dedic8ed1 : You taking this young man under your wing is truly awesome. I wish more guys did what you are doing on this forum...Maybe the more experienced members should pick guys and help them out like you are doing. Possibly make it a competition!

OP: you have the right stuff going on bro, you have your sh1t together! FOLLOW dedic8ed's advice and know you are lucky to have such direction! Good Luck with your transformation and don't give up!