
Originally Posted by
TimesOldRoman
Yeh and I think I heard you just came back from vacation so the freshness of being away from your family is prob stressful enough too. Although I doubt you wanna come off like you're bitching and complaining all the time so you prob keep a lot of that stuff to yourself. I just know even though you get use to being away from your them it never really becomes "easy" like people think. Theres always a certain degree of stress present just from being away from them all the time. And although the vacations rock the back to life part is never fun.
Well I don't really know. Perception is a tricky thing so if you're saying you're not then you would obviously know better than me.
Yes all very true. Can not argue that and I've seen you do it. I see what you're saying now but it also seems like you're telling another member how they should post, and what their daily posting regime should be just because its what benefits or satisfies you. Balance that is. A little time here a little time there, don't just play and bs all the time but spend some time learning and being serious in other forums. I have to say ideally that’s usually the best idea, but some peoples personalities are really so outside yourself you will find that what benefits you can sometimes be torture for them.
But I DO see loud and clear what you're saying. I just wish you said this a few months ago to DSM. I'm not trying to side with anyone here cause that alone will prob create resentments between people, but I like sholvas personality too much to ever criticize the guy. Maybe that’s where we differ. DSM on the other hand I find extremely arrogant and annoying. Hes always being a pest to newbies and gets off on it (correcting spelling whenever he can or answering them condescendingly in a manner totally nonrelated to the topic) so the second I saw him doing obviously I had to speak up. Sholva on the other hand you can reason with and talk things through, he has ears and uses them, so hopefully you 2 will work this out.
I think if that’s true it would be more a good thing than a bad thing. You have a knack of inflaming people because you yourself are secure and don't take huge offense to things, so naturally you expect other people to be that way too… everything can be talked about maturely, no need for petty school yard fights, and that’s how you may expect other people to be too.. just that sometimes you find otherwise lol. And I assume you're being honest merely cause you don't have a history for attacking peoples orientation. The second something gets off track you diffuse things fast like you're doing now.
I agree 100%.
Yep and we even have evolutionary theories that can explain homosexuality as having a functional purpose in evolution. Like the idea that men are having sex with men as "practice" to get better with women. Even though that sounds like a dumb concept there is still a wealth of way better theories that can frame homosexuality as serving evolution vs inhibiting it. I just can't recall any others right now.
Uh oh a pm eh? Haha. Yeh I won't bother with that. We've always had that problem on the internet and I guess it will never stop. People have a very hard time seeing "dimension" in other people or "depth". Like if I insult a gay person today, to them I'm a gay hater for the rest of my life, there is no inbetween or gray area on the internet. If I make a joke or insult women, I become a misogynist for the rest of my life. Those extremist thinkers can never see the side of me that worships women and basically lives to please them. Once people fill in those gaps they tend to cement that shit shut and no other alternative explanations are welcome at that point. I guess its all part of ignorance and being human.
Anyway I hope you didn't piss sholva off to the point he left cause he seems to have disappeared for the night now. Hope you guys squash this shit and get back to whoring asap. AR has much bigger problems to worry about… like that guy Bo lol.