Ejaculation problems

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 03:39 AM

Kay so I have a big problem causing me lots of grief and irritation. I can't finish it during sex. I've tried so many different things and noting.
I've slept with five girls in the last 8 months and I just can't bust a nut, the one even lasted two hours before she was to sore.. Like I just had sex finished her twice in half hour and noting.
And I didn't rub one out for 4 months and still nothing. Like I get hard as a rock an can preform just can't finish..

It was definitely related to me taking winstrol .

My thoughts is that it's hormonal? Assuming that it is what kind of test should I ask for?

Another thought maybe proviron or masteron with low does of test of course could help correct this? Doubtful but I'm thinking it could help maybe from what I've read about it

And I've been a member on here for awhile now please don't tell me to read the stickys that I've read probably 20 times over. I have spent countless hours doing research!

**bullshark99** · 03-29-2014, 05:22 AM

Good problem to have LOL, I don't have a clue, will b interested what the vets come up with.

**EquilibriumZ** · 03-29-2014, 05:33 AM

Your dick is just desensitized lol.. Too much masturbation. Try not masturbating for 1 week and we ll see if you ll bust all over or no

But anyway alot of it is mental too, you must "want to cum" for it to happen lol no homo

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 08:34 AM

Yea desensitized is a good description.. And as I stated I did masterbate for 4 monthish and the problem still remains

**ppwc1985** · 03-29-2014, 08:53 AM

So you have researched all the stickys right? So now you know why we recommend not cycling before your 25. And doing a only winny cycle wasn't to smart either was it? You need to go to dr and have a full panel done and hope you didn't screw yourself up. The dr will know what needs tested. Good luck.

**Bonaparte** · 03-29-2014, 09:01 AM

Anorgasmia is often caused by elevated prolactin levels. Try running Caber (a dopamine agonist) for a few weeks and see if it helps.

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 09:11 AM

Originally Posted by ppwc1985

So you have researched all the stickys right? So now you know why we recommend not cycling before your 25. And doing a only winny cycle wasn't to smart either was it? You need to go to dr and have a full panel done and hope you didn't screw yourself up. The dr will know what needs tested. Good luck.

As I already stated yes. And I understand why it's recommended to wait to cycle but I didn't have the knowledge on aas that I do now, what's done is done. But I'm going to make an appointment here soon, hopefully all goes well.

**noon** · 03-29-2014, 09:35 AM

Do what Bonaparte says

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by Bonaparte

Anorgasmia is often caused by elevated prolactin levels. Try running Caber (a dopamine agonist) for a few weeks and see if it helps.

I've never touched deca or tren no 19 nors.
This shouldn't be the issue I would assume.
And I've never taken an ai so I couldn't of had a rebound causeing prolactin issues.

The only aas I have taken was moderate doses of winstrol , anavar and t3 which is not a steroid .

I have 20ml of test a bottle of Adex and some novadex but I doubt a serm would help my issue

**slfmade** · 03-29-2014, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by altered genetics

I've never touched deca or tren no 19 nors.
This shouldn't be the issue I would assume.
And I've never taken an ai so I couldn't of had a rebound causeing prolactin issues.

The only aas I have taken was moderate doses of winstrol , anavar and t3 which is not a steroid .

I have 20ml of test a bottle of Adex and some novadex but I doubt a serm would help my issue

Surely you realize that 19nors are not the only thing in the world that raise prolactin levels?

**SEOINAGE** · 03-29-2014, 11:47 AM

When I crashed my E2 I couldn't ejaculate. Caber changes that pretty well, can also take mucuna pruriens. Had my first orgasm during oral in years thanks to mucuna, can take it in the evening eod. Caber low dose, be careful if you take it. I took a little too much and was busting a nut in a matter of seconds.

Is there any way you have low testosterone or possibly low E2? What else have you been taking or doing recently, have you had any bw? also any other changes or symptoms?

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 02:26 PM

Originally Posted by slfmade

Surely you realize that 19nors are not the only thing in the world that raise prolactin levels?

No please tell me more. What other things can drastically effect prolactin ?

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 02:55 PM

Originally Posted by SEOINAGE

When I crashed my E2 I couldn't ejaculate. Caber changes that pretty well, can also take mucuna pruriens. Had my first orgasm during oral in years thanks to mucuna, can take it in the evening eod. Caber low dose, be careful if you take it. I took a little too much and was busting a nut in a matter of seconds. Is there any way you have low testosterone or possibly low E2? What else have you been taking or doing recently, have you had any bw? also any other changes or symptoms?

Maybe I'll look into getting some caber. Not sure if any of my sources can get it. What's mucuna pruriens? Another pi?
I don't think it's test because I don't really have any noticeable symptoms of low T and I shut my self down before I no what it feels like. Could be e2 only blood could tell that. Haven't taken any aas in months! No it's been the same since supplementing Winnie. I mean I can rub one out but there's a fair amount of effort involved..

So currently I'm thinking bw's my best option. What tests should I all get done?

**havanakid** · 03-29-2014, 03:02 PM

Are you taking any medication for anxiety/panic disorder etc???

**slfmade** · 03-29-2014, 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by altered genetics

No please tell me more. What other things can drastically effect prolactin ?

Here's some things to read.

Hyperprolactinaemia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Prolactinoma (Pituitary Tumor) Symptoms, Causes, Treatment - Aside from a prolactinoma, what else can cause prolactin levels to rise? - MedicineNet

**David LoPan** · 03-29-2014, 03:32 PM

How ugly were the girl? Kidding, you know some girls will like this and other will think its a challenge. Just blame it on them and make them work harder. I would check into your blood work and see whats going on. It could be something your have done or something that is just going to be normal to you. Stay away from ED drugs, they will make matters worse.

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 03:37 PM

Originally Posted by havanakid

Are you taking any medication for anxiety/panic disorder etc???

No never have !

**noon** · 03-29-2014, 03:43 PM

At least you can still achieve an errection

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 03:51 PM

Originally Posted by BigTahl

How ugly were the girl? Kidding, you know some girls will like this and other will think its a challenge. Just blame it on them and make them work harder. I would check into your blood work and see whats going on. It could be something your have done or something that is just going to be normal to you. Stay away from ED drugs, they will make matters worse.

Hey if it's white & tight it's right

it's not good tho, I think they notice that I don't got much feeling cause it shows. ED drugs? Like rec drugs?

**David LoPan** · 03-29-2014, 03:55 PM

Originally Posted by altered genetics

Hey if it's white & tight it's right

it's not good tho, I think they notice that I don't got much feeling cause it shows. ED drugs? Like rec drugs?

NO ED is Erectile Dysfunction Those drugs include but not are limited to: Cialis, Levitra, Staxyn, and Viagra

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by BigTahl

NO ED is Erectile Dysfunction Those drugs include but not are limited to: Cialis, Levitra, Staxyn, and Viagra

Oh okay gotcha ! No need for it anyways. I did try Sildenafil citrate from a ugl last year tho.

**Bigshotvictoria** · 03-29-2014, 05:17 PM

Originally Posted by altered genetics

Hey if it's white & tight it's right

it's not good tho, I think they notice that I don't got much feeling cause it shows. ED drugs? Like rec drugs?

White AND tight?

If only my standards were that high...

**altered genetics** · 03-29-2014, 05:34 PM

Originally Posted by Bigshotvictoria

White AND tight? If only my standards were that high...

It's a figure of speech..

**kelkel** · 03-29-2014, 05:42 PM

It starts with blood work. HRT forum's finding a doc sticky has a good example. Odds are it's prolactin or E2 like Bona and others mentioned.

**Bigshotvictoria** · 03-29-2014, 05:46 PM

Originally Posted by altered genetics

It's a figure of speech..

I'm only kidding. I'm dealing with a similar situation, only my anorgasmia is post SSRI treatment. I keep beating off like somethings gonna happen. It's like a car with no motor, I can get in and turn the key, but it never turns over.

**Bert** · 03-29-2014, 10:23 PM

I don't know what I'd do if I could n't blow a load.

**lovbyts** · 03-30-2014, 03:08 AM

Originally Posted by Bonaparte

Anorgasmia is often caused by elevated prolactin levels. Try running Caber (a dopamine agonist) for a few weeks and see if it helps.

Hmmm I should give that a try also. My wife keeps complaining and doesnt like my suggestion of anal to fix the problem. Also her jaw is getting pretty damn sore from working so long. lol I do have a bottle of liquid caber from AR-R I saw yesterday in the refrigerator. Time to give it a try.

**Schwarzenegger** · 03-30-2014, 03:23 AM

Since u can get a hard on but can't finish, points to something psychological ie. Stress/anxiety/depression. U been depressed lately or got girl problems? Obvs u boning diff chics so no girl problems looks like haha.

But on the real, job stress? Crazy ex keep popping up? Divorced or get out of a bad relationship?

As mentioned earlier antidepressants and other drugs can cause this as well.

These are all the questions the doc will ask u before he checks ur blood out.

If its hormonal u a. Won't be able to get it up or b. Have a half hard on.

The other option is prolaction levels coupled with some sort of anxiety or stress

**lovbyts** · 03-30-2014, 03:43 AM

Originally Posted by Schwarzenegger

Since u can get a hard on but can't finish, points to something psychological ie. Stress/anxiety/depression. U been depressed lately or got girl problems? Obvs u boning diff chics so no girl problems looks like haha.

But on the real, job stress? Crazy ex keep popping up? Divorced or get out of a bad relationship?

As mentioned earlier antidepressants and other drugs can cause this as well.

These are all the questions the doc will ask u before he checks ur blood out.

If its hormonal u a. Won't be able to get it up or b. Have a half hard on.

The other option is prolaction levels coupled with some sort of anxiety or stress

All good points for the OP to consider, especially the other meds part. Im pretty sure my recurring high E2 has a little to do with mine as well as some nero blockers for fibromyalgia .

**slfmade** · 03-30-2014, 07:47 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Hmmm I should give that a try also. My wife keeps complaining and doesnt like my suggestion of anal to fix the problem. Also her jaw is getting pretty damn sore from working so long. lol I do have a bottle of liquid caber from AR-R I saw yesterday in the refrigerator. Time to give it a try.

No Anal???? Not a healthy marriage. LOL

**lovbyts** · 03-30-2014, 07:49 AM

Originally Posted by slfmade

No Anal???? Not a healthy marriage. LOL

Well not yet anyways, Still working on it and she is giving in little by little. She is still kind of a newbie to quite a few things and still learning. Much longer and I'm just going to go the Ambien route.

**kelkel** · 03-30-2014, 08:49 AM

Originally Posted by lovbyts

Well not yet anyways, Still working on it and she is giving in little by little. She is still kind of a newbie to quite a few things and still learning. Much longer and I'm just going to go the Ambien route.

Takes time to teach an 18 year old!

**lovbyts** · 03-30-2014, 09:05 AM

Originally Posted by kelkel

Takes time to teach an 18 year old!

I dont know, I find the younger ones actually learn/are more willing to try quicker. It's those old ones over 25 that are a bit harder to convince.

**David LoPan** · 03-30-2014, 09:32 AM

oops wrong post

**AsEpSiS** · 03-30-2014, 11:47 AM

Blood work is really the only way to tell what's going on

**altered genetics** · 03-30-2014, 11:56 AM

Originally Posted by Bigshotvictoria

I'm only kidding. I'm dealing with a similar situation, only my anorgasmia is post SSRI treatment. I keep beating off like somethings gonna happen. It's like a car with no motor, I can get in and turn the key, but it never turns over.

I can still rub one out, takes quite a bit of effort although. Just not enough feeling to finish in sex..

**altered genetics** · 03-30-2014, 12:13 PM

Originally Posted by Schwarzenegger

Since u can get a hard on but can't finish, points to something psychological ie. Stress/anxiety/depression. U been depressed lately or got girl problems? Obvs u boning diff chics so no girl problems looks like haha. But on the real, job stress? Crazy ex keep popping up? Divorced or get out of a bad relationship? As mentioned earlier antidepressants and other drugs can cause this as well. These are all the questions the doc will ask u before he checks ur blood out. If its hormonal u a. Won't be able to get it up or b. Have a half hard on. The other option is prolaction levels coupled with some sort of anxiety or stress

Yea I get quite a bit of stress and depression from time to time. Got some girl problems but girls come and go lol but not really any girl problems just looking for a good one..

I use to do quite a few rec drugs.

Yea I'm kind of hoping it's prolactin or something easy to correct ..

But no I can defiantly get a hard on! I got a limp dick when I shut myself down but that's not an issue anymore.

**altered genetics** · 03-30-2014, 01:19 PM

Originally Posted by slfmade

No Anal???? Not a healthy marriage. LOL

Anal maybe this is something I should try (; girls don't seem to be very fond of it although lol

**altered genetics** · 03-30-2014, 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by kelkel

It starts with blood work. HRT forum's finding a doc sticky has a good example. Odds are it's prolactin or E2 like Bona and others mentioned.

So I I'm going to request some tests from the doc, see how that goes.

Total test. Free test. SHBG. LH. FSH. Estradiol. Prolactin. E2. Anything else I should ask for?

**slfmade** · 03-30-2014, 03:45 PM

Originally Posted by altered genetics

Anal maybe this is something I should try (; girls don't seem to be very fond of it although lol

I've actually found that after the break in period (when it hurts), they like it just as much as any other type of non-direct clitoral stimulation positions. In otherwords. women like it in the ass as much as doggy style, etc. As a matter of fact I've notice women actually get wetter this way for some reason. (Or maybe is the gallon of astroglide running down...lol)

The problem with most guys is that don't take it slow enough the first time, or in most cases, they don't do it often enough. If you only do anal once every 6 months, it's gonna hurt that time as much as it did the first time. I recommend every few weeks. After the first few times you can jam it in almost as quickly as vaginal.