Quote Originally Posted by stack_it View Post
This is what you should do for starters. Stay distant until Thursday if she texts be short if she calls be short. On Thursday wait until about an hour or so before you're supposed to go over there and send her this text. "can't make it tonight." When she says why say "something came up" nothing else. Make her keep asking questions. When she says what say "you gotta help a friend with some things." when she says who say a friend from work or school whichever just say it's someone she doesn't know. Then leave it at that. If she keeps texting just simply say can't talk right now...busy.

Doing that will get her mind started. She's a woman the mind runs a million miles an hour. When Friday rolls around let her be the first to contact you. If she asks you to come over say you already have plans to gp to your friends party. If she asks to go say it's a guys night. Don't say where it is or what you're gonna be doing. Just say you're not sure where it is you're riding with your friend from work. Don't talk to her at all after the time of the party just go and have a good time and get your mind off it. On Saturday if you talk to her and she asks what you dis then tell her you were hammered and don't really remember much don't lie or make things up, just don't tell her anything really. Then give us an update.


Keep in mind that it will not go exactly like this but her reactions will be similar to these and you should make yours similar to what I suggested. If they're exactly what I wrote then let me know I'll go write a book lol.

I would gp about it a slightly more assholish way if it were me but you sound like a hopeless romantic nice guy so if you went full asshole off the line she would know somethings up.


I may also have to change some of this last post in the morning since I'm half asleep right now.
u can co write the book after my thread "if you are in it for the fvck of it" ppl told me that i needed a book...remember