some good responses, and some responses
by some puritans who think they know-it-all. I can guarantee I will never be divorced and neither I nor my wife will attempt to divorce the other. Just take my word for it. I know my relationship better than you.

thanks to those providing actual tips. Not really paying attention to all the "you'll be sorry" s. I been around the block, y'aint tellin me things i cant figure out.