Problems with my girl

[Abominator]

Classic sign of unfaithfulness.

[Noles12]

Classic sign of unfaithfulness.

How so?

I really would be shocked if this one was unfaithful. I have been with many girls but this one is old fashioned. She wouldnt be able to go 5 minutes after cheating without running to tell me

[Vettester]

Could it be hormones? My wife went through a similar deal and it turned out her BC pills were the culprit. Her doc switched it up on her pills and my wife went back to her normal horny self.

[Noles12]

Could it be hormones? My wife went through a similar deal and it turned out her BC pills were the culprit. Her doc switched it up on her pills and my wife went back to her normal horny self.

We talked about that. She has been on yaz for over a year and i think it was affecting it She was put on because she had a five week period (very crazy time) it stopped the period and things were fine. Recently we thought that was it so she switched to a new one about a month ago and there was no change. So now she has tried to stop completely. But only a week into stopping she was having bleeding again.

[ultra40]

We talked about that. She has been on yaz for over a year and i think it was affecting it She was put on because she had a five week period (very crazy time) it stopped the period and things were fine. Recently we thought that was it so she switched to a new one about a month ago and there was no change. So now she has tried to stop completely. But only a week into stopping she was having bleeding again.

I think its the BC (YAZ). Yaz did the same thing to my long time Gf and even caused some depression that had never been evident. Try having her switch or get off it completely for awhile that solved the problem for us.

[Noles12]

I think its the BC (YAZ). Yaz did the same thing to my long time Gf and even caused some depression that had never been evident. Try having her switch or get off it completely for awhile that solved the problem for us.

Yep she was on Yaz and for the first 6 months-1year or so there was no problems but its been downhill since with it. I dont know what one she got switched to but she got it changed for the minor acne that started to show up that i guess yaz wasnt stopping anymore. so it could still be doing the same thing too because the doctor didnt prescribe her one with her sex drive in mind.

So i guess time will tell with the whole getting off completely thing. How long did it take for you to notice the sex drive coming back?

[Times Roman]

Could it be hormones? My wife went through a similar deal and it turned out her BC pills were the culprit. Her doc switched it up on her pills and my wife went back to her normal horny self.

True. It could very well be her bc pills. But OP has mentioned in other threads that she has other hang ups that go beyond a lack of libido. And that would have nothing to do with wrong BC Pill.

[Times Roman]

How so?

I really would be shocked if this one was unfaithful. I have been with many girls but this one is old fashioned. She wouldnt be able to go 5 minutes after cheating without running to tell me

The abominator is not being serious. He's messing with you.

[cherrydrpepper]

Classic sign of unfaithfulness.

This is a long thread and im probably going to read it all but I wanted to respond really quickly while I had some thoughts together.

I believe your girl is being unfaithful too.

I just don't believe that young red blooded american girls stop wanting to have sex spontaneously. If she isn't cheating on you physically yet she is cheating on you in her mind aka trying to get on another guy that she seems to just have an innocent relationship with.

I don't know why women are weak like this. Actually i guess guys are bigger assholes. But the truth is, they will do stuff like stay with a guy because "it'd be a big pain to move out right now" and shit like that. I have had two long term relationships. The first was almost 7 years and the girl cheated on me but I deserved it because I was an asshole and trying to get on other girls and she found out about it. She was exactly the way you describe with not wanting to have sex and wanting it to be done as quick as possible etc. The second time I made the mistake of dating a whore. I mean someone who was such a whore that I took her to meet my parents and my dad said and I quote "I can't believe you brought trash like that to my house" (she had big tits, abs, nice body and was a great lay)

Im not telling you for sure your girl is cheating on you, but basically.. the best case scenario is that shit i said about shes already cheating on you in her mind. She may be physically cheating on you. And this is coming from someone whos been cheated on.