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    Unhappy HELP!! Found Sustanon 250 & Nandrolone Decanoate/K.Mediana is B/friend's room!!!!!


    Hi Guys

    I was snooping around in my boyfriend's room a couple of days ago, and came across Sustanon 250 and Nandrolone Decanoate 100mg. I didn't know what they were until I looked it up on the net and found out they were steroids . I know they are used to build up muscle but also to prolong life in AIDS sufferers, so I am really scared. He wants to be muscley and works out in the gym all of the time. He's in the British Army and can get kicked out if he has AIDS, so it's unlikely it's that, but taking steriods can be harmful, Should I tell him I found them and ask him or should I leave it as he may be seriously angry I was snooping.

    Could anyone point out the side effects of these steroids and if I should be concerned bout the AIDS things or am I just overreacting?

    Thanks guys...

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    its not common s have aids from roids unless he shares his needles with infected person u can do a little search on roids sides

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    no it wont have any thing to do with aids so relax there.
    no one can tell you if to confront him or not because we dont know your relationship with him(how he would react).
    its really not a big deal and i wouldnt worry about it as long as he uses them correctly he will be fine.

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    before you do anything...you should hang out here and learn the truth about these compounds. All things you "know" as of now are just the media's twisted view. Worst side effects he will probally suffer is a liitle bloat and acne. There are other posible side effects, but are pretty unlikely if he is taking the proper precautions.

    1. I bet he does not have aids.....and would not worry about it

    2. most publicly "known" side effects of steroids are greatly inflated

    3. there is no roid rage

    4. a side effect of aspirin is liver failer (for example)

    5. QUITE SNOOPING!!! (if you do not trust him leave him)

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    Quote Originally Posted by hosam4ever
    its not common s have aids from roids unless he shares his needles with infected person u can do a little search on roids sides
    She thinks he already has aids....and this why he is taking the gear. Not that he got it from using.


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    if he knows what he is doing he will be ok........................
    have a chat to him about it but do not start on him...just ask him about steroids and try to be reassuring and not dead against it....i can see you have somewat an open mind otherwise you would not have posted on this site......................
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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned

    Hi Guys

    I was snooping around in my boyfriend's room a couple of days ago, and came across Sustanon 250 and Nandrolone Decanoate 100mg. I didn't know what they were until I looked it up on the net and found out they were steroids . I know they are used to build up muscle but also to prolong life in AIDS sufferers, so I am really scared. He wants to be muscley and works out in the gym all of the time. He's in the British Army and can get kicked out if he has AIDS, so it's unlikely it's that, but taking steriods can be harmful, Should I tell him I found them and ask him or should I leave it as he may be seriously angry I was snooping.

    Could anyone point out the side effects of these steroids and if I should be concerned bout the AIDS things or am I just overreacting?

    Thanks guys...
    Clam down & dont worry at all AAS doesnt cause AIDS at all just be honest & straight about it with him if you guys are always open to eachother its the best way & btw the AAS thing for a guy is a sensitive issue so be friendly with him about it so he can tell you everything & how he do it.

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    I'm surprised you all responded so quickly, yes, I have got an open mind. I'm intrigued about what steriods do. I won't be angry with him as that's the worse thing I could do. As for the snooping thing....if he leaves me alone in his room for a prolonged period of time, what the hell am I supposed to do? Besides, if you haven't snooped around your partner's room, then you have been tempted to do it, every girl snoops.

    Anyway, thanks for your posts, I'm gonna talk to him. I'll get onto the "Have you taken drugs before"? talk and see where it takes me.

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    Firstly are you okay with his knowledgeable, informed use of steroids ?

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    Good luck but still being in a room alone doesnt give you an excuse to snoop

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    If I was your girlfriend, how would you react if I said I'd found steriod injections in your room? I've only known him since the start of Jan 06, which isn't long, do you think it's a dumpable offense?

    He had loads of packets of Nandrolone Decanoate/K.Mediana. Where can you get them from and if you get them on prescription does that mean they could be used for medical reasons?

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    Have a good chat with him, all the answer you require he will have, am sure he is not doing anything stupid just talk to him and see what he says.

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    you can buy gear in the local gym(from other bodybuilders) so it wont be hard for him to buy any.
    if my girl friend would confront me which has happened,i would be very defencive and if she tryed to say i was stupid or some thing i would leave her rite then and there.....just what i would do i cant speak for him obviously!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    If I was your girlfriend, how would you react if I said I'd found steriod injections in your room? I've only known him since the start of Jan 06, which isn't long, do you think it's a dumpable offense?

    He had loads of packets of Nandrolone Decanoate/K.Mediana. Where can you get them from and if you get them on prescription does that mean they could be used for medical reasons?

    & if i really care about you & love you i would come clean about it & tell you everything since you asked but hey dont get me wrong if you see this the right thing the do it you know him better i dont lol.

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    Veryconcerned -If I was your girlfriend, how would you react if I said I'd found steriod injections in your room? I've only known him since the start of Jan 06, which isn't long, do you think it's a dumpable offense?
    YES IT IS! If your relationship is still young and you need to ask that question, then him a favor an leave him now, with or without disclosing the reason.

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    ][-][ ][-][ ][-][ - Good luck but still being in a room alone doesnt give you an excuse to snoop.
    Very good point!
    View it from the following perspective, if you can.
    There is a very individually unique level of trust one requires before he discloses steroid use to ‘anyone’. He trusted you enough to leave you alone in his room, and that’s good. But you violated his trust by snooping, for whatever reason, through his drawers. Disclosing what you found evidences your guilt, and will very possibly affect his ability to trust you further, and likely ruin your relationship (since you know about his use of controlled substances). How can he trust you to keep this secret when he can’t leave you alone in his room?

    The reason I asked earlier if you were okay with his use, is because I think you’re proposing the wrong approach:

    I'll get onto the "Have you taken drugs before"? talk and see where it takes me.
    This is parental, authoritative and offensive!
    If you’re okay with it tell him, “I know you’re dedicated to working out, I snooped through your drawers, found steroids and I just want to be sure that you’re using them safely. Can you please tell me about the precautions you’re taking?”

    If you’re not okay with it, then let him know. “I snooped through your drawers, found steroids and I’d prefer you not use them”.

    Either way you’re admitting your guilt up front and putting the onus (burden) on him to share his feelings about it and you knowing.

    But you’re proposed cross examination and ‘Bad Cop’ approach will certainly incite anger, as you should not have found them in the first place, and are now withholding evidence during a interrogation of someone who is not your child.

    That’ll be a $175 for consultation.

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    When I was dating my wife, she found a broken deca vial in my sink. She got pissed - not that I was taking Deca, but that there was something I hadn't told her. Today, she knows everything I put in my body - better for me this way. Its better when someone knows what meds you are on... in case you have an incident and go to the hospital for whatever reason.

    Don't ask him, "what drugs are you on?" That comes off a bit aggressive... especially if your boyfriend is clean as a whistle in other areas - like no recreational drug use. Many athletes are very healthy people - anabolic steroids do not lead to crack addiction and aids, they lead to a better performing body. But you can ask him if he has ever considered using performance drugs... or better yet, don't beat around the bush and simply ask him, "how is the Deca working for you?"

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    Good TEST-imony Warrior!

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    I'm sure you people think I'm going over the top, cuz you use this stuff weekly, find it beneficial and experience no problems at all. But you can imagine I'm a little concerned. He tells me, he wants me to tell him everything about me, so he's got to reciprocate. If I ask him if he's taken drugs I've got to partly expect the answer to be "NO" cuz noone wants to admit they get a little help, but what do I do if he says no? change the subject?

    Also Muscle 20, do you think it's my place to confront him? he might think I'm a cheeky cow? if I do, I'll be casual bout it, and say I've had a few friends take steroids before, and I don't mind that he's taking them as long as he knows what he's doin?. If your girlfriend asked if you take drugs, would you be honest?

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    Your best bet is to come clean and say u found steroids in his room...

    but than u should be like "I'd really like to inject u with them next time u're due an injection, i think i'd be kinda kinky, and i'd be helping u out"
    Don't wonder if i'm being serious or not here, I 100% AM!
    This will strengten your relationship with him 10 fold.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    I'm sure you people think I'm going over the top, cuz you use this stuff weekly, find it beneficial and experience no problems at all. But you can imagine I'm a little concerned. He tells me, he wants me to tell him everything about me, so he's got to reciprocate. If I ask him if he's taken drugs I've got to partly expect the answer to be "NO" cuz noone wants to admit they get a little help, but what do I do if he says no? change the subject?

    Also Muscle 20, do you think it's my place to confront him? he might think I'm a cheeky cow? if I do, I'll be casual bout it, and say I've had a few friends take steroids before, and I don't mind that he's taking them as long as he knows what he's doin?. If your girlfriend asked if you take drugs, would you be honest?

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    I dont think you would get anything from asking him if he use roids its better that he comes to you & tell you like i told my GF about it & she was like "Look its your thing you seem experinced & know better & since you know what are you doing i'm okay with it" i was so happy because i know if you come clean about some certain things it will make everyone happy.

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    to be honest most people guess i take drugs any way so the kind of girls i do date have no problem with it and just like the muscles.
    its your place to talk about it with him NOT confront him just be very casual and be like...so do you actually get results from injecting a bit of oil into your self??thats amazing isnt it?you know what i mean seem intrested but in no way against it.

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    Thanks guys, I didn't expect this much help!!! he asks me all sorts of questions out of the blue and if I ask him, he says "what do you wanna know" I suppose if he wanted me to know, then he would tell me. And if I ask him if he's used/using drugs, then if he says no, he definately doesn't want me to know.
    I think the real reason I was gonna confront him was because of the AIDS thing, that these steroids are treating AIDS or whatever. But as long as the steroids are not effecting me, then why should I know, I'm not his wife, and I'll have to deal with the consequences i.e if he dumps me over it.

    In the meantime, all I can do is get tested for AIDs in the next few months and take it from there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    Thanks guys, I didn't expect this much help!!! he asks me all sorts of questions out of the blue and if I ask him, he says "what do you wanna know" I suppose if he wanted me to know, then he would tell me. And if I ask him if he's used/using drugs, then if he says no, he definately doesn't want me to know.
    I think the real reason I was gonna confront him was because of the AIDS thing, that these steroids are treating AIDS or whatever. But as long as the steroids are not effecting me, then why should I know, I'm not his wife, and I'll have to deal with the consequences i.e if he dumps me over it.

    In the meantime, all I can do is get tested for AIDs in the next few months and take it from there.

    x

    Best of luck my advice is to give him some more time if he really love you & care he will tell you like i did to my gf just give him time.

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    [Veryconcerned]I'm sure you people think I'm going over the top, cuz you use this stuff weekly, find it beneficial and experience no problems at all. But you can imagine I'm a little concerned.
    This is only partly true. Yes you did come to the Anabolic Review for consultation and not Dr. Phil or Oprah, so obvious biases are present, but we can and are empathizing with you. It's obvious that you're concerned, and many people here have provided sage advice from opinions, feelings and personal experiences. It's really up to you now assimilate and apply our input, or seek other counsel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pooks
    Your best bet is to come clean and say u found steroids in his room...

    but than u should be like "I'd really like to inject u with them next time u're due an injection, i think i'd be kinda kinky, and i'd be helping u out"
    Don't wonder if i'm being serious or not here, I 100% AM!
    This will strengten your relationship with him 10 fold.
    Pooks, I thought of that!!! it would strengthen our relationship - something only we know. and it is kinda kinky!!!!! I'll wait to see if he admits it though. I will never admit to snooping! that can lead to all kinds of problems.

    Thanks

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    like every one said he wont be on it for aids(people who have aids go to their doctors for the injections and dont have the gear around the house).
    yeah i would say at this stage in your relation ship there is no need to say any thing.

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    MESSAGE TO HER BOYFRIEND: so much for the kinky injection idea. but I atleast tried bro! LOL Good Luck with the cycle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    I'm sure you people think I'm going over the top, cuz you use this stuff weekly, find it beneficial and experience no problems at all. But you can imagine I'm a little concerned. He tells me, he wants me to tell him everything about me, so he's got to reciprocate. If I ask him if he's taken drugs I've got to partly expect the answer to be "NO" cuz noone wants to admit they get a little help, but what do I do if he says no? change the subject?
    Don't play games - guys hate that... those games women play. You snooped - you found the gear... now own up to it. You will never change the subject - you will always have a side comment waiting for him regarding what will become known as "the issue."

    Think of them as any other supplement... he's done his research, obviously does not feel he needs your okay on the subject and will continue to do so anyhoo... make yourself approachable and he might tell you on his own. For some reason, he feels there is no reason to tell you as of now.

    Anyway - who cares. Your boy is working out, gettin' buff - using a little somethin', somethin' on the side to assist in protein uptake and block cortisol from wasting his efforts... and that Sust will make him a better lover for you

    Get him on here and we can help make sure he is getting the safest advice... hell, if he is too young or not ready for the steroids - we are quick to tell people that as well. We aren't preaching that its safe for everyone to jump on a cycle because we do it "weekly" - shit, there a bunch of members here that have never used anything... just want the info.

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    thats right tell him to come onto this board then at least he can do it correctly.

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    He is 6'6", 23 years old and 16stone

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    Warrior, how does it make him a better lover? I haven't researched this enough!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    He is 6'6", 23 years old and 16stone
    Damn - you got a big boyfriend! He's fine...

    One thing we have on this subject is research. Many of us have experience as well as book-knowledge on the subject. You probably have the tabloids and media taboo assisting your reaction to it all... get him on here and we'll take care of him

    BTW - I bet at least half of the thousand guest viewing this site right now are family members or girlfriends that found a stash... lol

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    He`ll have a way better sex-drive

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    Warrior, how does it make him a better lover? I haven't researched this enough!!!!!!
    Sustanon is testosterone . Testosterone is what virilized him as a fetus in his mother's womb. It brings some of the male-like effects when you use superphysiological doses of it as an adult, it will raise libido and aggressiveness in bed... you may have noticed him being "up" a little more often than normal? lol

    Most women love it... the attention that is

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    Quote Originally Posted by Veryconcerned
    Warrior, how does it make him a better lover? I haven't researched this enough!!!!!!
    Uh oh! The key words always incite inquiry!

    This is the first time I've seen a thread jack by the starter, we've gone from "Help I found Sust", to "Tell me about the boudoir".

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    Ha ha ha, what can I say....you guys have helped me out, and raised my spirits. I've gotta look on the bright side of things.
    Yeah, he's always hard, damn, I thought that was my effect on him, oh well. And yes, he's very aggressive in bed. Anything else??? I'm intrigued.

    As i said before, I'm not gonna say anything to him, since you guys have helped me, it's a worry anymore, but I'll still be relying on him to tell me in the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by damiongage
    before you do anything...you should hang out here and learn the truth about these compounds. All things you "know" as of now are just the media's twisted view. Worst side effects he will probally suffer is a liitle bloat and acne. There are other posible side effects, but are pretty unlikely if he is taking the proper precautions.

    1. I bet he does not have aids.....and would not worry about it

    2. most publicly "known" side effects of steroids are greatly inflated

    3. there is no roid rage

    4. a side effect of aspirin is liver failer (for example)

    5. QUITE SNOOPING!!! (if you do not trust him leave him)








    i would diffently agree!

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    I'm not gonna recommend him to this site guys, or he will think i'm obsessed if he read this thread.

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    This forum has an excellent book on anabolic steroids by Anthony Roberts.
    It costs $39. or about I just got it. Almost every body builder has a copy.
    Why don't you order one for him. Sort of a silent communication. It might be a relief to him as well. No one wants to hide any thing from some one they love.

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    You seem like a level headed, open minded girl which is good, alot of girls might have reacted out of ignorance and freaked out.

    That having been said, I gotts say that your snooping has opened a can of worms. Alot of the guys are advising you to tell him that you found it but IMO that kinda depends on how well it was hidden, i.e. if it was just like in a drawer so you could open it and just see it then fair enough, but if you really had to search to find it then I say keep your mouth shut, if my girlfriend of 2 months had searched through my stuff I would be highly pissed off.

    That brings us on to the fact that if you don't tell him and try to coax it out of him and he doesn't tell you (which is very understandable given the duration of your relationship) then you are going to get increasingly annoyed that he won't confide in you.

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