
Originally Posted by
Bojangles69
First examine your own morals and make sure 5, 10 years down the road you're not going to have some sort of ethical meltdown where you need to "cleanse your spirit" and tell your wife.
Make sure your own mental/emotional well being is healthy, otherwise you may look back a few months, say "damn, I know I was in a funk but now I feel like a complete deush".
You want to make sure you truely can do it w/out feeling bad, because it is YOUR own feelings that will wind up really sabatoging a situation.
My tips:
MAKE SURE the girl you are with knows NO DETAIL of your personal life.
I don't care how cool she is about it, bitches will catch feelings one day, and your inability to reciprocate will become her new venture towards destroying your perfectly good life.
I'd even suggest getting a new cell if you plan on doing this more than once.
NEVER mention where you work, your real job, and give a false last name.
Never leave any personal documents (license, credit card, etc) or anything she can pick up to use against you in the future.
Obviously use hotels, her place, and stay OUT of your town, when you're together, or anywhere you may *accidentally run into a family member or friend of your wife.
Falsey portray the situation as you breaking the law, (which adultry is) but amplify the consequences, are you ready for divorce? No? Good, you'll have a life sentence if you get caught.
Keep it fun, and BE WARNED! You CAN catch feelings, start reanalyzing your entire life, and be pulled into a depression over it.
So again, make sure you KNOW and are comfortable in the reality of "cheating".
Its sneaky, so you must act and behave sneaky.
Its an NSA situation so you MUST not be in anyway emotionally detached from your wife.
That will make you want to break the rules of NSA.
Most importantly:
NO MATTER how good she is in bed, no matter if she swallows and gargles after you finish in her mouth.
NO MATTER what, DO NOT tell ANYONE.
Also be aware about a huge thing that commonly happens.
Getting drunk.
Now, in a year, doesn't matter.
You may be drunk one night, and things may come out, even to your wife.
So to be completely safe, be on guard while around alcohol.
A lot of people fvck up from the stupid "shit, I only had 7 beers but it just slipped out, now my marraige is ruined or someones trying to blackmale me".
Be a professional, or don't do it at all.