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  1. 01-21-2013, 07:08 AM #1
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    Do you consider it cheating if your GF/wife sleeps with other women?

    Wanted to stay with the theme TR has created lately lol.

    With or without your knowleage, is ok if your women (or guy if you are a women) sleeps with someone of the same sex (without you participating)?
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  2. 01-21-2013, 07:15 AM #2
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  3. 01-21-2013, 07:27 AM #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by SteM View Post
    Does participating include watching?
    No....no involvement at all!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1
    Wanted to stay with the theme TR has created lately lol.

    With or without your knowleage, is ok if your women (or guy if you are a women) sleeps with someone of the same sex (without you participating)?
    Hell no
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  5. 01-21-2013, 07:42 AM #5
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    I didnt because she always invited me. She would usually get them warmed up for the 1st time and then talk them into letting me join in. It was funny a couple girls were not bi and only liked women so no intercourse but they were OK with oral and after the fact they kept coming back for more. My wife actually had to tell one she was not allowed to come over anymore because she was to persistent and wanted to come over all the time. lol

    Ahhh the good ole days.

    OOps, just saw the no involvement. Well she did a few times but I was aware of it and I just couldn't get off work to join it but I was OK with it. Yes 100% it was only other girls. I figured I like pvssy and cant blame her for liking it also and obviously I cant fill that gap/need/desire. I knew going into it she was bi ahead of time so who was I to complain?
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    yes its cheating.

    i would be fine with it if i could join in but if not then she cant do it! why should she get to have all the fun!?!

    but itll never happen.. my wife is in no way attracted to other women (that i know of )
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  7. 01-21-2013, 07:54 AM #7
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  8. 01-21-2013, 07:55 AM #8
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    it's cheating IF there is an understood rule against such action in the relationship.

    Infidelity (colloquially cheating, adultery, or having an affair) is a breach of an expectation of sexual and or emotional exclusivity expressed or implied in an intimate relationship. Infidelity can be physical intimacy or emotional intimacy. Infidelity also involves trust, betrayal, lying and disloyalty.[1] Sexual infidelity by a marriage partner is commonly called philandery, adultery, or an affair.

    What constitutes an act of infidelity varies between and within cultures and depends on the type of relationship that exists between people. Even within an open relationship, infidelity may arise if a partner in a relationship acts outside of the understood boundaries of that relationship.
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    If my woman has sex with another woman without my knowledge: It would be cheating.

    If my woman has sex with another woman with my knowledge: She would have my consent. (I do think it would end up being the undoing of the relationship)
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    It cheating no other way about it.

    It does sound like alot of fun for her, and as stated in another post here, why does she get to have all of the fun?

    Im not sure how we as men justify it though in our minds, if we get to join in its not, in reality it still kinda is which ever way u look at it. Its just that moment we release all our problems or thoughts we had on the matter go away lol.
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    Yes, I had a GF for 4 years that was bi. We would do 3 somes all the time. I never worried about her cheating with a guy but with a girl YES.
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Ender-
    If my woman has sex with another woman without my knowledge: It would be cheating.

    If my woman has sex with another woman with my knowledge: She would have my consent. (I do think it would end up being the undoing of the relationship)
    I agree. Overall sooner or later some emotional issue would rise from it. Jealousy or the guy feeling inadequate or something of the sort
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  14. 01-21-2013, 12:11 PM #14
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    I personally wouldn't care if she had sex with another woman. But that's just me.
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    I think it all depends on the individual relationship. If both parties in a relationship feel it's ok, then its obviously not; if it's not ok or has never been discussed, it's probably cheating. It's exactly the same as an open marriage, as long as both parties are clear on the rules and comfortable with it it's clearly not cheating. If you're the girl doing it and it feels like cheating, or your bf/husband might see it that way, then it probably is.

    Personally, I'd sell my soul to watch my wife munch some muff...
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  16. 01-21-2013, 12:40 PM #16
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    A buddy of mine use to be with a girl who was bi. He let her do whatever she wanted because there were many times his girl would come home from a night out and bring home another girl for him to play with also. He'd be sitting on the couch watching football or whatever and his girl would stumble in all drunk with some other girl and next thing you know its a party. BUT.... 2 years later.... she left him for another women so.....
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    bisexual chicks are great to have as girlfriends or fvckbuddies.. i wouldnt marry one..
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    There seems to be a lot of insecurity! Whats diff if she is banging some chick on the side or tossing her own sald with a giant cucumber while your at work. Is that cheating too? Is it cheating if you spank your monkey watching porn while she is gone? Christ....it's just a bit of girl on girl fun!
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    I wouldn't like her having sex with another woman without me knowing but kissing and touching wouldn't bother me. If I can watch she can do whatever she wants.
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    Quote Originally Posted by S&S_ShovelHead View Post
    I wouldn't like her having sex with another woman without me knowing but kissing and touching wouldn't bother me.
    Don't even start...you missed your chance LMAO!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1
    There seems to be a lot of insecurity! Whats diff if she is banging some chick on the side or tossing her own sald with a giant cucumber while your at work. Is that cheating too? Is it cheating if you spank your monkey watching porn while she is gone? Christ....it's just a bit of girl on girl fun!
    So Lunk your wife is ok with you sleeping with a man? It seems your ok with her sleeping or may I say messing around with a woman!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1 View Post
    Don't even start...you missed your chance LMAO!
    Haha, it's just a matter if time. Went to a big sex show last night and when we came home I had the best sex of my life. She also said she had the most intense O ever. Then later that night the 10th-15th were even better
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONZY007 View Post
    So Lunk your wife is ok with you sleeping with a man? It seems your ok with her sleeping or may I say messing around with a woman!
    Are you asking me out Fonz? I certainly have NO problems if my wife wanted to "mess around" with another women. Keeping it a secret from me would be a whole nother issue but with my knowledge...knock yourself out I say. I gaurantee I will reap the rewards from it in some way shape or form!
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    Anything behind my back is cheating..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Are you asking me out Fonz? I certainly have NO problems if my wife wanted to "mess around" with another women. Keeping it a secret from me would be a whole nother issue but with my knowledge...knock yourself out I say. I gaurantee I will reap the rewards from it in some way shape or form!
    No I'm not asking you out, just seems it went both ways!!
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    If my boyfriend slept with another man - cheating

    If I slept with another woman & he didn't know - cheating
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONZY007 View Post
    No I'm not asking you out, just seems it went both ways!!
    The topic goes both ways....but I don't lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    The topic goes both ways....but I don't lol
    That's the clarification I was looking for lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONZY007 View Post
    That's the clarification I was looking for lol
    Would it change your opinion of me? Perhaps make me a bit more attractive in your eyes lol?
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    Quote Originally Posted by twitz View Post
    If my boyfriend slept with another man - cheating

    If I slept with another woman & he didn't know - cheating
    Have you ever slept with another women?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunk1

    Would it change your opinion of me? Perhaps make me a bit more attractive in your eyes lol?
    Lol, no not at all, by the way nice legs
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    It's not cheating if you have both knowledge and approve of her sleeping with other chicks. But if you're giving her this approval, you're either in an open relationship or you're in a relationship that isn't going to work out.

    Look at it like this, if she's seeking sex outside of your relationship with her, there is a need that you're not satisfying. I mean how does that make you feel? I bet not very good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by twitz View Post
    If my boyfriend slept with another man - cheating

    If I slept with another woman & he didn't know - cheating
    What if he slept with another man with you knowledge ? lol
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