What if you're trying NOT to Drink but going to bars, clubs and house parties???

[MACKATTACK]

So I am 25 years old and I am trying to reach my goals faster and not put my body through any greater harm while on a cycle by drinking. The problem is I am VERY social and I am always going to either bars, house parties or very very rarely clubs/lounges.

I was wondering what do you do while your out??

What are some other good places to go that do not revovle everything about drinking??

Where are there woman on a Saturday night that is not revolving around alcohol or dancing and I am not talking about church, lol........



Any ideas would help, I tried the water thing and then a group of girls grabbed me and said do a shot with us last weekend (this before I started my cycle) and I went off the deep end and was getting trashed with this group of girls and the "Jack" shot girl who obviously stopped doing her job for the night..........

[T-MOS]

so you order a club soda, and make it look like you are drinking if you are worried about what others think.

or buy a bottle of beer, go to bathroom , dump most of it and carry it around all night like you are drinking..

OR
if anyone asks, just say you are on medication right now that does not go well with alcohol and your doctor said you could DIE if you drink while on it....that should score you some COOL points

[*RAGE*]

I just act like I am drunk off my ass but been drinking unsweet tea all night and hit on every drunk chick in the bar. There is nothing wrong with taking a last call girls home...except your not drunk when she gets naked...I just throw up a bit....

[jfalco]

Been drinking non-alcoholic beverages at bars for years. No one cares. The problem is how irritating drunk people are when you are sober.

[jfalco]

I just act like I am drunk off my ass but been drinking unsweet tea all night and hit on every drunk chick in the bar. There is nothing wrong with taking a last call girls home...except your not drunk when she gets naked...I just throw up a bit....

Yup only problem with banging drunk chicks when you're sober is it's fvcking grose. Specially when they talk.

[*RAGE*]

Yup only problem with banging drunk chicks when you're sober is it's fvcking grose. Specially when they talk.

you are correct bro.....and they stink....

[stack_it]

Odouls, club soda, sprite and grenadine, or there's always the melted snowmans

[Phate]

Yup only problem with banging drunk chicks when you're sober is it's fvcking grose. Specially when they talk.

[IronReload04]

dude honestly, if some girl were not to be interested in my because I was not drinking....Believe me, thats not the girl for me.

[Hunter-S-Thompson]

[warchild]

do drugs instead...

[warchild]

just playin, have self control as tough as it is. just drink water man

[Bojangles69]

Just be the mature, responsible "supervisor friend".

You can laugh and have a good time but try to transition into the role of the person that keeps everything under control and makes sure no stupid shit goes down.

You'll find your friends will actually start looking up to you/respecting you more and you'll feel like you had more fun because of that.

[scerpico22]

i too would go out a lot and when im "On" i dont drink but man do my friends get irritated with me...i guess i get a little edgy when i dont drink and i go out a lot so they are yelling at me by week 4 or 5 to start drinkin...they know im "on" so it males it funnier...

[BritishColumbian]

Going to the bar and not getting drunk for me is like trying to go out in the rain without getting wet. I just avoid those situations and people, makes it much easier. I mean here we are Friday night, Im surfing the web watching a movie after a wicked shoulder/abs day at the gym and I feel great. cant wait to do it all again 2morrow! But Im 40, must be hard when your younger, I couldnt imagine. Ya gotta want it man.

[Bojangles69]

Yeh I hate to say it but the majority of people can't have fun at a bar/club unless they're drinking, including me.

And I honestly don't understand how sober people can still have "fun", I think their definition of fun is just different from most people.

[scerpico22]

Yeh I hate to say it but the majority of people can't have fun at a bar/club unless they're drinking, including me.

And I honestly don't understand how sober people can still have "fun", I think their definition of fun is just different from most people.

yup....what he said...

if im out...im fvcked up...period!

[Bojangles69]

Ya gotta want it man.

Yep thats def all it really comes down to, priorities.


If you wind up drunk at a bar instead of sweating in a gym you just don't want it bad enough imo

[BritishColumbian]

Yep thats def all it really comes down to, priorities.


If you wind up drunk at a bar instead of sweating in a gym you just don't want it bad enough imo

Agreed 100%

[jbm]

Act Drunk!

[jbm]

Just drink water or any non alcoholic drinks! like what superman said tell them you are ON medication...

[CBGB]

While I was in college I use to hit the bartender up when I would first get there. Ask him to make every or every other shot a water (Vodka). Kept me from getting to drunk to seal any deals. In this case tell him all your shots should be water, drink a coke but have him put it in a cocktail glass, and tip well. OR just drink water, and be the DD.

[Phate]

While I was in college I use to hit the bartender up when I would first get there. Ask him to make every or every other shot a water (Vodka). Kept me from getting to drunk to seal any deals. In this case tell him all your shots should be water, drink a coke but have him put it in a cocktail glass, and tip well. OR just drink water, and be the DD.

most clubs will give you free sodas(diet obviously) if you tell them you are the DD

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

Drink up and have a little fun!

haha, Im usually that guy. The drunk loud one. But I don't become an asshole or anything, so people love me.


Times when I choose not to drink, I just say so and people usually understand and/or respect my decision. Or like kind of previously stated, I will babysit a couple beers the entire night.

[scerpico22]

if you wanna drink...drink...if you make up your mind that you can go out and not drink then dont.

pretty simple...

mind over matter brother...