Relationship lulls

[PitMaster]

bro i respect you wanting to stay around till she is better but you need to go now. There is never going to be a good time to leave. She may get better but then you will be afraid to leave cause she might bounce back, unfortunately it sounds like it is over. You need to take care of yourself.

The funny thing is I love her and it's hope. I can see her getting better. I know that as I have gotten better things around me look brighter. Hope is a dangerous thing, Hope can drive a man Insane. (shawshank) I can't make a crass decision yet, I'm absorbing all this and gonna play it by ear and try and talk it out. I once tried to will someone to live...didn't quite work. BUt I didn't stop trying. For now I'm gonna cling to hope and maybe see about some threesomes or something. I'll throw it out there in a joking way and see how she responds. lol

[gixxerboy1]

The funny thing is I love her and it's hope. I can see her getting better. I know that as I have gotten better things around me look brighter. Hope is a dangerous thing, Hope can drive a man Insane. (shawshank) I can't make a crass decision yet, I'm absorbing all this and gonna play it by ear and try and talk it out. I once tried to will someone to live...didn't quite work. BUt I didn't stop trying. For now I'm gonna cling to hope and maybe see about some threesomes or something. I'll throw it out there in a joking way and see how she responds. lol

i know bud. I left my wife about 10 months ago, I kept hoping things would get better but they didnt. Finally i said enough is enough and moved out. After i got settled in my new place i was like a new man. I looked back and couldn't believe how miserable i was for so long.

[PitMaster]

i know bud. I left my wife about 10 months ago, I kept hoping things would get better but they didnt. Finally i said enough is enough and moved out. After i got settled in my new place i was like a new man. I looked back and couldn't believe how miserable i was for so long.

Made my heart skip a beat...Man u got some balls. your killin me with that statement. AT some point was there no more humor in each of your lives? I still laugh here and there. I don't wanna maker her out to be the bad guy, I think it's most my fault. I don't even know what to say that statement, u got kids too? I have none.

[gixxerboy1]

Made my heart skip a beat...Man u got some balls. your killin me with that statement. AT some point was there no more humor in each of your lives? I still laugh here and there. I don't wanna maker her out to be the bad guy, I think it's most my fault. I don't even know what to say that statement, u got kids too? I have none.

no kids. Not saying we hated each other. We still spent time together, did stuff together had sex. But we fought or didnt get along more then we did. Not everything was her fault either. But the fights and issues feed off each other. We went to counseling once. Things werent going to get better. So i could have staid and been miserable 25 days a month or leave and be happy 30 days.

i'd have to search on here but i made a thread when i left here. I didnt bad mouth her at all. But it was all saying how much of a difference i can see in myself. And i really didnt even know how miserable i was at the time.

[gixxerboy1]

And you never know what can happen. We didnt see each other once for 6 months after i left. We only talked if we had to about a bill or something. Now we talk and text pretty often and talk as friends. We are living in different states now but we have talked about trying again. So who knows.

[PitMaster]

And you never know what can happen. We didnt see each other once for 6 months after i left. We only talked if we had to about a bill or something. Now we talk and text pretty often and talk as friends. We are living in different states now but we have talked about trying again. So who knows.

Maybe distance is a good thing, I hope u get waht u want , all this sounds so broken hearted to me. I gonna keep this under my hat. she be home in a sec. so i'm changing this page until she crashes. I have much respect for you and your strength and thanks for sharing such personal stuff.

[PitMaster]

no kids. Not saying we hated each other. We still spent time together, did stuff together had sex. But we fought or didnt get along more then we did. Not everything was her fault either. But the fights and issues feed off each other. We went to counseling once. Things werent going to get better. So i could have staid and been miserable 25 days a month or leave and be happy 30 days.

i'd have to search on here but i made a thread when i left here. I didnt bad mouth her at all. But it was all saying how much of a difference i can see in myself. And i really didnt even know how miserable i was at the time.

I see..I would like to read through it. My heart goes out to u man. No small task.