Best way to break the secret to the girlfriend?

**Juggernaut** · 08-12-2005, 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl

Tell her the truth, You are not a little kid keeping something from your parents cause you don't want to get in trouble. Honesty is the best policy, she'll find out sooner or later, get it over with - if she doesn't like it then quit or tell her to get lost. Just my opinion for what it is worth.

eGGz....

Then ask her if she mastrubates that will shut her up.

Really depends on her stance with AAS. You might be more open minded than most Tex. Some are dead set against it and telling them won't net you browny points. Granted no one needs to tell anyone up front after only a few months together.....if your talking marriage...maybe.

**eGGz** · 08-12-2005, 05:28 PM

Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl

Tell her the truth, You are not a little kid keeping something from your parents cause you don't want to get in trouble. Honesty is the best policy, she'll find out sooner or later, get it over with - if she doesn't like it then quit or tell her to get lost. Just my opinion for what it is worth.

eGGz.....

Thanks Texas, I appreciate your candor. I have recently been asked if I used AAS on the first date and I did lie about it. I was unsure how she felt about it, and seeing as how most people are misled by the media regarding AAS, I didn't want to scare her off.

Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl

Then ask her if she mastrubates that will shut her up.

LoL, OK, I'll try that but if it gets my face slapped I'm gonna hold you responsible.

**TexasFitnessGirl** · 08-12-2005, 05:31 PM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

Really depends on her stance with AAS. You might be more open minded than most Tex. Some are dead set against it and telling them won't net you browny points. Granted no one needs to tell anyone up front after only a few months together.....if your talking marriage...maybe.

I agree with you maybe I spoke b4 knowing how long they have been together. I just hate dishonesty and sometimes there is a fine line between being honest and keeping your privacy. It is also something that can be held against you so you have to be careful. I am just all about letting that person take you the way you are or don't. If that makes sense

**Juggernaut** · 08-12-2005, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl

I agree with you maybe I spoke b4 knowing how long they have been together. I just hate dishonesty and sometimes there is a fine line between being honest and keeping your privacy. It is also something that can be held against you so you have to be careful. I am just all about letting that person take you the way you are or don't. If that makes sense

Nope sounds like we're on the same page. A real bond needs to develop before truths can be told. In certain cases.

**ttuprincess** · 08-12-2005, 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

Nope sounds like we're on the same page. A real bond needs to develop before truths can be told. In certain cases.

thats true, but in this case the guy has been with the girl for 2 years... by now he should know if he can trust her or not

**TexasFitnessGirl** · 08-12-2005, 06:24 PM

Originally Posted by ttuprincess

thats true, but in this case the guy has been with the girl for 2 years... by now he should know if he can trust her or not

TRUE!

**iamthehulk** · 08-12-2005, 06:47 PM

i dont know about telling her i was with a girl for 4 1/2 years but when i finally told her she left then came into my house when i was not there and took it and dumped it all.

**Keyser Sozey** · 08-12-2005, 06:57 PM

Imo, Honesty is a must, except w aas. Everything else should be out in the open. However, this stuff is really touchy and there are a few posts here to testify to that.
I was going to go on a rant, but like I said, only you need to know.

Study Palmeiro and how he would deny it before congress. Remember to point the finger while you are denying it.

**Juggernaut** · 08-13-2005, 04:38 PM

Originally Posted by ttuprincess

thats true, but in this case the guy has been with the girl for 2 years... by now he should know if he can trust her or not

You can know someone within two weeks? I must be slow or something but trust isn't something I toss around helter skelter. It would probably take a good year before I'll start digging in the bag to show skeletons. How can you know anything about anyone in two weeks?

**ttuprincess** · 08-13-2005, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

You can know someone within two weeks? I must be slow or something but trust isn't something I toss around helter skelter. It would probably take a good year before I'll start digging in the bag to show skeletons. How can you know anything about anyone in two weeks?

re read my last post.. 2 years

**colossus1** · 08-13-2005, 06:39 PM

Originally Posted by ttuprincess

I love reading the double standards here, just last week some girl was asking how to tell her b/f and if she should about her use and everyone told her to go ahead and tell him and not keep secrets then now when its a male its all the opposite... get over your double standards!

There always has been, there is, and there always will be a double standard. Its the way society works and human nature.