While your argument does have some merit, most of us are not average males. Your stats say 5'9" @ 165lbs. I'm 6'5" @ 250lbs bro plus I surf almost everyday with lifting and life's other challenges.
Argument aside remembering back to undergrad days ACSM standards are 18-22 calories per day per pound of body weight (check my numbers fellas i'm running off memory) to increase in lean mass. With that equation, your numbers are a bit low and an ACTIVE male looking to gain lean muscle mass should consume somewhere around 3600-4400 calories per day.