Quote Originally Posted by cherrydrpepper View Post
This is a long thread and im probably going to read it all but I wanted to respond really quickly while I had some thoughts together.

I believe your girl is being unfaithful too.

I just don't believe that young red blooded american girls stop wanting to have sex spontaneously. If she isn't cheating on you physically yet she is cheating on you in her mind aka trying to get on another guy that she seems to just have an innocent relationship with.

I don't know why women are weak like this. Actually i guess guys are bigger assholes. But the truth is, they will do stuff like stay with a guy because "it'd be a big pain to move out right now" and shit like that. I have had two long term relationships. The first was almost 7 years and the girl cheated on me but I deserved it because I was an asshole and trying to get on other girls and she found out about it. She was exactly the way you describe with not wanting to have sex and wanting it to be done as quick as possible etc. The second time I made the mistake of dating a whore. I mean someone who was such a whore that I took her to meet my parents and my dad said and I quote "I can't believe you brought trash like that to my house" (she had big tits, abs, nice body and was a great lay)

Im not telling you for sure your girl is cheating on you, but basically.. the best case scenario is that shit i said about shes already cheating on you in her mind. She may be physically cheating on you. And this is coming from someone whos been cheated on.
When it comes to this, I have been cheated on before and this just doesnt show those signs. I mean if you met this girl she thinks that talking to other people can be considered cheating and there is no way she can keep anything from me. She just wouldnt be able to do it.

Right now i think there are just a lot of other issues that are making her like this. Im not going to rule out anything completely. I just really couldnt see that being the issue.

I mean i just dont get it. Last night i see her for the first time in a week and she has a friend in town and we all go out to get drinks. We go back to the apartment and her and the friend are drunk. I figure since she has 2 other beds in the apartment (roommates out of town) and another friend and a roommate sleeping in one bed, that the friend will just go sleep in one open bed and i will stay with my girlfriend.

Nope of course not. She tells me that she would feel bad to make her friend sleep alone in another room. I was like are you kidding me. Then she says im not gonna be your booty call or something like that. So i just leave and go home and let her sleep with the friend.

It just seems like something else is popping up everyday with this.

Quote Originally Posted by redz View Post
I thought there was something wrong with my wife because she just didnt want it much than I realized it was just because it's too hot lately and we don`t have air conditioning, it's been like 100 degrees all week and the first time it was cooler she jumped on top of me before I woke up. Now I will be getting air conditioning asap.
This was somewhat of an excuse from her too. I bulked up and she tells me once that she doesnt want to do anything because i get too hot and sweat too easy. I just feel like it is another excuse for her to get out of it