Losing muscle... and the girl i like :(

[stack_it]

This is what you should do for starters. Stay distant until Thursday if she texts be short if she calls be short. On Thursday wait until about an hour or so before you're supposed to go over there and send her this text. "can't make it tonight." When she says why say "something came up" nothing else. Make her keep asking questions. When she says what say "you gotta help a friend with some things." when she says who say a friend from work or school whichever just say it's someone she doesn't know. Then leave it at that. If she keeps texting just simply say can't talk right now...busy.

Doing that will get her mind started. She's a woman the mind runs a million miles an hour. When Friday rolls around let her be the first to contact you. If she asks you to come over say you already have plans to gp to your friends party. If she asks to go say it's a guys night. Don't say where it is or what you're gonna be doing. Just say you're not sure where it is you're riding with your friend from work. Don't talk to her at all after the time of the party just go and have a good time and get your mind off it. On Saturday if you talk to her and she asks what you dis then tell her you were hammered and don't really remember much don't lie or make things up, just don't tell her anything really. Then give us an update.


Keep in mind that it will not go exactly like this but her reactions will be similar to these and you should make yours similar to what I suggested. If they're exactly what I wrote then let me know I'll go write a book lol.

I would gp about it a slightly more assholish way if it were me but you sound like a hopeless romantic nice guy so if you went full asshole off the line she would know somethings up.


I may also have to change some of this last post in the morning since I'm half asleep right now.

[calgarian]

This is what you should do for starters. Stay distant until Thursday if she texts be short if she calls be short. On Thursday wait until about an hour or so before you're supposed to go over there and send her this text. "can't make it tonight." When she says why say "something came up" nothing else. Make her keep asking questions. When she says what say "you gotta help a friend with some things." when she says who say a friend from work or school whichever just say it's someone she doesn't know. Then leave it at that. If she keeps texting just simply say can't talk right now...busy.

Doing that will get her mind started. She's a woman the mind runs a million miles an hour. When Friday rolls around let her be the first to contact you. If she asks you to come over say you already have plans to gp to your friends party. If she asks to go say it's a guys night. Don't say where it is or what you're gonna be doing. Just say you're not sure where it is you're riding with your friend from work. Don't talk to her at all after the time of the party just go and have a good time and get your mind off it. On Saturday if you talk to her and she asks what you dis then tell her you were hammered and don't really remember much don't lie or make things up, just don't tell her anything really. Then give us an update.


Keep in mind that it will not go exactly like this but her reactions will be similar to these and you should make yours similar to what I suggested. If they're exactly what I wrote then let me know I'll go write a book lol.

I would gp about it a slightly more assholish way if it were me but you sound like a hopeless romantic nice guy so if you went full asshole off the line she would know somethings up.


I may also have to change some of this last post in the morning since I'm half asleep right now.

u can co write the book after my thread "if you are in it for the fvck of it" ppl told me that i needed a book...remember

[stack_it]

Ditto...cant leave me alone can u


what can i say girls love assholes always leave them wanting more......

You know if I'm talking about assholes you're gonna be brought up.

u forgot "its not you its me "speech

Yeah that'll be there

u can co write the book after my thread "if you are in it for the fvck of it" ppl told me that i needed a book...remember

We should just make the "official stack_it and calgarian relationship help thread" and charge a five dollar cover. Haz you can be the doorman lol

[calgarian]

You know if I'm talking about assholes you're gonna be brought up.





Yeah that'll be there



We should just make the "official stack_it and calgarian relationship help thread" and charge a five dollar cover. Haz you can be the doorman lol

you got urself a deal....u start it i will be there.oh and no hopelessly romantic male allowed.

[ReX357]

you got urself a deal....u start it i will be there.oh and no hopelessly romantic male allowed.

I'll be throwing my 2 cents in, that's for sure.

[calgarian]

I'll be throwing my 2 cents in, that's for sure.

look up "if you are in it for the fvck of it" most ppl didnt like it cause i was being an ass.......read and let me know...dont bump it cuase i get hate msg from shallow judgmental ppl, not that i give a fvck

[ReX357]

look up "if you are in it for the fvck of it" most ppl didnt like it cause i was being an ass.......read and let me know...dont bump it cuase i get hate msg from shallow judgmental ppl, not that i give a fvck

Seen it, replied to it, agreed with it. You, me and stack have the same mentality about women, but you guys don't include me in your little group. You're both racist cause I'm french. Whatever, I don't wanna be friends with you guys anyways.

[Hazard]

This is what you should do for starters. Stay distant until Thursday if she texts be short if she calls be short. On Thursday wait until about an hour or so before you're supposed to go over there and send her this text. "can't make it tonight." When she says why say "something came up" nothing else. Make her keep asking questions. When she says what say "you gotta help a friend with some things." when she says who say a friend from work or school whichever just say it's someone she doesn't know. Then leave it at that. If she keeps texting just simply say can't talk right now...busy.

Doing that will get her mind started. She's a woman the mind runs a million miles an hour. When Friday rolls around let her be the first to contact you. If she asks you to come over say you already have plans to gp to your friends party. If she asks to go say it's a guys night. Don't say where it is or what you're gonna be doing. Just say you're not sure where it is you're riding with your friend from work. Don't talk to her at all after the time of the party just go and have a good time and get your mind off it. On Saturday if you talk to her and she asks what you dis then tell her you were hammered and don't really remember much don't lie or make things up, just don't tell her anything really. Then give us an update.


Keep in mind that it will not go exactly like this but her reactions will be similar to these and you should make yours similar to what I suggested. If they're exactly what I wrote then let me know I'll go write a book lol.

I would gp about it a slightly more assholish way if it were me but you sound like a hopeless romantic nice guy so if you went full asshole off the line she would know somethings up.


I may also have to change some of this last post in the morning since I'm half asleep right now.

This is the best piece of advice in this thread! There's really nothing about it I would change...... honestly..... it's how i'd handle this situation.

You need to take control of the situation. Right now.... the ball is in her court. She's the one who wants to talk. She's the one who told you to not be worried. She's the one who picked the day to meet. YOU need to be the one to break the plan and resume control. If not.... you are setting yourself up for failure.

Regarding your training..... you either have it in you or you dont! If my wife slept with 10 guys and spent every dime of ours..... I'd want to kill her LMAO but I'd be MORE intense in the gym! NO ONE can take away your intensity but yourself..... if you let her keep you out of the gym then you have no one to blame but yourself.

~Haz~

[sandman1441]

This is what you should do for starters. Stay distant until Thursday if she texts be short if she calls be short. On Thursday wait until about an hour or so before you're supposed to go over there and send her this text. "can't make it tonight." When she says why say "something came up" nothing else. Make her keep asking questions. When she says what say "you gotta help a friend with some things." when she says who say a friend from work or school whichever just say it's someone she doesn't know. Then leave it at that. If she keeps texting just simply say can't talk right now...busy.

Doing that will get her mind started. She's a woman the mind runs a million miles an hour. When Friday rolls around let her be the first to contact you. If she asks you to come over say you already have plans to gp to your friends party. If she asks to go say it's a guys night. Don't say where it is or what you're gonna be doing. Just say you're not sure where it is you're riding with your friend from work. Don't talk to her at all after the time of the party just go and have a good time and get your mind off it. On Saturday if you talk to her and she asks what you dis then tell her you were hammered and don't really remember much don't lie or make things up, just don't tell her anything really. Then give us an update.


Keep in mind that it will not go exactly like this but her reactions will be similar to these and you should make yours similar to what I suggested. If they're exactly what I wrote then let me know I'll go write a book lol.

I would gp about it a slightly more assholish way if it were me but you sound like a hopeless romantic nice guy so if you went full asshole off the line she would know somethings up.


I may also have to change some of this last post in the morning since I'm half asleep right now.

so this mans a genius i just went to my note pad copy and pasted this and im about to read it about 6 more times to imprint it into my brain you should really wright a book or something about relationships cause this was probably the best piece of advice ive seen/gotta in awhile mad props

[calgarian]

this man right here speaks the truth,The person in the relationship who care the less is the one who's in control so act like you care for her for about a month and then flip the script on her and act like you don't give a flying **** about her and i guarantee she'll come running back and if she doesn't then that means she doesn't give two shits about you or your feelings but if she does come back on her hands and knees and shows you how much she appreciates you then keep her around because obviously she cares,but if that milk turns sour throw that shit out

so this mans a genius i just went to my note pad copy and pasted this and im about to read it about 6 more times to imprint it into my brain you should really wright a book or something about relationships cause this was probably the best piece of advice ive seen/gotta in awhile mad props

Stack u got a stalker and its not dsm