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  1. 01-19-2010, 11:31 AM #1
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    I know how you guys like a good gf problem

    Left my phone at gf's house 2 days ago.

    All the missed calls were cleared so I asked if she went through it.

    She said she just looked at the missed calls to see if I was calling looking for it.

    Then we banged that night and life went on.

    Last night I called her a pet name I usually call her and she gave me a funny look.

    As soon as that happend I knew she went through all my txt messages...because 3 days previous to me leaving my phone at her house an ex gf out of the blue sent me a txt message saying...."remember when you use-to call me (same nickname)"

    So I stared laughing and then rolled over to my side of the bed...and she kept saying "what" I just said "nothing...you just gave me a funny look" So as not to overplay my hand if I were wrong.
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    nice. just ignore it. bound to happen. i went through my girls cell last week. found nude pic of her ex. made her delete it. no biggie. lol
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    So I'm laying there in bed and the next thing she says to me is..."were you thinking of breaking up with me about a month ago." So now I'm all kinds of confused and instead of answering just keep asking her what she's talking about.

    well...about 50 messages back in my phone there is a txt from one of my friends asking if I broke up with my gf yet.

    So...basically she read every txt message in my phone.

    He was only asking if I broke up with my gf because he wants me to move to DC and knows I won't as long as I'm with her. So it had nothing to do with her...but anyway

    I refused to answer her question and told her I didn't want to talk to her anymore that night.

    She said..."you can leave then."
    so I did
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    Quote Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw View Post
    nice. just ignore it. bound to happen. i went through my girls cell last week. found nude pic of her ex. made her delete it. no biggie. lol
    I was pissed she had her way with my shit...I didn't do anything wrong to feel guilty about.
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    I told her she wasn't entitled to an explaination of the txt messages

    and she said "well, it's about me and it's kinda important"

    and I said "well, how did you come across it??? and that's why I don't owe you an explaination."

    she was crying when I left
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    no you didnt. its a touchy subject. id flip if my girl went through mine. im not hiding anything. but the lack of trust is what the issue is

    she dont trust ya. no trust... no love... no love. no reason to be with her.

    but id talk to her. explain that you felt it was disrepectful to go through your shit. especially when shes takin texts the wrong way. tell her bout the texts. put her mind at ease.

    but if something along these lines happens again... id split
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    she also lied to me about going through my phone

    we were talking about moving in together next year...I don't want her in my stuff every time I leave the house.
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    Any chick that goes through your phone deserves the boot.
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    i dont think so.
    i think 99% of all woman or men would go thru there sig. others phone if it was left long enough.
    people are curious, and non trusting...

    shit situation my friend...
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    The reason all this came out was she was talking about it with people at work about the txts and they all love to gossip...I guess the wound her up really good and made her feel really insecure. All the little signs I was on verge of breaking up with her and trying to get her to break up with me...and It's all bullshit. I'm sure they're having a field day today.

    I want to teach her a lesson without giving her the boot...how would you play it from here?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mooseman33 View Post
    i dont think so.
    i think 99% of all woman or men would go thru there sig. others phone if it was left long enough.
    people are curious, and non trusting...

    shit situation my friend...
    Agreed 100%

    It's curiosity and it will get the best of almost anyone.
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    id say... tell her gettin rid of the cell. then dont talk to her for 5 days. lol.

    she did lie. so now you can use that to your advantage..

    be like "i trusted you. i thought you were the one. i wanted to live with you. but you lied to me. you broke our trust. i think we need to slow this down so you can prove to me that your feelings for me are real."

    then she'll feel so bad... she'll do anything to make it up to you...

    like a 3some!!!!!!!!!
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    yeah kratos u can have a 3some with here and her attractive fit roomate....lol
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    she doesn't trust you because she is feeling guilty... get it??
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    technology ruins relationships.

    facebook, myspace, cell phones, text messages...

    it makes it to easy and accessable to have "options" available.......
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    Kratos, I would basically say to her what you aid in your first few posts. It seems you are a level headed guy. Take teh high road, the mature road, and tell her you know and that (if she does mean a lot to you) that you want to know why she doesnt trust you. Explain the truth to her, and tell her how you feel. If she isn't mature enough to handle it, or the way you handle it, then you have problems.

    No one around here likes to give people a chance, because they have done wrong themselves. We have all made mistakes, so give her her second chance and see if she accepts it or spites it. Either way, you come out knowing what kind of woman you're into.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicotine View Post
    technology ruins relationships.

    facebook, myspace, cell phones, text messages...

    it makes it to easy and accessable to have "options" available.......
    I agree^^^ I had some issues with that crap
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    Quote Originally Posted by dukkitdalaw View Post
    id say... tell her gettin rid of the cell. then dont talk to her for 5 days. lol.

    she did lie. so now you can use that to your advantage..

    be like "i trusted you. i thought you were the one. i wanted to live with you. but you lied to me. you broke our trust. i think we need to slow this down so you can prove to me that your feelings for me are real."

    then she'll feel so bad... she'll do anything to make it up to you...

    like a 3some!!!!!!!!!
    your so ****en funny ha
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    She's insecure. Were past bf's unfaithful to her?

    I think all this going through phones, emails and facebook PM's is childish. I had it with my gf recently. She went through my PM inbox because she didnt believe me when I told her about a conversation with my ex. I even gave her the chance to log into my facebook, but she took it apon herself to do it anyway. She knew my password. I have nothing to hide and she saw that.

    Its insecurity. Do you talk of make references to ex's often?
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    My wife goes through my phone every damn chance she gets...... She thinks I don't know but she makes references to shit thats only on my phone. One day I decided that I was going to go through hers - I knew something wasn't right for her to be going through mine..... thats when I found out she had an addiction problem.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazard View Post
    My wife goes through my phone every damn chance she gets...... She thinks I don't know but she makes references to shit thats only on my phone. One day I decided that I was going to go through hers - I knew something wasn't right for her to be going through mine..... thats when I found out she had an addiction problem.....

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    What kind of addiction problem?
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    Quote Originally Posted by RANA View Post
    What kind of addiction problem?
    Pain killers.....

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    i dont get it........phone shouldnt be private to ur partner.....I have nothing in my phone that my wife cant see.......i dont know why u guys do it this way....
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i dont get it........phone shouldnt be private to ur partner.....I have nothing in my phone that my wife cant see.......i dont know why u guys do it this way....
    There is a difference between wife and gf. My wife has all my passwords to all my accounts, I have nothing to hide, but if I was single and had a gf its none of her business
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    i dont get it........phone shouldnt be private to ur partner.....I have nothing in my phone that my wife cant see.......i dont know why u guys do it this way....
    says the guy who talks about cheating on his wife with fat chicks on here
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    says the guy who talks about cheating on his wife with fat chicks on here
    oh here yeah but on my phone nothing that she cant see.....I talk about lot of stuff here she knows it and dont care......but I have nothing on my phone and never was that i wanted to hide from her......
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    Quote Originally Posted by RANA View Post
    There is a difference between wife and gf. My wife has all my passwords to all my accounts, I have nothing to hide, but if I was single and had a gf its none of her business
    my question would be if you were single why would you have only ONE GF????
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    my question would be if you were single why would you have only ONE GF????
    True, that's why she couldn't see my phone, too much stuff on it
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    oh here yeah but on my phone nothing that she cant see.....I talk about lot of stuff here she knows it and dont care......but I have nothing on my phone and never was that i wanted to hide from her......
    wow, your way of doing things sounds so much more honest. I shouldn't have to fanatically delete my inbox to make sure she doesn't take anything the wrong way.

    Not to mention I don't want her seaching my underwear drawer ect...
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    and cal, if she knows you cheat and does nothing she must have the self esteem of a slug...

    most of us would be audi 5000
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    wow, your way of doing things sounds so much more honest. I shouldn't have to fanatically delete my inbox to make sure she doesn't take anything the wrong way.

    Not to mention I don't want her seaching my underwear drawer ect...
    i dont have or got anything on my phone that wont want her to see...she can see my phone anytime and as far as underwear draw goes she puts in all the underwears after washing them to I cant hide anything in there anyway...my point is if u have something to hide on the phone dont leave it to ur gf.....thats all not being honest here but its just me.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    and cal, if she knows you cheat and does nothing she must have the self esteem of a slug...

    most of us would be audi 5000
    I let u guys think that I cheat........think what u like all io am saying if u have something to hide dont leave ur phone at ur gf...thats all or dont leave anything in the phone so she can see it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RANA View Post
    True, that's why she couldn't see my phone, too much stuff on it
    on that I will agree with you.......
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    I let u guys think that I cheat........think what u like all io am saying if u have something to hide dont leave ur phone at ur gf...thats all or dont leave anything in the phone so she can see it.
    I have nothing to hide...I take issue with the active snooping
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    I have nothing to hide...I take issue with the active snooping
    put a password on the damn thing......my boss has a password to unlock there end of theproblem.....

    did u went through her phone?
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    I let u guys think that I cheat.
    are you stating all the gf's you talk about
    conquests and anal exploits are all a lie?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    are you stating all the gf's you talk about
    conquests and anal exploits are all a lie?
    did it sound like a lie?
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    Quote Originally Posted by calgarian View Post
    did it sound like a lie?
    either you're trying to be someone you're not with us her or maybe both...I'm not sure it matters.
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