
Originally Posted by
First Timer 42
Totally understand Roman.
All the gay shit on here is really annoying, sometimes disgusting.
But then I´m thinking, my references to women, and sexual stories, might be just as disgusting to them.
But I agree with Roman in that, when u´re gay, it seems like everything in their lives is about gayness.
I noticed that for the first time, moving from Europe to Miami Beach, where I lived for 3 years.
I couldn´t help noticing that heterosexual couples acted "normal", while homosexual couple, or individuals had this need to expose their sexuality, and act so overly flamboyant. We all know the annoying little 4 year old attention cravers that go, "look at me, look at me, look at me". That´s how the gay´s were acting.
I feel like telling them, ok dude, I see u, you´re gay, and that´s great, but I´m not gay, so u can relax, act normal, chill, put your shirt on, it´´ll be ok, ...lol
Walk down Ocean drive, and it´s very obvious where the gay bar is.
Made a few gay friends while living there, and was wondering why they could´t just be themselves, I felt many of them were living in character, in some gay character they had created...really weird.
Not flaming at all guys, just how my experience was when I arrived, and I know now, South Beach and Key West might have the more flamboyant gays.
I´m wondering, why does being gay have to be so sexual?
Why can´t it be, just the orientation?
Why does it have to consume their lives, and like Roman say, be referred to in a sexual way so much?