Going to the bar and not getting drunk for me is like trying to go out in the rain without getting wet. I just avoid those situations and people, makes it much easier. I mean here we are Friday night, Im surfing the web watching a movie after a wicked shoulder/abs day at the gym and I feel great. cant wait to do it all again 2morrow! But Im 40, must be hard when your younger, I couldnt imagine. Ya gotta want it man.