Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69 View Post
Ok you have a girl 1 & 2.
Girl 1 it didn't already work out with, I'd leave that alone.

Girl 2s mom is a whorebag. But Girl 2 seems motivated and independent. Thats attractive in a girl.
But still, consider this.

We take another situation.
Where theres girl 1,2 and also a 3,4,5.

Now you have more options. And if girl 4 had less cons and more pros than girls 1 & 2 they now become obselete.
Girls 1 and 2 are just whats in your life right now. But if it was me personally, I'd control your "I want a girlfriend" idea. And exercise what you said afterwards about "I know I don't need one though".

I'd casually hook up with 2, and wait for #'s 3,4, and 5 to come around. Also this will give you 2 time to either grow on each other, or grow away from each other.
People always wanna rush into things, and I think thats what you're doing.

Keep it casual and you can't go wrong. I'd wait another 4-5 months, see how things change, than maybe make a decision than. You're obviously confused right now, which is the foundation of your thread, which makes me believe you need time to sort out that confusion, not us.

Understand that,

there has been girls 3,4,5,6 and so on over the past year. To be honest, I've kind of been dating too much over the last year. I had been hanging out with girl 2, for about 9 months, but I waited 5 months to start dating her. Over about 7 months though, I was spent time with 3/4 other girls.

These are just the 2 that I'd consider taking seriously. I think all girls have their flaws. Girl 1, mostly her lack of motivation, she is emotionally unstable at times and the people she surrounds herself with.

girl 2's only real flaws are her age, but she makes up for it with maturity I guess. And her Mom's a whore.

I don't want to not consider girl 1 because it did not work a year ago. Couples go through ups and downs. A year later we still love each other, some times absence makes the heart grow fonder.