If your girlfriend was saying this to another guy what would you do?

[Bojangles69]

I honestly 100% thought this thread was a joke till I read the OPs second post and realized it wasn't.

The problem you face now is what decision qualifies as overkill and what decision qualifies you as a doormat.
*IF* you go communicate with her theres a good chance she'll minimize it as harmless texting with no intention.

Thats lovely, but simple fact is people who "talk marraige" (and are serious) DO NOT go off and talk taking shirts off and drinking Blue Moons (which is the worst fvckn beer ever made I'd lose her on that alone).

This is what I recommend.
Don't make a huge deal about it.

But absolutely make her feel an emotional disconnect. If you pull back and disconnect you can test how connected she was in the first place.

And I hate fvckn cliches but this is def one of those "if you love something let it go and it doesn't come back it never was yours" situations.
Don't throw any labels on what you do like if she asks "are you breaking up with me" just say "no, I really just need time by myself to think about things".

Women hate that shit, but she caused it. Just put it this way.
Imagine your on doctor phil and he read this text message to the audience and asked them to raise their hands if they thought it was right or not.

I guarantee most if not all would aggree that only a pushover would tolerate shit like that. And when you tolerate low quality behavoir you create a low quality life for yourself. Time to reevaluate some things, not just her but yourself. Because when things like this happen theres usually things before that happened that you may have swept under the carpet cause of your own insecurities.

[eatrainrest]

I honestly 100% thought this thread was a joke till I read the OPs second post and realized it wasn't.

The problem you face now is what decision qualifies as overkill and what decision qualifies you as a doormat.
*IF* you go communicate with her theres a good chance she'll minimize it as harmless texting with no intention.

Thats lovely, but simple fact is people who "talk marraige" (and are serious) DO NOT go off and talk taking shirts off and drinking Blue Moons (which is the worst fvckn beer ever made I'd lose her on that alone).

This is what I recommend.
Don't make a huge deal about it.

But absolutely make her feel an emotional disconnect. If you pull back and disconnect you can test how connected she was in the first place.

And I hate fvckn cliches but this is def one of those "if you love something let it go and it doesn't come back it never was yours" situations.
Don't throw any labels on what you do like if she asks "are you breaking up with me" just say "no, I really just need time by myself to think about things".

Women hate that shit, but she caused it. Just put it this way.
Imagine your on doctor phil and he read this text message to the audience and asked them to raise their hands if they thought it was not right.

I guarantee most if not all would aggree that only a pushover would tolerate shit like that. Time to reevaluate some things, not just her but yourself. Because when things like this happen theres usually things before that happened that you may have swept under the carpet cause of your own insecurities.


I'll be the first to say the intention is THERE

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

[firmechicano831]

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

But I liked what he had to say.

[Monstruoso]

But I liked what he had to say.

yeah me too brah...

[peachfuzz]

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

haha thats what i am saying. i think Bojangles = Oprah

but good advice none the less

[Bojangles69]

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

Dude like 3 days ago they did a whole half hour on the benefits of testosterone.
Dr. Phil is the man.. well not really but sometimes he does have good shows.

And judge judy too, shes a total gilf.

[higherdesire]

Dude like 3 days ago they did a whole half hour on the benefits of testosterone.
Dr. Phil is the man.. well not really but sometimes he does have good shows.

And judge judy too, shes a total gilf.

Ha HA gilf! Judge is spelled with a "j" gackass!

[mho]

Ha HA gilf! Judge is spelled with a "j" gackass!

I think he meant grandmother

[Gears]

I know how this goes bro, you have to be strong. You can either deal with months of emotional misery, or years of it. It will only get worse and harder to break off, take care of yourself and get out.

[Lightsout2184]

Ha HA gilf! Judge is spelled with a "j" gackass!

i dont think u know what a gilf is

[Z-Ro]

I honestly 100% thought this thread was a joke till I read the OPs second post and realized it wasn't.

The problem you face now is what decision qualifies as overkill and what decision qualifies you as a doormat.
*IF* you go communicate with her theres a good chance she'll minimize it as harmless texting with no intention.

Thats lovely, but simple fact is people who "talk marraige" (and are serious) DO NOT go off and talk taking shirts off and drinking Blue Moons (which is the worst fvckn beer ever made I'd lose her on that alone).

This is what I recommend.
Don't make a huge deal about it.

But absolutely make her feel an emotional disconnect. If you pull back and disconnect you can test how connected she was in the first place.

And I hate fvckn cliches but this is def one of those "if you love something let it go and it doesn't come back it never was yours" situations.
Don't throw any labels on what you do like if she asks "are you breaking up with me" just say "no, I really just need time by myself to think about things".

Women hate that shit, but she caused it. Just put it this way.
Imagine your on doctor phil and he read this text message to the audience and asked them to raise their hands if they thought it was right or not.

I guarantee most if not all would aggree that only a pushover would tolerate shit like that. And when you tolerate low quality behavoir you create a low quality life for yourself. Time to reevaluate some things, not just her but yourself. Because when things like this happen theres usually things before that happened that you may have swept under the carpet cause of your own insecurities.

Great post!

And as Bojangles stated, you cannot be afraid to ride the emotional rollar coaster. We have all been shit on by women (or even men in some cases)...I just accepted the fact that I got "punked" and do what I have to do. It is going to hurt, don't push away from the pain, you have to accept the pain.

The easiest way to get over a girl is to start fresh! I am not advocating you go out and **** some random girl either. I am just saying the best way to get over the old is to start with the new! Carpe diem!