** · 11-30-2008, 09:43 PM

the cost of living will be much higher in NYC than in Kansas

**KingTenderloin** · 11-30-2008, 09:59 PM

Dude.... stay in Canada this place sucks

**Kratos** · 11-30-2008, 10:13 PM

lots of gay dudes in NYC

**rhino1** · 11-30-2008, 11:00 PM

you can find a stinking, brown, stitttty, a$$hole in any place in the world....

Good women...now those are hard to find...hahaha I FOUND MINE w/o turning gay

WWCD? what would carl do?

be free...do what makes you happy

**Nicotine** · 12-01-2008, 12:17 AM

it's cheaper living in kansas...that's for sure....

and..wwcd? nothing, that was the problem. he didnt do anything! :P

i wonder if i started in the usa school, if it's easy to xfer to a canadian one

**Mulciber** · 12-01-2008, 12:45 AM

as long as we arent paying for it i dont care...lol
id go with NY.. not much in kansas.. well, tornados

**Tigershark** · 12-01-2008, 12:45 AM

I never lived in New York but I did live in Kansas for 2 years. What school in Kansas are you talking about. Kansas University or Kansas State?

**Nicotine** · 12-01-2008, 12:46 AM

wichita univ

benefits of living there, have friends there - living would be CHEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP

**Tigershark** · 12-01-2008, 12:52 AM

I have been to Wichita for a visit. Nice city, not too big and not too small either. And yes living in Kansas is cheap. New York may be a happening place but I could never afford to live there. Plus I hate the big cities anyway. I live 50 miles from Boston and I never go there because it is freaking crazy there. I am very happy with my little town in New Hampshire.

**rhino1** · 12-01-2008, 12:54 AM

Originally Posted by Nicotine

wichita univ

benefits of living there, have friends there - living would be CHEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP

im sure male escorts would be more affordable in kansas as apposed to nyc...

**AnimalGear** · 12-01-2008, 12:54 AM

I think either option would be amazing for you...it would be something new with all new people and a chance to kinda start fresh. It'll be sort of a test that may allow you to find yourself even more and grow more as a person

gl

**rhino1** · 12-01-2008, 12:56 AM

Originally Posted by AnimalGear

I think either option would be amazing for you...it would be something new with all new people and a chance to kinda start fresh. It'll be sort of a test that may allow you to find yourself even more and grow more as a person

gl

Animal is right...it will kinda be like a freshly wiped anus...

**sizerp** · 12-01-2008, 02:25 AM

Bring the mutha****in ruccus. NY is the shit. Head there.

**Polska** · 12-01-2008, 06:54 AM

Rhino1 you sound like the asshole in this thread. If you dont have anything to contribute that doesnt sound like a homophobic joke then get the **** out!

**Tock** · 12-01-2008, 02:07 PM

Lots of good schools here in Texas, and it's lots cheaper than NYC. Lots of gay folks in Dallas, Austin, and Houstin.
www.dallasvoice.com

Just a thought . . .

**WOLFCRAFT** · 12-01-2008, 02:09 PM

Go to New York dude. That place is a trip. It'll be a good "life experience".

**sizerp** · 12-01-2008, 03:01 PM

Seriously NY hands down over Kansas. WTF is in Kansas? Nothing. Lol. NY is so up-beat and lively. Such great opportunities shall arise there for joo. Nothing compares, I grew up there. It owns.

**zimmy** · 12-02-2008, 01:18 PM

Go to Kansas...NYC is where some of the rudest, most backwords people you will ever meat live. Kansas is far enough south that they are ok.

**Dukkit** · 12-02-2008, 01:27 PM

hmm, honestly... ive lived in the big cities, and in the middle of nowhere.

i currently reside in philly

i would choose kansas over NYC. i hate NYC. too much rush. too much stress. too many ppl

Kansas would have a good amount of ppl. still fun. there are always things to do. you just need to take the initiative to find those things. ive had more fun when i lived in the sticks then i do now in philly. though there are more ppl and places in philly.

plus you cant beat the southern ladies!!

well i guess in your case it would be southern fellas

**rhino1** · 12-04-2008, 01:01 AM

either place would be nice...

**JiGGaMaN** · 12-04-2008, 01:26 AM

dude without even glancing at these other chumps responses, just do it. It seems to be the right answer every time when someone posts a question on what they should do. Im from canada as well, im waiting till i graduate to make a move to the states for school. im definitely picking out schools in warm places. Why would you leave Canada to go somewhere just as cold?

**rhino1** · 12-04-2008, 04:36 AM

Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN

dude without even glancing at these other chumps responses, just do it. It seems to be the right answer every time when someone posts a question on what they should do. Im from canada as well, im waiting till i graduate to make a move to the states for school. im definitely picking out schools in warm places. Why would you leave Canada to go somewhere just as cold?

good point